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Valentines Day (For all you singles!!)
Posted 2/12/12
I guess it's time to bust out the caveman club
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For me, the independent loner (an I do stress the word "loner"), it's low profile day. I aviod people, I don't go on facebook, etc etc.

I just don't want to hear it, or see it, or even be asked about lovey dovey shit. It means nothing to me if I'm not with a woman. Here I am always told I'm a sweetheart, blah blah but yet I don't have a woman to show for it.

Most women today just want a "hawt" dude and not a dude who will love her for herself with all his heart.
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Posted 2/12/12
IDK... for me V-Day is a little too overrated. It's become so highly commercialized that the reason gets lost in a sea of chocolates and flowers. Why not just spread the love everyday? No need for those things when you're in love with life.

As for being single, well, I like it a lot better this way than having some guy stake a claim over me...LOL...
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Posted 2/12/12

Homb wrote:

lols i didnt even knew today is valentine


Technically, Valentine's Day is on Tuesday.
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Posted 2/13/12

squirrel3d wrote:

For me, the independent loner (an I do stress the word "loner"), it's low profile day. I aviod people, I don't go on facebook, etc etc.

I just don't want to hear it, or see it, or even be asked about lovey dovey shit. It means nothing to me if I'm not with a woman. Here I am always told I'm a sweetheart, blah blah but yet I don't have a woman to show for it.

Most women today just want a "hawt" dude and not a dude who will love her for herself with all his heart.

and then they wonder where all the nice guys are.


heres a little secret girls..... THEY ARE IN THE FRIEND ZONE. WHERE YOU LEFT THEM TO ROT!!!!

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Posted 2/13/12
I don't need a man.
I can soar higher without excess baggage.
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Posted 2/13/12
Woah, dude. No need to yell. :/

There are pros and cons for both being single and being in a relationship.
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Posted 2/13/12
Ah, you sound like you're trying to convince yourself that being single is okay.


Right, it's okay to be single... if you have friends. It's Single Awareness Day for those who are single.
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NihonMonkey wrote:


squirrel3d wrote:

For me, the independent loner (an I do stress the word "loner"), it's low profile day. I aviod people, I don't go on facebook, etc etc.

I just don't want to hear it, or see it, or even be asked about lovey dovey shit. It means nothing to me if I'm not with a woman. Here I am always told I'm a sweetheart, blah blah but yet I don't have a woman to show for it.

Most women today just want a "hawt" dude and not a dude who will love her for herself with all his heart.

and then they wonder where all the nice guys are.


heres a little secret girls..... THEY ARE IN THE FRIEND ZONE. WHERE YOU LEFT THEM TO ROT!!!!



uhhh ^ hahahaha no. you guys just don't have the confidence to go up and introduce yourselves to women and establish a confident presence for yourselves.

btw "avoiding people, being an independent loner" etc. is probably why you are single... not sure if you recognize the obvious here.

Seriously stop making excuses for your own faults, grow a pair and put yourselves out there. Its primal for us men to be the ones to make the first moves anyway (usually), and women (or girls in some of your cases) love confidence and when we show interest in them

Posted 2/13/12
well i will share chocolates to my servants
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Posted 2/13/12
Forever alone with my dog. At least she will love me
Posted 2/13/12
What's valentines day o.0
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Posted 2/13/12
GIRLS, Y U NO DATE ME?

:lol:

on a serious note, FFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUU,!!!! ; ^; i will be forevuh alone on valentines day > w < this topic doesent help me at all!!! ::foreveralone:
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Posted 2/13/12

