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After suicide, he’s still being bullied.
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Posted 3/10/12

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I find the problem not to be with "bullies" but people lacking the balls to stand up and believe in what they believe is right. Why'd noone help the poor kid out? I'm sure there was some people out there that felt terrible that was happening to the poor kid but they "Didn't want to get involved". There wouldn't be bullies anymore if someone stood up against them everywhere.... whats a bully gonna do with 40 people backing up the other kid? I think silence is one of the failures in people today, that they see an intolerance or injustice and they just stay silent. That's the worst thing.


but how will you round up 40 people to help on spot, cuz if you round up 40 people when its not happening then you just a group of bullies yourself. i personally do try and stop fights but then i got the crap beaten outta me before trying to stop a fight.
its bothersome, people worry about themselves, there are consequences for helping, basically yea people lack balls. but maybe they are wise, if they can't do shit then they'd make it worse for the both of them.

but in this case, maybe it woulda been better if someone stood up for him wether they can handle it or not.

though hopefully its not psychotic like the boy from texas who killed his bully and it was deems legal.
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Humans without hearts... that's all I have to say.
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Posted 3/11/12

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cronozj wrote:

I find the problem not to be with "bullies" but people lacking the balls to stand up and believe in what they believe is right. Why'd noone help the poor kid out? I'm sure there was some people out there that felt terrible that was happening to the poor kid but they "Didn't want to get involved". There wouldn't be bullies anymore if someone stood up against them everywhere.... whats a bully gonna do with 40 people backing up the other kid? I think silence is one of the failures in people today, that they see an intolerance or injustice and they just stay silent. That's the worst thing.


but how will you round up 40 people to help on spot, cuz if you round up 40 people when its not happening then you just a group of bullies yourself. i personally do try and stop fights but then i got the crap beaten outta me before trying to stop a fight.
its bothersome, people worry about themselves, there are consequences for helping, basically yea people lack balls. but maybe they are wise, if they can't do shit then they'd make it worse for the both of them.

but in this case, maybe it woulda been better if someone stood up for him wether they can handle it or not.

though hopefully its not psychotic like the boy from texas who killed his bully and it was deems legal.


Usually bullying happens in schools, its not about rounding up people on the spot, its about the people that are already there that could put a stop to it. Fights and Bullying are two different things in my opinion. Most real "Bullies" dont know what to do when confronted by one of their peers. I remember one time in gym class that this one "bully" threw a volleyball at this kids face... I pick that same volleyball up and chucked it right back at the fucker then yelling "What the fuck is your problem?!" The bully got scared and never fucked with the kid anymore.
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Posted 3/11/12 , edited 3/11/12

cronozj wrote:


wolfsaiga wrote:


cronozj wrote:

I find the problem not to be with "bullies" but people lacking the balls to stand up and believe in what they believe is right. Why'd noone help the poor kid out? I'm sure there was some people out there that felt terrible that was happening to the poor kid but they "Didn't want to get involved". There wouldn't be bullies anymore if someone stood up against them everywhere.... whats a bully gonna do with 40 people backing up the other kid? I think silence is one of the failures in people today, that they see an intolerance or injustice and they just stay silent. That's the worst thing.


but how will you round up 40 people to help on spot, cuz if you round up 40 people when its not happening then you just a group of bullies yourself. i personally do try and stop fights but then i got the crap beaten outta me before trying to stop a fight.
its bothersome, people worry about themselves, there are consequences for helping, basically yea people lack balls. but maybe they are wise, if they can't do shit then they'd make it worse for the both of them.

but in this case, maybe it woulda been better if someone stood up for him wether they can handle it or not.

though hopefully its not psychotic like the boy from texas who killed his bully and it was deems legal.


Usually bullying happens in schools, its not about rounding up people on the spot, its about the people that are already there that could put a stop to it. Fights and Bullying are two different things in my opinion. Most real "Bullies" dont know what to do when confronted by one of their peers. I remember one time in gym class that this one "bully" threw a volleyball at this kids face... I pick that same volleyball up and chucked it right back at the fucker then yelling "What the fuck is your problem?!" The bully got scared and never fucked with the kid anymore.


those kind of bullies are less of a threat. bullies are general term of someone harrassing another. one of the reasons that they do it is cuz they don't have anything better to do in school. the kinda bullies that i have some experience with and ones that are more widely spoken take bullying home with them. instead of trying to have fun doing it, they want to see you in pain instead. being the only asian guy in a school, brings its own problem. especially in a ghetto neighborhood, where everyone owns a gun and if you take it out on the bullies they will shoot you.
cuz i was a minority and i could actually defend myself bullies always gather on me. instead of being individualized, they would always tried to stalk me so that they could actually beat me up outside of school (the same group have beaten up other kids at there houses before, but their parents was their alibi), but cops around the area give kids ride home since they know crap like that happens. i never fought them cuz i never confronted them, but i never let them do shit to me. they just laugh and continue to pick on me always trying to whack me with books, throwing sharpened pencils at me, rocks when i try to take alley ways home, some fuckers also tried to punch me in the face. so i know very well what happens, my teacher saw it happen and made them talk to me and she thought talking would help.
like i said, bully comes in different calibers. its true that most bullying are minor and happens in school. and you can't call any bully a real bully or not. they are simply assholes or felons.
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These people are just jerks. This is why cyberbulling needs to be done something about, not just bullcrap assemblies at schools. Because adults do this too.
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...there's no innocence and quilt in death.Dead need not and dont know of such things~~what an blessing no?
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Why?
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That's group mentality for you, if multiple people will think its funny or cool then more people will group up and do it. Humans feed on the weak to make their own feelings of inferiority and insecurity temporarily go away, or go unnoticed. It's the way of the world.

Posted 3/11/12
I'm sure he doesn't care about it now.
Posted 3/11/12
Let's start a petition.
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Posted 3/11/12 , edited 3/11/12
What did the poor guy even do to deserve so much hate?


underlock wrote:

I'm sure he doesn't care about it now.


I don't think their insults matter to him anymore, I think he has learned to stop listening by now.
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Posted 3/12/12
Well i will not say what he did was right.. suicide in my eyes is nasty.. dont care what reason it is.. anyhow, what they did was also wrong.. poor family that goes threw such pain and they act like idiots.. And Lady gaga is awsome..
Anyhow karma goes around.. so they will soon get what they deserv.

Posted 3/12/12
Really? StopIng cyber bulling will never happen...too vast...but if u got any ideas I'd love to hear them.
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Really? StopIng cyber bulling will never happen...too vast...but if u got any ideas I'd love to hear them.


Cyber bulling do exist.. tho it often people they know.. as some girls in sweden take picture of their pray forcefuly and then post it on internet.. there horney idiots can see them... or boys that sends threatful mails to their target... internet is the new advance place for bully someone these days.

Posted 3/12/12
Yeah I know it exists...but what can u do about it. Sounds just as hard as stopping a rumor...
Its like trying to have worlf peace...its good on paper and an idea but thw savagery in people will always be there.
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