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Why Do You Think Its So Hard To Reveal Things About Yourself?
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22 / M / The Netherlands
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Posted 4/18/12
Tbh I'm the opposite of that. I don't usually tell that much about myself but when asked, I'm an open book and will tell whatever you want to know. Well, most things
Posted 4/18/12
People don't like sharing their personal stuff because they're afraid they'll be judged. That can be the hardest thing to deal with.
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Posted 4/18/12
cuz you don't think it's important?
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Posted 4/18/12
i don't think it is very healthy to bottle everything up. I feel that it could lead to certain disorders or dysfunctions :).
but u don't have to tell all the secrets the or complete details.
What I do, is I tell different things to different friends, but occasionally i overlap. It's easier for me that way. If i feel comfortable with the idea that I already told someone something, I might/ might not tell others too.
I get what i mean ???
Posted 4/18/12

MakaS0ul wrote:

People don't like sharing their personal stuff because they're afraid they'll be judged. That can be the hardest thing to deal with.


That is not true. I could care less what people think of me. That is their problem.
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Posted 4/18/12
It's a privacy thing. I can be as opened as an issue of Playboy with a bunch of 13 year olds, but there are still some things people will never know. Like what I think or feel during a certain time or situation. I've had to learn to keep a 'poker face' in a lot of situations because being badgered by people that want to know how I feel gets old real quick.
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because the person whom you revealed the real you might like or love you more, ooooooor he/she might avoid you like some kind of disease. That's why.
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Posted 4/18/12
It's not hard for me to reveal anything, I don't care if people know and I don't really think most people care to know.
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19 / M / Seattle, Washington
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Posted 4/18/12
I tell my close friends a lot of my secrets but i never tell my parents, bro n sis.. i can even tell you some of my secrets right now like.. I want to audition for K-pop XD im good at dancing... I never tell my family because they might think im crazy or something and i know they r not going to support me :(
But you should have someone who you should share your secrets... When u dont then u might go crazy... sorry for my bad english!
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Posted 4/18/12
i cant cuz i care what people think of me
internet is easier because of the anonymity
Posted 4/18/12
because you'll get stabbed with it someday.
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Posted 4/18/12
i have the worst case of foot mouth syndrome and because of that i say any thing that happens to pass though my brain its got me kicked out of a couple schools and into plenty of fight i let people know exactly how i feel and whats wrong with me and i have noticed people want you on meds or believe there must be something wrong with you for sharing certain things.i believe that's why people have trouble revealing things about them self its because they are worried what others might think and social norms.lucky i have no taboo fetish and that has saved me because im sure if i had no filter to hide taboo fetishes i would be in real trouble but my family knows about my mild s&m and when ever i cheat my girlfriend know it going to happen because i let her know when i find some one attractive and tell her what im planing to see if she has any ideas on how to get the hookup(this drives my mom and dad crazy because apparently there are thing not to share with your mom and dad or your girlfriend) and if she happens to ask what i did i give her the sordid details.
Posted 4/18/12
Shame? Probably shame. Do you suffer from a lot of shame? Do you do shameful things, maybe? Such a shame.
Posted 4/19/12

MakaS0ul wrote:

People don't like sharing their personal stuff because they're afraid they'll be judged. That can be the hardest thing to deal with.


I agree with this person. Some people are insecure about themselves. They don't want to project anything that they think might hinder their relationship with others. They want to appear in the best possible way. I think this reflects their own lack of self-confidence.
Posted 4/19/12

pinkrusse wrote:


MakaS0ul wrote:

People don't like sharing their personal stuff because they're afraid they'll be judged. That can be the hardest thing to deal with.


That is not true. I could care less what people think of me. That is their problem.


^Agreed, if they got a problem about who i am may they piss off.
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