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are you willing to be JUST the "3rd Party" in a relationship
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Well I don't have to worry about that!
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good question.. i had this experience when the guy already has a girlfriend, but he also likes me so he tried to court me even though he is still with his girlfriend.. i said "duh?! are you trying to make me look like a third party?"

no way. i mean, it kinda look like i'm trying to interfere with their relationship (in the part of the girlfriend)
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I used to be the third wheel, got tired of it plus wasn't really healthy for me. Used to think that I was actually in love with this girl, but I wanted her to be happy and she made it clear she didn't have any interest in me. Though I think I might've grown on her, but that's out of the question now seeing that when I had a chance to get together with her I blew it.
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Posted 1/19/08

maphae wrote:

they say love is blind..
love is stupid..
love is whatever..

i know a lot of people (both male and female) who are willing to be just the third party in a relationship because they love the person so much..

on my part, i think it's a bit pathetic and i somewhat feel sad for them...
they are risking their dignity for the sake of love... other people tend to look down on them.. or hate them.
they tend to ruin a relatonship... or worse a family...
and they don't even have a clear view of their future in such situation..


Completely agree with you... its really pathetic and sick...

I honestly don't know how people in those relationships don't have any guilt about what their doing..
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I don't think I'd settle to be a third wheel.

Why would you do so, when you could have a happier, much less stressful and complicated life? And besides, are you that low to do that... show some dignity. If you settle for being a third party, then it just proves you're not man enough to face the facts and move on. Come on, you're better than that dude.
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nope. never ever. i mean, i'll try my very best not to fall in love with a guy who's in a relationship..
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Posted 1/19/08
Definitely not. It's not like it would be the end of the world if i'd let a single guy go.
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26 / F / Vancouver
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No.

Man people who would do that are just plain masochists, or they're just really, really obsessive.
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30 / F
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Oh man, I hope I never interfere in someone's relationship! Wouldn't want to do so. Meh. At least I can cast myself into some tragedy heroine of a drama and sob to God about it. Haha.
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28 / F / England!
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I could never be or have a third party in any of my relationships because im too much of a jealous person!
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22 / F / Philippines
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no way!! i don't like to!
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nooooopee..- 0-
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28 / M / Look up.
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I make my move when you don't see it coming. Same with everything though.
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31 / M / House Adasho
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What goes around comes around
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nope, NEVER .... they can't get me if i have the be third place!! first ore no cash for them!!
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I like being the third party ^^ I get to have fun with the girl and at the same time not tie myself to a relationship.
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