First  Prev  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  11  12  13  14  15  Next  Last
One sided love?
4330 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
19 / F / HK
Offline
Posted 5/25/12
only once. cause I only have ever liked one guy... he still doesn't know :(
it really does hurt. I've compleplated on hurting myself to stop the pain, but i'm sure he wouldn't notice, even if I killed myself...

well,,, the 40smthing people who know probably will tell him I liked him to such an extent, but i wouldn't never want to haunt him in this way. even if he has unknowingly hurt me so.
Posted 5/25/12
I liked one guy for 8 years..
then got dumped last October when I confessed to him..
I cried myself to sleep..
Then later at work,
I hung up on most of the callers since I was pretty depressed
1192 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
F / Behind a bush. Or...
Offline
Posted 5/26/12
It does suck. And when there's someone else they like, you compare yourself to them, downgrading yourself just because you're not like him/her.
And when someone likes you but you don't like em back, you feel sorry for the guy
39133 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
24 / M / Alberta, Canada
Offline
Posted 5/26/12
Totally been there. Not that I didn't respect their choice of having me as a friend after I had confessed, but it does sting a little when you still have feelings for them and they get together with someone else. Oh well.
4427 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
19 / M
Offline
Posted 9/11/12 , edited 9/11/12
Yeah, I guess for the girls that have tried to ask me out. For that i'm incredibly sorry, some of them have had their eyes on me for a year or two.. Some of them were stupid, asking me out when they already have boyfriends. I can't say i'm sorry to those ones.

For me I haven't had one yet. I haven't even asked out a girl yet.
22961 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
33 / F / North Pole
Offline
Posted 9/11/12
Never happened to me that i loved someone and he didnt love me back.

Happened a few times some guys asked me out and i said no.
And most of those times i felt bad for the guys.
But I wouldnt date someone if i had no feelings for him.

Some friends told me: 'You should have dated this guy, hes loaded so rich! You wouldnt have to worry about anything!'

I prefer to date someone I really have feelings for and that he feels the same about me.
I'm not the type of person to date for money or for any advantages of some sort.
1293 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
29 / F / Kumamoto, Japan
Offline
Posted 9/11/12
I guess I have had one-sided affection. I wouldn't call it love, though. But I got over it fairly quickly when I realized that it wasn't going to happen because, ya know, they had a girlfriend and I wasn't about to be the girl who ruined it.

I had a friend who had feelings for me, but I never reciprocated them. To this day he still somewhat tries to see if he has any chance with me, to which my reply is always a no.
Posted 9/11/12
It's-- oh, my fucking lord depressing. It's so depressingly sadistic and funny.
610 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
24 / F / NY
Offline
Posted 9/11/12
:'( it's happened to me twice. I hate it

And I've done it to my best guy friend back in JHS (he was *insta-friend-zoned* though...)

One thing is to lead the person on and another is when the other person falls in love with you anyway. I've never led anyone on (I wouldn't jerk around with that kind of emotion).

So yeah.........

Posted 9/11/12
I have had it happen plenty the worst was probably a long standing crush who had, I guess, returned that feeling back in HS but then when I finally said something about it a year or two later she had friend zoned me and gotten over me because she thought I didn't care. Too much time had gone by and she ended up marrying her boyfriend (this was probably 6 years later) that she had fallen for after she had gotten over her crush on ME. the irony has not been kind in that respect.
8802 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
27 / M / Gotham City
Offline
Posted 9/11/12
I've had it happen to me and I've done it to other people.

It's nothing to feel bad about. You can't force reciprocal feelings onto other people or yourself.
62873 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
34 / M / Orlando
Offline
Posted 9/11/12
There was once a girl I worked with who was beautiful, intelligent, funny, and generally just cool to be around. We were pretty much BFF's at work. And on rare occasions, we would text outside of work. One day she came out and said she knew I had feelings for her, I didn't deny it. Occasionally she would bring up my feelings in conversation, like saying I couldn't be objective because I was in love with her. Still, I never denied it.

Regardless of how I felt about her, I knew I wasn't her type. Which is why I never came out and spoke the words. But I would never lie to her either, so I couldn't deny it when she came out and said it. She only dates guys with 6 pack abs, spray on tans, bleached white teeth, and a Mercedes in the drive way. Needless to say, it always ends badly when they cheat on her, smack her around, or ditch her at the club for a sluttier chick. After which she goes on Facebook posting about how guys are scum and there are no good ones in the world

I've tried to tell her numerous times that she's not interested in good guys and she gets exactly the kind of guy that she likes. She gets offended and refuses to speak to me for a week afterwards every single time. I left that job several months ago and she hasn't bothered to contact me since. But we have mutual friends so I know right now she's dating some guido with 6 pack abs, spray on tan, and well you get the idea.
8802 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
27 / M / Gotham City
Offline
Posted 9/11/12


Hmm, it seems kind of cruel and arrogant of her to bring up your feelings for her in conversation. From my point of view, it just doesn't seem right to me, although I can't really explain why. Sounds like torture, for what it's worth, I think you were dignified in how you handled it.
317 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
32 / M / Canada
Offline
Posted 9/11/12
Been on both sides, not much to say other than it happens. Pity dating just sounds pitiful.
Posted 9/11/12 , edited 9/11/12
TT _________TT


*sniff* *sniff*

currently...

i haven't even confessed to him -_-

why do i like him so much?
First  Prev  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  11  12  13  14  15  Next  Last
You must be logged in to post.