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Girls who flirt
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Posted 11/8/11
Just wondering why girls tend to flirt, and in the end they are not interested in having a relationship?
It's as if they want to make a guy feel special or that he has a chance with her, then when he finally gets the balls to tell her his feelings, she's not interested in having anything more than a friendship with him?

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Posted 11/8/11 , edited 11/8/11
I have a friend who flirted with some men specifically because they were rich before she met her boyfriend. What can I say other than some women can be downright shallow, as can some men. =_= And Idk, maybe the girl(s) you were talking to wasn't/weren't like that. In any case, learn some of the most typical signs a shallow bitch might display, and avoid at all costs. Hopefully, you'll be better off.
Posted 11/8/11
I just commit rape. In my defense: "She came on to me"
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a man can never understand what goes on in a females mind, i to have asked that question but their response, "try harder next time"
Posted 11/8/11 , edited 11/9/11

redlinerenegade wrote:

Just wondering why girls tend to flirt, and in the end they are not interested in having a relationship?
It's as if they want to make a guy feel special or that he has a chance with her, then when he finally gets the balls to tell her his feelings, she's not interested in having anything more than a friendship with him?

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I think girls have a dead-end mind with everything. This is because they have an innate belief that they're perfect and know what they want. I don't mean that in a conceited way at all. They're creatures who have an aversion to blatant expressions who much rather prefer having an unspoken attraction to people.

They're very sensitive. Once the attraction is expressed it makes things feel out of hand. Don't talk much and just be there. They'll without any words or active thought acknowledge their attraction and naturally want to be around you all the time.

This explains a woman's vagueness in everything and the reason they don't like pushiness. They're dignified and like to absorb things at a pace especially for them.

Whenever they do rush they end up regretting. Hence the instantaneous lets be friends after a "moment". This is a major reason women can seem to be fickle.
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I guess some girls are more touchy and friendly with certain ppl, which makes me confused >.<'
in my situation my coworker and I have a great working relationship, we joke around, touch one another 'non sexual ways' poke each other, share food and drinks, constantly smile at each other, and I know she had two serious relationships b4, and just got out of one a month ago, and told me she isnt looking. so yesterday i tell her I like her, and she says shes having fun being single but she still has feelings for her previous 2 ex's. wassup wit dat?
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it's simple: girls flit to get attention they don't really want becasue it gives them a self-esteam lift.

they think: "if i was totally ugly, fat etc then that guy wouldn't of displayed his feelings for me"

the messed up logic of the female mind
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Posted 11/9/11
Perhaps it's a matter of you "misreading the signs". Object affection can be a tricky bastard to fight - otherwise, I don't think girls who "flirt" per se intentionally try to get the better of you. Some girls just tend to be more "touchy" than others, and if you interpret that as "flirting", then I guess you're the one who'll end up biting the dust when in fact she does turn you down.

Flirting in the strictest sense of the word is something YOU do, personally - because you know you're doing it. If you want to figure out if she's really "flirting" with you, why not ask her? Make it an indirect question or throw it into some playful banter to put her on the spot. How she reacts is testament to what she thinks she's really doing, be it flirting or not.
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Posted 11/9/11
Hey redline. Remember me?
I still have those pictures you sent me.

I think about you all the time.
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Posted 11/9/11
Well I am a girl. And I have a lot of guy friends... Just becose they are fun to hang out with. And I am a very touching and hugging kind of girl. But sometimes I think people confuse it with flirting.. But it's really not my intention to send of signals like that. So I think it's just the way you pick up those signs. It doesn't mean the girls are flirting. Maybe you just read the signs as flirting.

Every girl flirts in a different way. Not just touching and joking around... I am the type who would get nervous and be shy instead of the usual hugging. I hope this helped you understand it a but more.

Btw: There are some girls who flirt all the time... But there are also boys like that..
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Posted 11/9/11
Just because they flirt doesn't mean that they are a slut. Just because dudes flirt doesn't mean they are playa's.
Posted 11/9/11
I just flirt to be friendly anyway and I dish out compliments where compliments are deserved Its easier when the guy flirts with you coz then he can easily see if you're interested or not by you either flirting back or not.
Posted 11/9/11
Men do that all the time when they're single.
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Posted 11/9/11

redlinerenegade wrote:

I guess some girls are more touchy and friendly with certain ppl, which makes me confused >.<'
in my situation my coworker and I have a great working relationship, we joke around, touch one another 'non sexual ways' poke each other, share food and drinks, constantly smile at each other, and I know she had two serious relationships b4, and just got out of one a month ago, and told me she isnt looking. so yesterday i tell her I like her, and she says shes having fun being single but she still has feelings for her previous 2 ex's. wassup wit dat?


Some girls tend to use boys, or adults like yourself as a stepping stone to happiness and boosted confidence.
They will infact treat you like a priority in their life, but they tend to let go when you treat them like they wanted you too.
I suggest getting more in-depth with her, your body speaks to her but emotionally doesn't sound like it.

And man, read what you said.
Sound's like she sees you as a friend, and your relationship looks like friends.



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Woman want to be loved by everyone.
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