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How do you feel Friends?
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Posted 11/13/11
I feel like sometimes i'm surrounded by my best friends but other days i feel like i'm just using people for my own self satisfaction. I have really strict parents so if i manage to escape home on a weekend and i go to a friend's house, i either have a great time and we have lots of fun or i feel like i don't even care if the person is there, i'm just using them to escape my every day life. I will admit i am a but wierd so it might just be me but are these people friends or are they people i just people that are able to be used.

What are you're thoughts about this? Do you ever feel like this? Whats the relationship between you and your friends?

Feel free to share or if not just have a think about it.....
Posted 11/13/11
Well if you have a goodtime with them, and taken such a liking to them this does mean that your friends, and when you feel like your using then this must be because your feeling moody or down and just want to get out of the house. Cause that's how i feel sometimes and Im pretty close to my friends, so I think this is quite normal.
Posted 11/13/11
People your age shouldn't worry about this stuff.
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Posted 11/13/11
well i definitely use my friends to escape, but i wouldnt use that word
i turn to them whenever i want to escape from parents like you and other things, but isnt that what friends are for?
and in any case, my real life friends use me even more than i do
they use me as a laughing source and i dont mind it at all
not even when im not real friends with them and they are just classmates
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Posted 11/13/11
I couldn't explain it scientifically. Call it spiritual on the matter. Makes the ordeal a whoolllllle lot easier.
Posted 11/13/11
My friends are my friends because they make me want to escape my boring lifestyle. Ha ha, I can't even hang out with them though, so no problem.
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Posted 11/13/11
The people I usually hang around with are an okay few. I enjoy being around them for a bit but to be honest I'm just using them so that I don't feel like I am totally secluded from society.
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Posted 11/13/11
As long as it's a mutual friendship, it doesn't really matter who use who. It's a win-win situation.

When you enjoy yourself and be happy, your friend does as well. So don't fret on it.
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Posted 11/13/11
Of course I use my friends. That's what they're there for
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23 / F / SA
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Posted 11/13/11 , edited 11/13/11
I do use my best friend when i'm in need to, I mean seriously? why are you my best friend then? She can use me, i can use her (which is sound so wrong) but i guess you got my point
Posted 11/13/11 , edited 11/13/11
nahhh, it's hard to find good friends these days.
Posted 11/13/11
Yeah sometimes I'd go to my friends as a form of escapism from whatever that's bothering me. Lately I've been coming to my friends to help rid of my lonely feeling and to catch up with them. As long as you're not doing it selfish reasons, I don't think you should let it bother you. Your friends could be doing the same.
Posted 11/13/11
how do i feel? i feel like crap and i feel like crying
Posted 11/26/11
Definitely not from behind.
Posted 11/26/11
I feel like trolling my friends everyday maybe I should give them a gift to commemorate my trolling.
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