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One sided love?
Posted 12/19/11
Story of my life.
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Posted 12/19/11
Yeah, the girl I loved as a teenager (pretty much through my teen years). She just saw me as a friend. Her and another girl (who developed a crush on me) were my best friends. Time came where I was jobless, she was about to get married, and I hated where I lived, figured it was time to get out of dodge. I didn't really want to go to their wedding, and the her fiance was a friend of mine, so likely would have received an invite. Wouldn't have seen her again either, if it weren't for my sisters wedding. My sister married her brother. Possible I will see her again in the future (since she's my sisters sister-in-law), but it has long since ceased being an issue.
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23 / M / Canada
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Posted 12/19/11
I've been on both sides of that coin. The worst is loving someone you're in a relationship with, but you always push back that notion that you know they don't love you to the back of your mind.
Posted 12/19/11
dear jon,
i love you. you're the last thing on my mind at night. you fill every dream i have. you're the very first thing i think of when i wake up..and you'll never know it.

i miss you when you're gone. i miss you when you're sitting so close to me and i can't touch you. i miss you when you smile that smile at me. i miss not having you in my life, even when everyday you are.

i want you like you'll never know. i want your entire heart and soul. i see your face, i see your heart. i want your love, i NEED your love, but i won't tell you because i can't. I cannot tell you how i feel, because i know you're just my friend. i know that you're happy with that. i know you already have someone to love. i know, i know, i know! but, i don't understand. i don't understand why it has to hurt so very much when you laugh, when you get so close. i don't get that. i don't know how to move on, i don't know how to let myself live without you. i just don't know.

i just want a day when it's just you and me. i just want a day when my heart can sing true. i pray to god every day that you'll tell me that you want me the same way i want you. I beg every day to an unseen force that you will one day be mine.

i'm moving away soon, but i'm leaving my heart with you. forever and for always, it will belong to you. don't tell me if you don't love me, but please for the love of god, please tell me if you feel the same way. if you don't love me, please stop looking at me with those eyes, please stop touching my arm, please stop--just stop, because my heart loves you. my heart NEEDS you, but without you, there really is no point. so please, for my sanity, love me, or leave me. stop teasing me like this.

forever and a day,
Sanam P Mohseni
Posted 12/19/11
I love sleep but sleep doesn't love me.
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28 / M / North Pole, AK
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Posted 12/19/11
I've been on both sides of love. To love and be loved even though they deal with the same emotion, can create such extreme flavors. As a writer, I like to top myself off as observant. Though I am when it's not dealing with myself, I am blind when it's right in front of me. So I've unintentionally caused one-sided loves, and a few times I was in the same boat. Nothing I can do about it if she doesn't really want to go that far into a relationship, and when I'm the cause of a one-sided relationship. I wish I could realize things sooner. It's like I'm looking through a telescope, so much detail so far away, but to best look through it, keeping one eye shut is necessary to see a clearer image far away.
Posted 12/20/11
Sure have. I really liked this guy who I met in middle school who I was friends with since elementary and we would hang out. But then he told me he liked this girl and wanted advice. I was devastated. Same thing happened in 9th grade with another dude. Then in 11th grade I was friends with a guy who told me he really wanted to date me but I didn't like him like that. He was just a cool friend but I guess I gave him the wrong impression.
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27 / M / Alabama for now
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Posted 12/20/11
never been in love
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20 / F / San Carlos city
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Posted 12/20/11
i always turn to other thing to get my mind out of that tragedy of mine... i hate one sided feelings. especially if the person you like is very aware of your feelings but chose to shrug it off as a nuisance of some sorts, well at least that's how mine went..
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18 / F / PHILIPPINES
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Posted 12/20/11
Have you had a one sided love before? OH YES..LIKE so many times.

Love someone who dont love you and just wants to be friends? Or He Dont even want to be friends. LOL

Did someone love you but you did not love them? Yeppp~ i just think that im not good enough for him..-_-;;;

Whats your thoughts on one sided love? IT SUCKS.. BIG TIME. & it can make ur self-esteem lower than it already is..:(;;; and it feels like no guy would ever like uu~~and so on..;____;
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19 / F / Behind You
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Posted 12/20/11
I can relate...

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21 / M / C.C.P.
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Posted 12/20/11
"One sided love" is an illusion. The ones making the effort convinced themselves that the other person is right for them. Love is equally shared between two people.
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23 / M / USA
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Posted 12/20/11
We've all either been friend zoned or have friend-zoned. It's a fact of life.
My current GF friend zoned me pretty hard when we first met. It's nothing about a year of hard work and determination couldn't fix. That was a long time ago. Now we've already moved in together, been very happy and plan to keep it that way.
My point is, if you've been hurt, you gotta ask yourself, "is this other person really worth it, or am I just feigning love to prevent feeling loveless."
If they are, make it happen, no excuses. If they aren't, and it takes a lot of thinking to determine that, move on. There's no reason to feel like that.Truth is, while you're wasting time on someone who doesn't care about you, there's probably someone who loves you as much as you do the person who's ignoring you. They probably think you're the same to them in their scenario. Who knows, if you'd open your eyes, you might find someone wonderful.
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Posted 12/20/11
yeah I have been on both sides had guys who loved me but did not like them and now in love with a guy who only likes me but dont know if he will ever feel same way as I do
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21 / F / naruto world
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Posted 12/20/11
yeah have one side love on both sides. Had guy who like/loved me but did not really like him and I like/loved this guy who did not like me back it hurts and suxs

Its also even worst when you love a guy and you dont think he likes you back and when you do move on and get someone else you find out that He Did Love me and time he told me Was to late have moved on with new bf Reason never told him b/c he never seem like he like/loved me but all along he did and he never told me was b/c same reason he thought only like him as a friend so we both where shy of are love and now even today sometimes when thinking about it kick my self... -_-
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