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Hello all loners out there
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Posted 12/23/11
I'm so fucking tired of being alone. I don't know what is wrong with me! How does other people do when they just become a couple! I'm tired of this shit. All these girls and I never become more than a friend! I'm so tired of being alone! I don't look terrible either, with risk of sounding ego... I think I look pretty good! I have a lot to give, my heart for one person! Apparently no one wants it! I'm sick of all stupid chicks just going for jocks that treats them like crap! I respect women allot! BUT GUESS WHAT!!! If you respect women, you will never get one! Because they seem to like being treated like SHIT! I don't know but it must be something terribly wrong with me, because no one wants anything serious!

All I ask for is someone to hold, and tell: I love you. I have never uttered those words to another human before, and it looks like I never will.

GO AHEAD! CALL ME EMO! I know I'm not! I'm a realist okay! Usually I'm positive, but now I just can't go on! Every man has his breaking point, and I have reached mine.
I don't believe that the world ends 2012, but I would love it to end soon!

All people that are in a relationship right now... GET THE FUCK OFF MY THREAD YOU LUCKY BASTARDS!
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I am not in relationship , so I think I am still allowed to stay. xD

I am sure you will find someone soon enough Big_A *pats head*
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Fuck no! I hate this hunt! It's a circus! I'm so sick and tired of it!
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You don't need to hunt , maybe love will find you , not the other way around.
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Posted 12/23/11

TrueLoveMyGoddess wrote:

You don't need to hunt , maybe love will find you , not the other way around.


I can't stop see... It's like an addiction! And no matter where you go! GIRLS ARE EVERYWHERE!
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Posted 12/23/11

Big_A wrote:


TrueLoveMyGoddess wrote:

You don't need to hunt , maybe love will find you , not the other way around.


I can't stop see... It's like an addiction! And no matter where you go! GIRLS ARE EVERYWHERE!


Lol of course girls are everywhere! you're only 18 , life is still ahead of you.
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Posted 12/23/11

TrueLoveMyGoddess wrote:


Big_A wrote:


TrueLoveMyGoddess wrote:

You don't need to hunt , maybe love will find you , not the other way around.


I can't stop see... It's like an addiction! And no matter where you go! GIRLS ARE EVERYWHERE!


Lol of course girls are everywhere! you're only 18 , life is still ahead of you.


Fine. I'll just stop trying... Tired of it anyways.
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Posted 12/23/11

Big_A wrote:


TrueLoveMyGoddess wrote:


Big_A wrote:


TrueLoveMyGoddess wrote:

You don't need to hunt , maybe love will find you , not the other way around.


I can't stop see... It's like an addiction! And no matter where you go! GIRLS ARE EVERYWHERE!


Lol of course girls are everywhere! you're only 18 , life is still ahead of you.


Fine. I'll just stop trying... Tired of it anyways.


Don't worry about it , you will find it. I am sorry for not being a lot of help Big_A.
Posted 12/23/11

Big_A wrote:

I'm so fucking tired of being alone. I don't know what is wrong with me! How does other people do when they just become a couple! I'm tired of this shit. All these girls and I never become more than a friend! I'm so tired of being alone! I don't look terrible either, with risk of sounding ego... I think I look pretty good! I have a lot to give, my heart for one person! Apparently no one wants it! I'm sick of all stupid chicks just going for jocks that treats them like crap! I respect women allot! BUT GUESS WHAT!!! If you respect women, you will never get one! Because they seem to like being treated like SHIT! I don't know but it must be something terribly wrong with me, because no one wants anything serious!

All I ask for is someone to hold, and tell: I love you. I have never uttered those words to another human before, and it looks like I never will.

GO AHEAD! CALL ME EMO! I know I'm not! I'm a realist okay! Usually I'm positive, but now I just can't go on! Every man has his breaking point, and I have reached mine.
I don't believe that the world ends 2012, but I would love it to end soon!

All people that are in a relationship right now... GET THE FUCK OFF MY THREAD YOU LUCKY BASTARDS!


You're tired of being alone? You are still so young and you still have so many miles to swim and travel the water to meet up with other fishes in the ocean. Your time is not yet here.

Now, you're not an emo either. You are certainly not emotionally disturbed to say that you are emo. You are just tired of being alone, like you said.

Saying "I love you" to the one you want to be loyal to and carry life on with forever is also yet to come. Waiting for so long, you have been waiting for only18 years. Minus all of those young ages of yours when you still couldn't be rational with feelings or understand who you really are, it's like what? How many years now? Perhaps only 8 or 6 years that you have been waiting. To not finding someone at the moment for you, that's alright. And you are saying that girls don't like you even though you are being so kind and loving toward them. Hey guess what? Maybe you're just not their type of deal. Someone with the same mind and capacity like you will one day meet up with you and give you a loving hand. Time will tell for you, and when that time comes, your waiting will be worth the fight.

