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Is it bad to like Anime girls more than REAL LIFE girls?
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Posted 2/15/12

gaara579 wrote:



that was like a year ago i don't have a way to contact her anymore LOL



My bad.


But did you said anything to her?
Posted 2/15/12

Skarz wrote:


gaara579 wrote:



that was like a year ago i don't have a way to contact her anymore LOL



My bad.


But did you said anything to her?


say something bad? no it was something else
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I don't think it's wrong to prefer one over the other in terms of looks, but I also don't think that it would be right to reject real girls based on the personality differences that you believe may exist between the two. If you chose one over the other based on personality, then I would see that as bad because I can only assume that your anime girl personality preference is based solely on the fact that the majority of real girls that you have encountered had what you thought of as distasteful personalities. If you prefer anime girls because of this, you would be under the assumption that all real girls have distasteful personalities and that there are no real girls with personalities like that of anime girls which is most likely untrue.
Posted 2/15/12

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I don't think it's wrong to prefer one over the other in terms of looks, but I also don't think that it would be right to reject real girls based on the personality differences that you believe may exist between the two. If you chose one over the other based on personality, then I would see that as bad because I can only assume that your anime girl personality preference is based solely on the fact that the majority of real girls that you have encountered had what you thought of as distasteful personalities. If you prefer anime girls because of this, you would be under the assumption that all real girls have distasteful personalities and that there are no real girls with personalities like that of anime girls which is most likely untrue.


i don't care so much for personalities just looks mostly
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Do what you want man or female. Do what you want. "LAWL"
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Well then, have I the anime for YOU!



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Posted 2/16/12

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acemcjace wrote:

I don't think it's wrong to prefer one over the other in terms of looks, but I also don't think that it would be right to reject real girls based on the personality differences that you believe may exist between the two. If you chose one over the other based on personality, then I would see that as bad because I can only assume that your anime girl personality preference is based solely on the fact that the majority of real girls that you have encountered had what you thought of as distasteful personalities. If you prefer anime girls because of this, you would be under the assumption that all real girls have distasteful personalities and that there are no real girls with personalities like that of anime girls which is most likely untrue.


i don't care so much for personalities just looks mostly


Just looks? Then you'll never succeed.

You just won't if it's all about looks and not about who she is as a person.

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Nope, since they are better looking. But also it is hard to like most of the girls in today's society because they all look so fake. Fake tan so they are orange, covered in makeup, breast implants with ridiculously big boobs...how are we supposed to like that?
Posted 2/16/12

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Nope, since they are better looking. But also it is hard to like most of the girls in today's society because they all look so fake. Fake tan so they are orange, covered in makeup, breast implants with ridiculously big boobs...how are we supposed to like that?


i hate them big just super small
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While it may sound trite and cliched, I've got to add my 2-cents with what Skarz from Brazil said. The dating game sucks. It really sucks. The effort, the expense, the hurt, the emotional ups and downs, the uncertainty.... (There are some good things and experiences too-- it's not all bad-- but that's not my point). But, it's the only game in town to achieve this thing that most of us as real human beings actually seek deep inside. The only other option is to give up, sit out, and not play-- and you'll be then forever a spectator, just watching it all pass by. We might sing with Simon and Garfunkel "I am a rock, I am an island.. And a rock feels no pain, and an island never cries--" and yet still know that these sentiments are false to our actual experience (and I think S & G knew it too-- I think the song is a bit sarcastic).

At this time last year, I was passing yet another Valentine's day with nothing in particular to do. Many dates, set-ups, matches, and yet seemingly nothing to show for it all except for the scars, some wisdom, and maybe a thicker skin. I was a paid e-Harmony member for about 5 years at that point-- at $25 a month, you can do the math. I'd thought about throwing in the towel many times-- maybe I'll just spend my income on anime, filling my house with PVC figurines and souvenirs from worldwide travels, and indulging in good food. At one level, that sounds pretty good (and in moderation, I'd say it's not necessarily bad at all-- PVC girls, good food and such), but I'd still say it's a pale imitation of what life could be. Today, I'm married to the love of my life, for the first time, at the ripe age of 41-- yes, that's my real age on the left there. A baby's on the way later this year. She doesn't love anime anywhere near as much as I do (though our first trip together? Anime Expo 2011! That was a hoot!), but that's ok. Why this time it "worked" and not any of the previous times, I still don't really know. (To any fellow Christians out there, I would say simply it was God's plan.) I didn't say the right lines, do the right things, or win her over with the right strategy. We just clicked, and knew we had finally found that which we had both been seeking. All I can say, though, is that had I not still been in the game, it would never have happened.