ampcloud9 wrote: Ahh the day where couples can engage in lovey-doveyness (yes i know i made up that word) and where singles can sulk in their own lonelyness. Well your in luck for those singles around there. I have a solution to your wonderful problem(s) so hear me out. BEING SINGLE IS PERFECTLY FINE. As a matter of fact its a bit better than being in a relationship. Reason? Its because you dont have to deal with many things. Yes being in a relationship has its perks but single can be good too. One, you dont need to deal with any stress. Any Stress-free relationship is not possible. DONT TEST IT BECAUSE YOU WILL FAIL. Now if their is stress free relationship that means your just wanking off to something.... Lmao. Two, You can save some money. You dont need to buy anything for your girlfriend/boyfriend besides your mother (i mean common who doesnt buy something for their mom) so you saved money CONGRATS! (*clap, clap, clap, clap*). Three, you can do whatever you love without someone interrupting you or soneone who keeps trying to call u every 5 seconds to know what your doing (yes im talking about you girls with a habit of being way too insecure of their boyfriends) And last but not least, YOU DONT NEED TO WORRY ABOUT A THING! Being single is fun, no need to worry for any type of BS, (unless you have some type of erectyle disfunction)* NOW REMEMBER I NEVER STATED BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP IS BAD IM JUST STATING THIS THEORY FOR THOSE SINGLES WHO'S DESPERATE FOR A RELATIONSHIP RIGHT NOW!*


bad spelling, faulty theory, and no you didn't make up "lovey-doveyness". not that it's a real (recognized) word.. but it's been used for a long long time.

sure, being single is perfectly fine... IF you actually want to be single. which at your age, might even seem like an attractive idea.

and of course there's no such thing as a stress free relationship. hell, even parents and kids have stress in their relationships. but that doesn't mean that the relationship is a bad idea on the whole.

and if you think a relationship is all about buying her (or him) things.. then you obviously really don't understand what a relationship is about. if your opinion is that it "saves money" then you are following the logic of "buy her treats till her pants fall off". but prostitutes are so much easier, and honestly, a lot cheaper.
if you really care about the other person in the relationship, you just buy them things because you see the thing, think it's cute / reminds you of them / whatever. the money really isn't part of the equation (unless it's something horribly horribly expensive)

if your partner needs to call you every 5 seconds, then you need to tell them off. not saying you should scream at them (because we all know that's -such- an effective way to solve problems right?) but something like "look hon, if you want to talk to me, come over and talk to me. it's kinda silly to keep going to my phone every 20 seconds for a text message when i'm trying to [insert activity here]"

and if you do end up with a psycho freak chick who loves to play BS head games... call her on it. "what, you're gonna leave right now, if i don't kick my friends out and hang out with only you? hmm... *open front door* they've been my friends longer than i've known you.. do you really want to see which one i pick?"

honestly, like somebody else said, it just sounds like you're trying to talk yourself into buying this crap. i mean sure, fine, if you really feel happier not in a relationship, that's fine for you... but don't try to make a silly sales-pitch out of it.




Maiden_aya wrote:...Yeah I don't even know how Valentines day got recognized as a holiday...Actually I think all holidays are stupid, but whatevs
Being single is the best thing in the world!! There are times when I am tempted but I think if I settled down I wouldn't travel as much. [snip] If I had a boyfriend, he'd be all like "Why you always moving?" "Why you always traveling, let's cuddle."

what, you mean you never heard of the Hallmark company? (no seriously, shit like that is truly why we do celebrate a majority of modern holidays. easter, valentines, hallowe'en, christmas.. probably lots more, i just don't recall them)

as for dating... just find a guy who likes to move around as much as you do. it's exactly as silly as when i hear guys say the same thing.



Sakura_Weller wrote: I don't need a man. I can soar higher without excess baggage.

Like i just suggested to Maiden_Aya ... just find a guy that is going to lift you up instead of drag you down.



Honey-X-Venom wrote: There are pros and cons for both being single and being in a relationship.

this is not wrong... and it;s also not wrong to say that a lot of the time it's a "the grass is always greener.." situation. taken people imagine all the wonderful things about the single life, and singles imagine all the wonderful things about being a couple.

but lets be perfectly honest.... in a good relationship, it's fair to say that the pros outweigh the cons by a pretty large amount.
even a rather mediocre relationship is usually not any worse than being single. it doesn't help here that we are biologically programmed to try and find a mate.


anyway, here i am, single and alone. up at 3am monday morning, and it's likely gonna be the same tomorrow too. anyone whos actually read this far has probably figured out form my tone that i'd much rather have someone ... but valentines day itself really has no bearing on the matter. just a stupid day that card and chocolate companies have conspired to elevate so that they can sell more cards and chocolates.
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Posted 2/13/12

D01BCDN3 wrote:

I don't know, this depresses me more and makes me more lonely. I shall go masturbate now.


LOL. AMEN.

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