You know, you sound decent, you claim yourself pretty good looking, where did all of that confidence go? If you just stick with your confidence there, someone will eventually claim you as theirs and maybe compliment you more. Respecting a woman does not necessarily mean that you will never get a woman, alright? Ever thought that maybe that is the preference of what a woman want to be treated like? Now, you are making yourself sound like you are the problem. To me, it's either you are too hasty to be in love, or you don't understand who you should be around with or who to actually give your heart to.

Trust me, I don't need to be in a relationship to understand these things. In fact, I have been alone all my life, but I know how to yearn for what I want. It certainly isn't lonely for me, yet.
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Posted 12/23/11

TrueLoveMyGoddess wrote:


Big_A wrote:


TrueLoveMyGoddess wrote:


Big_A wrote:


TrueLoveMyGoddess wrote:

You don't need to hunt , maybe love will find you , not the other way around.


I can't stop see... It's like an addiction! And no matter where you go! GIRLS ARE EVERYWHERE!


Lol of course girls are everywhere! you're only 18 , life is still ahead of you.


Fine. I'll just stop trying... Tired of it anyways.


Don't worry about it , you will find it. I am sorry for not being a lot of help Big_A.


You give me more ease for the pain then I ever could imagine from a 17 year old.
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I agree with you.



Hahaha I am just wise Big_A.

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Preach on brotha, Preach on!
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Posted 12/23/11

Big_A wrote:

I'm so fucking tired of being alone.


Keep trying.

It took me until I was 23 until I had my first relationship and after that, I had many, many more before chose to live alone. For some of us, it takes a while.

You need to have zero fear and zero self pity when it comes to dating.

Zero.

No self-pity when you fail. Figure you're going to get friend-zoned or turned down cold 9 out of 10 times. Bank on it. Keep good mental notes of the types of people you're interested in dating. I know you're pissed at the moment, but when you catch your breath, look at all the girls you tried to date.

Is there a pattern with them? Or is it you?

Here was my pattern that I broke and led me to successful relationships: All I wanted was a fucking girlfriend. Do you see what's wrong with that statement? It's like saying, "Any lamp will do. I just want to fill the space here. I don't care."

I just wanted to fill my only loneliness and that made me completely unattractive. If you can't live with yourself alone, you sure as hell can't live with someone else.

You're incomplete as you are now. You have to be fearlessly honest in a relationship...with the other person and with yourself. If you hate being alone now, then how are you going to add to someone else?

Once you're happy being alone, a lot of people will want to be with you. And then you'll find yourself at a place where the only people that know of its existence are those that never return.
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Posted 12/23/11

Hairbelly wrote:


Big_A wrote:

I'm so fucking tired of being alone.


Keep trying.

It took me until I was 23 until I had my first relationship and after that, I had many, many more before chose to live alone. For some of us, it takes a while.

You need to have zero fear and zero self pity when it comes to dating.

Zero.

No self-pity when you fail. Figure you're going to get friend-zoned or turned down cold 9 out of 10 times. Bank on it. Keep good mental notes of the types of people you're interested in dating. I know you're pissed at the moment, but when you catch your breath, look at all the girls you tried to date.

Is there a pattern with them? Or is it you?

Here was my pattern that I broke and led me to successful relationships: All I wanted was a fucking girlfriend. Do you see what's wrong with that statement? It's like saying, "Any lamp will do. I just want to fill the space here. I don't care."

I just wanted to fill my only loneliness and that made me completely unattractive. If you can't live with yourself alone, you sure as hell can't live with someone else.

You're incomplete as you are now. You have to be fearlessly honest in a relationship...with the other person and with yourself. If you hate being alone now, then how are you going to add to someone else?

Once you're happy being alone, a lot of people will want to be with you. And then you'll find yourself at a place where the only people that know of its existence are those that never return.


I see your point... but I'm pissed!
Posted 12/23/11

Big_A wrote:


Hairbelly wrote:


Big_A wrote:

I'm so fucking tired of being alone.


Keep trying.

It took me until I was 23 until I had my first relationship and after that, I had many, many more before chose to live alone. For some of us, it takes a while.

You need to have zero fear and zero self pity when it comes to dating.

Zero.

No self-pity when you fail. Figure you're going to get friend-zoned or turned down cold 9 out of 10 times. Bank on it. Keep good mental notes of the types of people you're interested in dating. I know you're pissed at the moment, but when you catch your breath, look at all the girls you tried to date.

Is there a pattern with them? Or is it you?

Here was my pattern that I broke and led me to successful relationships: All I wanted was a fucking girlfriend. Do you see what's wrong with that statement? It's like saying, "Any lamp will do. I just want to fill the space here. I don't care."

I just wanted to fill my only loneliness and that made me completely unattractive. If you can't live with yourself alone, you sure as hell can't live with someone else.

You're incomplete as you are now. You have to be fearlessly honest in a relationship...with the other person and with yourself. If you hate being alone now, then how are you going to add to someone else?

Once you're happy being alone, a lot of people will want to be with you. And then you'll find yourself at a place where the only people that know of its existence are those that never return.


I see your point... but I'm pissed!


With such an attitude, you will never get the chance to fall in love.
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