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What do you think of this?
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Posted 12/7/11

animegirl2222 wrote:

OK, a girl, let's call her, erm... Anna (she's a teenager) has this mother. Her mother is usually nice, or in an ok mood, but sometimes she puts Anna down, a lot, because she isn't gleeful or happy that day and her daughter is. Her mother is divorced, and is still dealing with lots of stress.

One day Anna had to clean up her rather messy room. Her mother had been cleaning all day, and according to her mother's boyfriend, Anna's mom was really pissed.

Anyway, once she was done cleaning (she started after entering the house, pretty much) , she told her mother, who examined it and exclaimed that her daughter did a really horrible job and she was a stupid lazy ass. She dumped out some things in boxes that Anna had forgotten to clean and began to rummage through everything. Soon the room was messy again. Her mother called her more shitty names, and then left her to clean up the new mess because she couldn't find a library book that Anna's sister needed to return.


Anyyyyyyyyway, what do you think of parents emotionally putting down their kids / teens? I don't like it, to say the least, considering I've experienced a lot myself, but I was wondering what you think...


To: Anna do something amazing with your life and put that bitch of a mother in her place!

I would like to share my story with you, I gotten obese thru my college years and I went from 170LBS to 230LBS during that time my dad called me "Lazy Slob", "Fat Ass", and other names I dont wanna mention. Later on in that year I transfer to another state for college and one day I woke up and I decided I will show my ass of a dad I am not a "good for nothing pile of shit" I dropped 65LBS in the course of 6 months and when I returned home for the holidays and when my mom and dad came to pick me up at the airport they walked right passed me with you saying anything. I grabbed my dads shoulder and I smile and said to him Look at me now!

Moral of the story? Each parents have their own way of motivating their kids some of them use cruel jokes. In my case it worked for me and I thank my dad till this day for motivating me to get back in to shape. Parents loves their kids and will do what they think its right even if they make them self look like a villain in their kids eyes. Remember that!
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Posted 12/7/11
I'm sorry Anna.
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Posted 12/7/11
Anna should call the CPS.
Like seriously no one needs that emotional bullshit from their mom.
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Posted 12/7/11
Her mom's on crack. Or some other drug. When people change THAT much they're on something, drugs or her period. In that case it's normal for her to be a bitch. My parents put me down for being unladylike and messy.

If she HAS to live with her mom she should just grow thick skin, deal with it, and when she gets out of the house and her mom was still being that way then her mom is going to spend her older days lonely and poor. Don't send money home. Don't stay in contact.

Then again.

It happens, and sometimes even though people may treat us like crap we still love them.


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Posted 3/3/12
I think Anna needs an Lawyer. She is legally entitled to monetary compensation because of the emotional trauma her Mother subjected her to.
Posted 3/15/12
I think I need some popcorn.
Posted 3/24/12
Slice of life.
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Posted 3/24/12
Parents who do that are evil. They shouldn't be allowed to have kids if they are not gonna act like parents
Posted 3/24/12
Animegirl, I think I need to pop my zits so my mum won't pressure me.
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Posted 3/24/12
My moms favorite name for me when she was pissed was stupid-ass. anyway it wsn't right for the mom to go off like that, but a lot of times kids think that they're never at fault for their parents stress when alot of times their the main source. the best thing to do is to sit down and talk to the mom and let her know how it made the girl feel and try to come to a better understanding of what each other are going through. (thats my opinion anyway.)
Posted 3/24/12
The mother needs A LESSON in the role of motherhood!
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Posted 3/24/12
Yeah! My parent is like that too, but even so she's still my mom. I don't like it whenever she's like that, however after sometimes I get used to it because in the real world adults has to deals with a lot of things, so all in all I understand but probably might pissed me off too at first then again she's the one who let me born....
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Posted 3/24/12 , edited 3/24/12
Does anyone have any advice or something comforting/helpful to say for someone like Anna? A close friend is going through something very similar, and I want to tell her things that will help but I am not familiar with this kind of situation.
Posted 3/24/12
Parents only do that cause there's something troubles their mind so they do the things they just don't want to do .
so try to understand them and do your best to ignore the names that they call you .
in the end who knows ? they will think better of you and will respect you for your good actions in them even through they did wrong . ^ ^
Posted 3/25/12
*munch* *munch*
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