Post Reply Have you ever been heartbroken by someone you love?
Posted 1/22/12
Have you? o-o
Posted 1/22/12
Yeah...
It's really something you have to take in stride...
Most people get hung up on what they've lost...but really all you can do is make the most out of the time you spend with someone...
I don't know about you but I'd never put someone in a position they can't walk away from. And for me...it makes more sense to not blame them for not feeling the same way...
Think of that empty feeling as a possiblitiy...don't bury it...remember and use it to move forward when you feel you are ready.
After a relationship ends...a lot of people don't see it as "now you know what you want and know a little more about yourself and your needs"
Best of luck if your recovering.
Posted 1/22/12
Yeah I know what you mean.
Posted 1/23/12
I usually take my friends out who are really bummed out. That and give them a really stupid anime series to watch.
Try and include them in things when I go out.
Me? I take an anime series and watch a few episodes while I work out. Run through my cheer up rituals.
Eat at a restaraunt...
Watch a movie at the theatre...
Go to the beach...
Play my harmonica in the graveyard across the street...
Hang out with someone completely out of the loop of regular friends...
Play my Monster hunter while I watch my favorite movies...(dragon heart, collateral, tropic thunder woth and without the commentary, hot fuzz, the other guys, then moneyball cause I have it ajd I love that movie even though I don't like baseball)
after the game gets boring work out while the movies play...

Really... everything you do will just remind you of him or her anyway so why try running? Face it head on...but that's just me. I do a lot of things by ritual so for me its a bit different...you'll notice a lot of people will avoid you because of the negative vibe you give off...that or you got lame friends like mine...who only care when your in a good mood or need something...
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