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44 / M / edmond, oklahoma
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i was born in the USA, laid back and easy to get along with , but why is it so dam hard to make friends with Asians?
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Do you believe a person's race, no matter who they are, makes a difference when trying to be friends with them? If not, it really looks that way. If so, I reckon that might get in the way of what you're trying to accomplish.
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23 / F / Georgia
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Maybe it's you?
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Nu-uh I object! D: I'm Asian. Maybe some asians but not all.Look at me, I'm such a... o.o
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38 / M / Phoenix, Az
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I dont have a problem at all. Could it be you? I'm easy going also. How do others look at you? Apparences are everything.
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23 / M / Norway
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Might be you.I live in Norway but most of my friends are asian.
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38 / M / Ontario, Canada
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@ 1darsh - I passed by your profile,... if you are trying to promote a friendly atmosphere and garner some friends,
then you have some work to do, its pretty bare. O_O
Asians are no more difficult to friend then anyone else...
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I was once told that Asian people like to be with other Asian people, and that when confronted with foreigners or people from a different race, they would keep to themselves. But, personally I really think it depends on the approach one takes towards a person.
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44 / M / edmond, oklahoma
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i don't think it's me otherwise i wouldn't have married a Malaysian
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Can't say I've ever had an issue? Unless the group of people in question didn't speak english or were simply people I wouldn't have normally been friends with anyway. Are you going out of your way to make friends with certain people just *because* they're asian? Because that would be annoying.
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While I don't have many friends on CR, it's mainly on my part as I mainly use this to watch anime instead of socializing. However, in the past I found it kind of easy making friends with Asians. Mostly with people in Hong Kong and various parts of Japan, a lot of it started because I always list my location. I also noted that I'm an aspiring author. So in my case, it was how I presented myself that made things easy. But in the end it was also no different than making friends with people in other parts of the world.
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1darsh wrote:
i don't think it's me otherwise i wouldn't have married a Malaysian
Either it's not with you, or it makes your problem even worse and less easy to understand.
Since you grouped all Asians into one in the first post, I'll guess the 2nd.
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I liek asians =3
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I'm asian and i have no non-Japanese asian friends at all o.0. I guess it could be hard because they all hang out with other Asian's speaking their own language.
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I don't think I'd find it difficult.
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