I'm definitely not saying I know all the answers, or "do like I did." But, if my measly experience can help anyone out there, it'll be worth the time in sharing it. Don't give up. Get back out there. Pick yourself off the ground, dress your wounds, rest a bit if needed, and then continue to fight the good fight. If you're like me, also, let go of your pride a bit, and change yourself a bit into someone that someone else might like to be around and choose. Don't betray yourself, but maybe improve yourself. As it is, life isn't all about you anyway. True enough, there are plenty of fake, insincere, shallow people out there. They're easy to find, and if this is all for which you strive, it'll be what you get readily enough. But, there are some real good ones out there too, and they're looking for other really good ones. Don't settle for less.

And, to get back to the specific topic of this thread... No, I don't think it's bad as if it were a moral evil or anything like that. I also don't think there's anything inherently wrong with "crushing" over anime girlies. They're drawn/designed that way, and one is simply responding as the artist intended (just like for ads for scrumptious food or exotic travel destinations). However, I do believe it is to choose an imitation over the real thing, and that it is ultimately to settle for less. They're a nice bit of candy, and make an already full life that much more fun, but they will ultimately not satisfy in the long run in and of themselves.
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Sushi... I want to offer you my sympathies for wasting 1500$ on that crappy dating site. lol
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Yes it is wrong to prefer anime girls. If you think otherwise, you are a buffoon and clueless about reality and its beauties. Perhaps even afraid of meeting other people.

There are so many reasons for why, that I won't even bother mentioning any of them. So stop being so foolish and get out there and meet real people.



eclair-lumiere wrote:

Nope, since they are better looking. But also it is hard to like most of the girls in today's society because they all look so fake. Fake tan so they are orange, covered in makeup, breast implants with ridiculously big boobs...how are we supposed to like that?


HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA


MOST GIRLS? Hahahaha... Oh you are a funny one! Oh... Yeah, I totally agree eclair-lumiere, most girls have done surgery to get breast implan- oh hahahaha, sorry I just.. I just can't keep my face straight.


You know, if ANY other user had posted this - I might have taken it as sarcasm, but you my dear? Oh no...
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Shitclaire's at it again.

Careful, she'll get you done for cyber-bullying! And who's gonna visit you in prison? That's right, not even your fake-tanned, fake-breasted mother. I mean, she's a woman in modern society, of course she has those.
Posted 2/16/12

AHTL wrote:

Yes it is wrong to prefer anime girls. If you think otherwise, you are a buffoon and clueless about reality and its beauties. Perhaps even afraid of meeting other people.

There are so many reasons for why, that I won't even bother mentioning any of them. So stop being so foolish and get out there and meet real people.



eclair-lumiere wrote:

Nope, since they are better looking. But also it is hard to like most of the girls in today's society because they all look so fake. Fake tan so they are orange, covered in makeup, breast implants with ridiculously big boobs...how are we supposed to like that?


HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA


MOST GIRLS? Hahahaha... Oh you are a funny one! Oh... Yeah, I totally agree eclair-lumiere, most girls have done surgery to get breast implan- oh hahahaha, sorry I just.. I just can't keep my face straight.


You know, if ANY other user had posted this - I might have taken it as sarcasm, but you my dear? Oh no...


well i a guess i am clueless about reality
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Of course anime girls are more attractive and ideal. Did you really think that the short skirts and huge boobs were for female enjoyment? They are meant to be appealing to the male population to draw them in. I think most men prefer them. Until they actually want companionship.
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