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Why Do You Think Its So Hard To Reveal Things About Yourself?
Posted 4/19/12
I don't know, it just turns me on, I guess.
Posted 4/20/12

DAlainm wrote:


MakaS0ul wrote:

People don't like sharing their personal stuff because they're afraid they'll be judged. That can be the hardest thing to deal with.


I agree with this person. Some people are insecure about themselves. They don't want to project anything that they think might hinder their relationship with others. They want to appear in the best possible way. I think this reflects their own lack of self-confidence.


Exactly.
Posted 4/20/12

pinkrusse wrote:


MakaS0ul wrote:

People don't like sharing their personal stuff because they're afraid they'll be judged. That can be the hardest thing to deal with.


That is not true. I could care less what people think of me. That is their problem.


Well, yes. I'm sure it's not true for everyone. I just meant most of the general population feels that way. I feel the same as you to a small extent.
Posted 4/20/12
if i do it makes me think im tlking all about myself n that makes me uncomfortable
Posted 4/20/12
Its not really that hard. Just. Talk.
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Posted 4/21/12

revous wrote:

i have the worst case of foot mouth syndrome and because of that i say any thing that happens to pass though my brain its got me kicked out of a couple schools and into plenty of fight i let people know exactly how i feel and whats wrong with me and i have noticed people want you on meds or believe there must be something wrong with you for sharing certain things.i believe that's why people have trouble revealing things about them self its because they are worried what others might think and social norms.lucky i have no taboo fetish and that has saved me because im sure if i had no filter to hide taboo fetishes i would be in real trouble but my family knows about my mild s&m and when ever i cheat my girlfriend know it going to happen because i let her know when i find some one attractive and tell her what im planing to see if she has any ideas on how to get the hookup(this drives my mom and dad crazy because apparently there are thing not to share with your mom and dad or your girlfriend) and if she happens to ask what i did i give her the sordid details.


see i have the opposite
i tend to say things out loud without thinking it through...
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Posted 4/21/12
I'm the same..the worst thing is that when i actually DO try to talk, or am give the chance to, it either comes out wrong and sometimes it's just plain mean. I've suppressed my feelings about EVERYTHING for so long that i don't know how to express myself well now. So most of the time i don't even bother talking!!!!
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Posted 4/21/12
The judgement isn't the issue for me I can handle that it's the consequences resulting from the judgement that I have my issues. I don't care what they think of me but I care about what they might do when they know certain things about me.
Posted 4/21/12
Because I'm eco-friendly.
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Posted 4/21/12
It's nice that the US Post Office is running out of funding to operate. I'm hoping with all the potential building closures soon I'll get to do less extensive traveling nationwide taking down all those Wanted by the FBI pictures that have my photo on them.
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Posted 4/21/12
I dont know. My three best friends know everything about me
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Posted 4/21/12
because people judge. all the time. ><;;; ~
Posted 4/22/12
emotionless bastards don't do well with that kind of thing
Posted 4/22/12
Well, fuck this shit then.
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Posted 4/22/12
The problem for me is that most of the stuff I will never tell anyone is either of a sexual nature or just completely weird. I've tried telling my friend I liked guro and he gave me a weird look. Never mention that sort of stuff around him ever.

The main problem is you can't truly predict how people will react to what you reveal to them, it may be acceptance, hate, or just intolerance for something they can't understand.
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