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What do you think of this?
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Posted 12/7/11 , edited 12/7/11
OK, a girl, let's call her, erm... Anna (she's a teenager) has this mother. Her mother is usually nice, or in an ok mood, but sometimes she puts Anna down, a lot, because she isn't gleeful or happy that day and her daughter is. Her mother is divorced, and is still dealing with lots of stress.

One day Anna had to clean up her rather messy room. Her mother had been cleaning all day, and according to her mother's boyfriend, Anna's mom was really pissed.

Anyway, once she was done cleaning (she started after entering the house, pretty much) , she told her mother, who examined it and exclaimed that her daughter did a really horrible job and she was a stupid lazy ass. She dumped out some things in boxes that Anna had forgotten to clean and began to rummage through everything. Soon the room was messy again. Her mother called her more shitty names, and then left her to clean up the new mess because she couldn't find a library book that Anna's sister needed to return.


Anyyyyyyyyway, what do you think of parents emotionally putting down their kids / teens? I don't like it, to say the least, considering I've experienced a lot myself, but I was wondering what you think...
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Posted 12/7/11
mother is screwed up to take her problems out on her kids. its not right
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Posted 12/7/11
I've known someone with a similar case. Idk, the mother is emotionally unstable. We can cuss her all we want, and hate it all the more, but there's nothing we can do about it. I'm not a psyche expert in such a case. It's peculiar indeed.
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Posted 12/7/11
my mum does that, shes affraid of me now cos i literally put my arm through a brick wall
Posted 12/7/11
My mother does that and trust me, it's not pretty. I am used to it though. Now, I barely see my mother.
Posted 12/7/11
Ah yes, another bitter vindictive lady, being weak and pathetic, and putting the "fun" into "dysfunctional."

Some people just should never, ever have kids. Funny thing about these scenarios, is if you attempt to put the bitch in her place, the "victim" will more than likely come to her defense. It's very common. Later on, those kids will get into abusive romantic relationships, too. Then, they demean and ridicule their own children, and so on , and so on...

Sometimes, that cycle is successfully broken, but it takes a lot of will and determination, and effort that most of these people are simply too flimsy of substance to meter out.
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Posted 12/7/11
So wrong, I'm glad I never experienced anything like it.
Although everyone has some kind of parental issue, some worse than others...
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that my life, everyone is like that, i just throw the lazy act until they just scream at me without expecting to much. i have never been given thanks to, they always compare me to other kids or me when i was younger. they make up shit, and steal my money. i would revolt except i'm asian and i live in a community of family/cuz but i can't do anything. all my cuz got permission to beat me if they see me doing something that my parents don't want me to do. so i'm stuck at home everyday unless i successfully sneak out. which is easier since i drive to school everyday. so yea what i'm trying to say is that you don't got the worse of it. all i can do is suck it up and thats what i do unless i move the hell away from here.
Posted 12/7/11
to long of a read. Felt like i read this some where before thats NOT from the internet....oh wait that was one of my friends sister. I, Too, partook on this event. Twas fun
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Your_Typical_Friend wrote:

to long of a read. Felt like i read this some where before thats NOT from the internet....oh wait that was one of my friends sister. I, Too, partook on this event. Twas fun


YOU, sir... are a rih-tard... (bows hat)
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Posted 12/7/11
If it's too normal, I think that "Anna" should just shrug it off, but it really is hard to do so...
Having made fun of or being yelled at isn't fun at all, sadly..
So I think teens and kids should be glad to have the support of their friends! ^-^
[I'm taking this too easy but that's what I'd do.. that's what friends are for after all ^-^]
Posted 12/7/11
Cant really form a valid opinion since ive never experienced it. But with any consideration creul thing to do to your child destroying something you helped build
Posted 12/7/11

JoeSurf wrote:


Your_Typical_Friend wrote:

to long of a read. Felt like i read this some where before thats NOT from the internet....oh wait that was one of my friends sister. I, Too, partook on this event. Twas fun


YOU, sir... are a rih-tard... (bows hat)


I gladly accept monsieur
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Posted 12/7/11
i hate it, but I just shake it off. takes time though. c:
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Posted 12/7/11
what a crock of shit brad
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