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Is it true that when you entered Highschool you should get yourself a boyfriend?
Posted 12/12/11
Thats stupid and you'd be stupid to care what other people think of you. Boyfriends at your age are nothing but a social status, the fact that your friends are "encouraging" you to get one, like its as easy as getting the latest I-Phone is validating my point lol. You don't have to feel pressured if all your friends have boyfriends, but if they were your true friends in the first place they would make time for you and not shut you out while they're in a relationship.
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Posted 12/12/11
Never had one through high school. Never wanted one.
High school guys are bleh, just wait til you get to college :3
Posted 12/12/11
u shouldnt just to go out with someone only if u really like them.i think its funner being free anyway lol
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Posted 12/12/11
peer presure much,..??
just o what you think is right. if you want one then you want one and try to get one
if u dont want one then you dont , so dont date
personally i kinda want one myself cause iv been dating since grade 5 and i stopped dating at the begining of grade 8 cause my last relationship was a disaster but thank god im still friends with him and we went to grad with eachother,,, so now im in my first yr of hishchool ( grd9) and im kindaish lonley and kinda fell like i need one since i see all the grd 11 and 12 couples holding hnads and making out in the hallways,, plus some of my friends have bf as well so i kinda feel like i need on
peer presure isnt excatly part of my situation cause i personaly want one but still
anyway getting back to the main topic.. do what you wanna do
trust me, we are probly both the same age so i know excatly how you feel and can relate to this alot
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22 / M / UK
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Posted 12/12/11
of course it's true, you can't be cool without screwing someone first. gosh girl keep up
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Posted 12/12/11
Well you could have a boyfriend in highschool but it doesn't mean that you "should" have one.. and as your friends they should understand ^-^
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Posted 12/12/11
It's true, definitely get a boyfriend/girlfriend.

It's a requirement to pass highschool!
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Posted 12/12/11
I think the fact that you are thinking about it rationally ("at my young age") is a good sign.

Its not required, nor is it especially beneficial either. What are the reasons you think you want a boyfriend? To see if you want to get married to him? If so, then you probably don't need to get involved with boys at this time. Even freshmen/sophomores (ESPECIALLY freshmen) in college don't know what they are looking for in men/women yet.

If you just want someone to hang out with, then why bother go the bf/gf route anyway? You can be friends with a bunch of people without having to restrict yourself to one member of the opposite sex.

Its good you are thinking about it, and I think you'll come to the right decision.
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Posted 12/12/11 , edited 12/12/11
Just because you're in high school doesn't mean that you have to be in a relationship with someone. This is my fourth and last year and I've been single the whole time, nothing bad has come from it. My rationale is the same as yours. If you want to go ahead and get a boyfriend, if not don't do it because of peer pressure.
Posted 12/12/11
I don't know if i should be saying this because i have absolutely no relationship experience at all but first of all don't do it just because everyone else is. besides relationships that are forced on usually fall apart as quickly as they began. The longest relationships i have seen started when the two were origionaly friends or people who knew each other well so don't try to rush into anything that you might regret later.
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Posted 12/12/11

animeaddict0 wrote:

pls close or lock this topic if it is a duplicate or whatsoever

well uhm its just that since i entered high school my friends got themselves a boyfriend because they said they are already high school students and its also fun having a bf.. but unfortunately... i dont like having a boyfriend at my young age.. it gives me goosebumps! hehehe.. but my friends are encouraging me to have one.... what should i do? or whats your opinion about this topic?


When I was 14, I would never admit that I was young. In fact, I thought I knew everything at that age.
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23 / F / Your Cookie Jar
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Posted 12/12/11 , edited 12/12/11
Don't let your friends tell you what to do -___-

If you don't wanna then you don't wanna~

I didn't have one till my last year in high school,

And let me tell you, you ain't missing anything
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F / потерян
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Posted 12/12/11
when you want a boyfriend.
get one.
if you don't want one.
then don't be pressured.
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Posted 12/12/11
No.
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68 / M / Columbia, MO
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Posted 12/12/11
HS I went to was 100% male and I'm not gay or bi-, so I guess the answer is no.
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