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Possessive boyfriends..
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Posted 12/16/11
hmm.. well i just havent seen any topics bout this..

just lock it or whatsoever if its a duplicate..

well its just that while i was reading manga books.. most of the manga i read is about possessive boyfriends.. their so overprotective over their gf's and wont even let their girlfriends hang out with other guys... their like.. so obsessive and crazy over the girl..

hmm.. i just wanna hear your thoughts if you were in this relationship.. or just your opinion bout this kind of stuff!!!
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Posted 12/16/11
My friend is in a relationship like this.

It just ruins it after a while. The victim will be able to take it at first, but everyone has their own breaking point. Relationships are built up around trust, and if there is no trust, there is no relationship.
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If he really loves me, why can't he trust me? OK, I admit a little possessiveness is cute, but if he's too possessive...that's pretty scary. He should relax 'cause I picked him out from all the rest. Jealousy is so not cool... I'm entitled to male friends too, specially when I've known them longer than him.
Posted 12/16/11
I trust her, I just don't trust other guys.
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Posted 12/16/11
well I had one but he broke my heart anyway and didn't love me any more.
Posted 12/16/11

underlock wrote:


Chained_Angel wrote:

- I like my space
- Us girls ARE allowed friends who are guys
- Don't trust me, there's the door...
- I've never cheated on a guy and I wont either
- If a guy comes onto me while I'm in a relationship I'll probably punch them in the face before my bf does...except it would be more of a slap.
- Some possessiveness is nice, because its a way of showing they care about you but if he goes nuts when I hug a friend who happens to have a penis I've known for longer than I've known him, then I'm gonna be pretty pissed off.


rofl you wild boar.


I'm possessive. But I recognize it as a bad thing. Now whether or not I show it depends on my mood.


Lol I never figured you as a woman beater Peter
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But I'm not. Just the thought is rather frightening since I hate to be violent under any circumstance. Mostly because I was pretty aggressive till I was 19.

Let's not take this to an extreme case lol. On a scale of 1-10 the guy would:

10 - kill wife
9 - kill object of jealousy (i.e. other men)
8 - cheat/beat wife
7 - verbal abuse (one sided shouting)
6 - break stuff
5 - just hit walls
4 - call your mum to tell on you
3 - take it on your pet by making it like him more
2 - play around with your stuff
1 - sulk on his own

I'm 1. Like I said, I'm aware, so I'd just shut myself in. I've been possessive with my pets and toys as a kid and in time came to fully understand that the outcome is always bad, for me at least.
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Ain't No Such Thing As A Little Possessiveness. Little Possessiveness Can Turn Into Something Worse In The Real World.
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i actually havent seen any manga or anime like this o.O...all ive seen was that the guy fights for her
but irl situation i kick them to the curb you cant expect me to follow your rules i dont play that never have and never will
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I'd drop him like a bad habit if I knew he was that possessive.
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Hmmm... if possessive means sitting with other guys you don't even know , and he gets angry because of that. Then yes I hate em. o.o
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Possessive boyfriends &/or girlfriends...are seriously bad mojo. There's just no way around it. It sets free one's inner Ugly. Next think you know, Crazy and Ugly are camped smack in the center of your world, eating all your cereal, & leaving a trail of "wtf???" where ever they go. Uh-unh...noooo thank you.
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well i don't think possessive is such a bad trait. it just shows you how much he cares. well it varies with person. humans have created the term of love and romance into possession and ownership. honestly though, if it seems that guys are flirty with my girlfriend, i'd probably go psycho as well. if not because of the fear that she might leave me, then its because of the douche trying to steal my pride and joy. but yea, i can see her dumping me if i do become like that.
Posted 12/16/11
The majority of guys who are possessive are so because of their own blatant insecurities.
Posted 12/16/11

Chained_Angel wrote:

- I like my space
- Us girls ARE allowed friends who are guys
- Don't trust me, there's the door...
- I've never cheated on a guy and I wont either
- If a guy comes onto me while I'm in a relationship I'll probably punch them in the face before my bf does...except it would be more of a slap.
- Some possessiveness is nice, because its a way of showing they care about you but if he goes nuts when I hug a friend who happens to have a penis I've known for longer than I've known him, then I'm gonna be pretty pissed off.


Is it okay if I point to this comment and tell some people this is how they SHOULDN'T be?
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