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Dating for "fun?"
Posted 11/19/11 , edited 11/19/11
The thought has never occurred to me. I could and have had fun on dates, but there was always a reason I was there. I wanted to get to know the person. If I liked them, I wanted to see them again, and one day date them exclusively.

But I know there are people who date without the intent of ever having a boyfriend or girlfriend. That doesn't necessarily mean they're in it for sex, does it? Please enlighten me. What is the difference between dating someone for fun and hanging out with a friend or acquaintance, if any?

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Posted 11/19/11
Nothing. But if a girl want's to date me for "fun" we can...if she will fuck me and only me. FUN! =D
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Posted 11/19/11
dating includes: holding hands, kissing, ect
Friends include: None of the above

You could do the same things with friends but its kinda whorish soooo you get a bf/gf to do it with and only with them
Posted 11/19/11

Dropplet wrote:

dating includes: holding hands, kissing, ect
Friends include: None of the above

You could do the same things with friends but its kinda whorish soooo you get a bf/gf to do it with and only with them


Lol, not to mention the fact that holding hands/kissing friends would turn them into friends with benefits - again, two different things. Ugh, I still don't get it. DX

Posted 11/20/11 , edited 11/20/11
I doubt there are many girls interested in going on a date without interest in a relationship or just sex. Maybe 1 in 500?
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Posted 11/20/11

underlock wrote:

I doubt there are many girls interested in going on a date without interest in a relationship or just sex. Maybe 1 in 500?


You don't know..

Anyways, dating for fun, I've done it in the past, and all I can say is it just feels like going out with friends(of opposite gender of course). Then again, if people does more than dating (like sex), then it's turned into like someone above posted, friends with benefits.
Posted 11/20/11 , edited 11/20/11
I think you got it wrong. I said no interest in a relationship or sex. Not "interested in sex, but no relationship". A lot of people do sex dates, probably more than you think. At least over here. Some just go directly to the bathroom or storage room and skip the full date process.
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Posted 11/20/11
Dating for fun is fun. Fun for dating is also fun. Fun for fun is even more fun. I'd rather have fun.
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Posted 11/20/11 , edited 11/20/11

underlock wrote:

I think you got it wrong. I said no interest in a relationship or sex. Not "interested in sex, but no relationship". A lot of people do sex dates, probably more than you think. At least over here. Some just go directly to the bathroom or storage room and skip the full date process.


Since, you didn't quote my post, I didn't see that you responded actually on mine.

I understand your first post completely, and I didn't misunderstood anything.

I'm just saying that girls here(mostly highschool, and rarely college girls), do seek casual dates. Believe it or not, underage girls at the bar find people to date (I know by bar, people go there to have casual sex and stuff, but some girls, do find date partners and not do one night stands). Not saying that this means that they are doing it with sex as the their ultimate goal, but when they find it fun to date people around, and show off with their peers that they actually are dating (when in fact they just met randomly and are pretending to be couples).

It's so hard to explain as I'm not doing this, and am not a girl, nor did I interview them, but I've seen it with my own eyes, and I've seen a lot in my area, and I know a lot of people (Friends and classmates) who are into these stuff for fun/bragging rights/no idea what else, so I'm confident to say that it does exist, and it's more than what you know.

EDIT: Quoted twice for some reason, and I'm not gonna argue(in case you think I am arguing with this post), as my generation is probably different than yours, and that the demography(area and culture) here, might be different than yours. Just my explanation that I totally understood yours, and maybe you misunderstood mine.

Posted 11/20/11
Curious as to why you wouldn't ask the differences between friends with benefits, friends, "play date", and real relationships.
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Posted 11/20/11
I smell heartbreaks and tears
Posted 11/20/11
It's all just so FUN.
Posted 11/20/11
These jokes are really gay..what is it about the word fun? Why is it so fun to say fun? FUN?
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Posted 11/20/11
Dating is fun.
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Posted 11/20/11
The thrill of the dating game. The mind fuck and the subtle controlling.

Also, the heavy emphasis of attention placed on you, makes you feel special.


There is also another standpoint where people argue that they have to date many in order to know their "type" and the type most suited for them.
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