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You found something out that you wish you had not?
Posted 1/25/12

xXAnimeCandyXx wrote:

My childhood. : (


Whaaa? You amnesiac?
Posted 1/25/12
That Barney wasn't the main character of How I met your mother...
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Posted 1/25/12

haikinka wrote:

That Barney wasn't the main character of How I met your mother...


What?! Since when? xD
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Posted 1/25/12
That I have to wait another 40 days 6 hours 36 minutes and 8 seconds until Mass Effect 3 comes out.
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Common sense is very lacking from where I come from.
Posted 1/25/12

Maiden_aya wrote:


haikinka wrote:

That Barney wasn't the main character of How I met your mother...


What?! Since when? xD


I watched my first full episode, and it was about this guy called Todd or something. I was gutted o.0
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I found out how stupid words ended smart, haaaahhhhhhhh................humans
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Santa isn't real ... I still can't believe. Next thing you know they will be telling me the Easter Bunny isn't real too ...
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Posted 1/25/12
yes
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Posted 1/25/12
Okay, take deep breath and try to post again.....

Dave 1004 Your post hits close to the heart.

It's not your fault, but it's not likely to end anytime soon. My parents have been divorced for way longer than they were married. I still manage to inadvertently drop bombs on them about something one knew or did that the other one didn't. Even when talking about an occurrence in my own life and boom the parent I'm talking to is upset because they realize that the other one knows or did something or behaved in such-and-such a way. Suddenly they're no longer focused on what I saying, but instead are mired in the past. That makes you feel worthless doesn't it?

Anymore I shut them down. "Would you please listen to what I'm trying to say here? I feel you are not respecting me when you change the subject like this." Then you will probably have to reassure them and say something like: "Not wanting to discuss that doesn't mean that I don't love you, but it's hard on me too when you talk like this. It's in the past and you and Mom/Dad have moved on and are each doing well so could we leave it there?". In the beginning it was like they were counting coup and I was either the prize or the tool or both. It's not your place to take sides though. What happened is very sad, however, what I found out as I got older was that it didn't happen in a vaccume. One parent wasn't completely innocent while the other was entirely guilty. Despite what they each tried to make me believe. If one was guilty of action the other had guilt of words. And in reality they both had plenty of each. By the time the affair happened the marriage had long been in trouble.

You get tired of keeping track of the "secrets"; but, it's not your responsibility, it's their problem. You have the right to able to talk freely about yourself, your life and your thoughts without worrying about walking a minefield. They can't have everything about their life private from their former mate because, they will always have you in common. Time will make it easier for them to deal with each other. Hopefully soon enough to be able to attend your wedding together! Mine did. Try not to feel too bad when you put your foot in it, they know you love them. Eventually they should stop resenting the fact that you love the other one.

So I got a little wordy but, please, stay strong.
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Posted 1/25/12
Blue waffle........I hate my friends.
Posted 4/8/12
that some people find it hard to evolve from monkeys.
Posted 4/9/12
that babies dnt come from cabbage patches
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Posted 4/9/12
When I found out that my Best Friend is interested with my Big Brother. Then they kinda like started going out. Kinda worried if they broke up. Just what will happen to me? I mean, I'm very close to my brother and ofcourse, my BFF!
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Posted 4/9/12
I found out today that my best friend thinks that people only like me because they think I'm cute. I have many likable qualities!
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