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“I don’t deserve your love…"
Posted 2/6/12

akira_akiyama wrote:

*coughs* attention whore
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*Coughs coughs*
Posted 2/7/12

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snuffie wrote:

She thinks you're creepy?


A wild clueless person appears.

Throw pokeball?


LOL. Nah, she told me that she likes me and all, but that “she wasn’t ready” that we were taking things “too fast” I really got mad at her when we spoke about this because when I asked her out I even told her “are you sure? you don’t need time to think about it?” and what the hell does she say? “Of course not!” That’s what got me angry the most! But everything’s settled… kind of… we went a step backwards to talking and going out, but we’re not BF & GF anymore, I’ll see how things work out. If she’s really complicated then I guess it won’t work and we’ll leave it as friends.

Thanks for your comments and opinions guys, some were funny and others did made me think about stuff.
Posted 2/7/12
She's giving you guilt signals, she wants you to treat her like crap as she feels she deserves it (for what reasons you need to discuss with her) and probably follows a "treat em mean keep em keen" rule.
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Posted 2/7/12
i think u should just let her date me for a week -_^

i garentee she missed me
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Posted 2/7/12
you're whipped
Posted 2/27/12
maybe she's planning to leave you but hearing your reasons first b4 she go on with her new boyfriend...or...i don't know.. i've never been in a relationship b4. xDD
Posted 2/27/12

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So I'm always telling my girlfriend how much I love her. We go out to eat, watch movies, play arcades together, when I get out of work I go visit her. I care for her so much and she just tells me that "why do I love her so much?” that she likes me too but “she doesn’t deserve how much I love her” Why? Does she just want to be complimented? What do you all think?



My guess is she has never been with someone of your caliber before. That all that she's probably ever known are those societary badboy rejects that have treated her like crap to the point that's all she sees now that she's with you.

I would just keep being yourself and keep telling her. Eventually it will start to sink in. If she doesn't start to believe it then it unfortunately falls on her herself, and not the ex's.
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Posted 2/27/12

jaime-chan wrote:

So I'm always telling my girlfriend how much I love her. We go out to eat, watch movies, play arcades together, when I get out of work I go visit her. I care for her so much and she just tells me that "why do I love her so much?” that she likes me too but “she doesn’t deserve how much I love her” Why? Does she just want to be complimented? What do you all think?


Well that can be about she hide something from you.. maybe she is afraid to lose you.. or maybe she has been hurted badly before there for feel un-sure about her own worth..
Maybe you shall ask, Why do you think that? and if she evoid it.. then push her to answer.. as it is something hidden under those words that she wants to tell but dont dare to..
But maybe she will not answer as she is not sure how bullet safe you and her is.. As people do things when they are frighten to lose something importand..

Ask yourself is the answer you want to know... and are you ready to hear it? As you can ask something you are not mentaly prepared to hear the truth about..

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Posted 2/27/12

TheModernDayZombie wrote:
I dunno I read some NTR hentai mangas b4 and it seems like this situation reminds me of a few, she could feel guilty.... But anywho you probably need to give her some time, maybe she has bad experiences b4

Hentai is male fantasy which doesn't really remotely reflect how real women behave. You won't get far taking your advice from fiction ;)


jaime-chan wrote:
So I'm always telling my girlfriend how much I love her. We go out to eat, watch movies, play arcades together, when I get out of work I go visit her. I care for her so much and she just tells me that "why do I love her so much?” that she likes me too but “she doesn’t deserve how much I love her” Why? Does she just want to be complimented? What do you all think?

I do this to my boyfriend a lot. I'll tell you why:
He loves me a lot, he's forever buying me things and trying to see me all he can. It's nice but I'm not very confident in myself; I've got a lot of issues right now too, so I just don't understand what he sees in me. I feel like if he was with someone else, he'd have to deal with less of my family/emotional issues or he could find someone more attractive if he tried.

I don't like the kind of girls who expect lots from their boyfriends with nothing in return; for example he buys me things or takes me out but I can't return the favour because I don't have the money right now, so I feel bad and I'm taking advantage of what he gives me.
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Posted 2/27/12

jaime-chan wrote:

So I'm always telling my girlfriend how much I love her. We go out to eat, watch movies, play arcades together, when I get out of work I go visit her. I care for her so much and she just tells me that "why do I love her so much?” that she likes me too but “she doesn’t deserve how much I love her” Why? Does she just want to be complimented? What do you all think?


Look man, I am really no expert in relationships but what I do have experience of is playing victim. It's something alot of people do to get more attention and it's pathetic. Next time she says something like that, you should get mad at her. Tell her to stop and if she doesn't, you should have a serious talk.

That girl obviously needs help. Trust me, I've been playing martyr through whole high-school and it leads nowhere!
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Posted 2/27/12 , edited 2/27/12
The best possibility is that she just has low self-esteem..

I'd be paranoid. It depends on the context of how she asked.
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Posted 2/27/12 , edited 2/27/12

TheModernDayZombie wrote:

I dunno I read some NTR hentai mangas b4 and it seems like this situation reminds me of a few, she could feel guilty.... But anywho you probably need to give her some time, maybe she has bad experiences b4


I don't know which is more disturbing -

A) Your only experience with women being hentai, or

B) That you're trying to use it to give advice on women.

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Posted 2/27/12
oh i've seen this before. my friend was in the same situation as this; that the girl told him she doesn't deserve the love he is giving. at the end of the story, he got dumped because she got tired of his "predictability"
Posted 2/27/12

aWatcher wrote:

oh i've seen this before. my friend was in the same situation as this; that the girl told him she doesn't deserve the love he is giving. at the end of the story, he got dumped because she got tired of his "predictability"


How long till she got into another relationship?
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Posted 2/27/12
dump the girl.
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