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I Hate This About Me But....
Posted 3/7/12
Lol chromie. It's hard though to not to think such things when they seem to happen a lot.
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Well hello again.. ^^ like your input from the other forum befor.. but back to the topic..

The things i do hate and love about myself is my disorders.. They prevent me from fully connect with people.. And becuse of that i create many unfriendly bonds. Cant interact with females that is my own age.. as i cant understand the hidden message of what they saying or understand the subtile signales they do with their bodies to communicate.. That often ends with a girl fight and most people just watch and never intervine. so that makes me hate to socilize with females.. cant realy stand them as evrything is hidden and nothing is stright on..
(Well this is my oppinion) There for i just hang with guys.. tho it has it's bad effects aswell.. as if they are to friendly and forget to give attention to their girlfriends or girls that adore them that creates hatred.. tho boys dont realy think of that and not myself either but do care when it ends with fights.. And becuse of my disoreders i say things that most people tell me not to say.. as people cant stand the full truth.. even if they say they do.. so i say something truthful and very clumbsy without thinking and they get nuts over it.. and attacks.. xD One girl burnt me with a ciggarett on my shoulder still have the scare there but she had my fist agenst her nose so it ended there.. and other girl tried to throw a drink at me.. and i side stepped and the liquid hit her friend insteed that was pissed becuse i moved.. so i had two agenst me.. but that ended with me grab their heads and connected them and there it ends..

I'm not the most attractive one or something.. but when i hang with my friends that actualy are boys i get easy one in the group and they often say i'm more of a man then them.. haha.. gosh.. so girls just see that i'm a girl that dress and use make up like them.. but dont see that i'm just one of the gang.. and not a stalking love sick bimbo.. there for they overreact.. -.- And most of those that gets angry at me is becuse they ask me to help them flirt with one of my friends or tell a secret about them and my loyality always lies with them and i never sell them out.. so that is also something most people dislike..

Tho even if it is a curse.. i rather live with it... then live without it.. as i see the world diffrent.. and i always do random stuff that brings joy to my family and friends.. that they will always remember with a laugh on their faces.. Well i'm a large goof ball.
Posted 3/7/12
I hate how I'm so busy I dont get to do the things I really miss like watching TV and video games, my friends always say "dude, did you freakin see last week's SouthPark episode" or "man WTF the new Halo is unf**** believable, whats your screen name" and I'm always like "naw I didn't get a chance to see it, been busy" BUT I love working and doing the things I love and getting paid at the same time :-)
Posted 3/7/12

Maiden_aya wrote:

I searched for similar threads and the closest to it was the topic on what we hate about ourselves, but I wanted to take a different approach.

We all have qualities, characteristics, features, and things that we hate about ourselves. But have we ever tried to look at it differently?

So pretty simple. Write something you absolutely hate about yourself with a passion, and then mention at least one good thing that came from it, or why sometimes it's really not so bad.

For me:

I hate my inability for follow through, and jumping from project to project, hobby to hobby without fully learning what I started with BUT....if I didn't switch from learning French to Swedish I never would have met that cute Swedish guy and ruin his language by telling him that I'm using the bathroom instead of a normal greeting by accident. And if that never happened I would never have that story to tell my friends and make them laugh and go "Oh Raya." Because everytime they shake their head and say that in exasperated fondness, makes me realize how much my friends love me even when I'm doing and saying crazy things.

So I want you to really think about it. You will be surprised to find out that the very thing you hate about yourself had an affect or even a small connection to something you love.



Laughed hard at your story XD Way to go, looking at the positive aspect of it.

I've thought about this many times, and I have to say, it's probably my ability to try and figure out everything/inability to let things go without a thought. People say they like how I can help them see things through in ways they haven't considered, but my mind is never turned off and I really wish I could just stop for a while.
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I hate that I took multiple years jumping from computers to animation/art, to video production, to music, then finally back to computers... but I finally got my degree and never gave up and also think that my creative side helps me come up with new ideas for software and helps me solve problems in unique ways.

I also hate the fact that I am completely oblivious when it comes to women... the fact that I talk to women, but I have never initiated a conversation with flirting involved, and often never realized that we were flirting until it was over... but this has caused situations where the girl asks me to go out, and usually adds "not just as friends", and it's nice to not have any ambiguity as to why we are getting together.

And then we go to put put golf and I hit golf balls at her head... on accident... or we get tipsy and I end up doing stupid dance moves like "Starting the lawn mower" or "Trimming the hedges" in an attempt to demonstrate value.... some guys put cigarettes through quarters, I act out a day in the life of a gardener in dance form...
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Posted 3/7/12
I hate my constant procrastination, but, I do it because I want to.
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Posted 3/7/12 , edited 3/7/12

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Laughed hard at your story XD Way to go, looking at the positive aspect of it.

I've thought about this many times, and I have to say, it's probably my ability to try and figure out everything/inability to let things go without a thought. People say they like how I can help them see things through in ways they haven't considered, but my mind is never turned off and I really wish I could just stop for a while.


Yeah....I was stretching there xD. But that's the point. Something that's precious to you may seem unrelated to your terrible traits, but in fact somehow it is connected.

I hate how I just can't shut up with my strong opinions with my family, because it normally leads to an argument and crying (we're all a bunch of big emotional overdramatic babies *sigh*) BUT if I wasn't honest with them all the time they probably wouldn't come to me for advice and an honest opinion for their problems. It makes me happy knowing they can trust what I say, even if they don't always agree with it.

...and what really gets me...is why do they keep coming to me, if they don't like what I say?
Posted 3/7/12

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i hate that when things get hard or if it takes too long my determination slowly dies an its really annoying,kuz most of the stuff i really b wanting to do


You talking about sex?
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Posted 3/7/12
i procrastinate to the last possible second and my mind is usually very muddled with random things
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Posted 3/7/12
I hate how I can't speak up for myself, but at least it prevents me from getting into conflict.
I also hate doubting everything, but sometimes my doubts are right.
I hate myself for hesitating so much because I'm always too late to do anything. But, in certain situations, hesitating was a good thing. Though, not much.
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Posted 3/8/12
I hate that I tend to be extremely lazy, and procrastinate. If I keep up with this: no scholarship for me. But when I mean I'm lazy, I mean LAZYYY. When I wake up I don't fix my sheets, I get lazy and don't brush my teeth at night, I say: 'ill study later' and I end up studying at 12 am the night before the test.

I also hate that I aim for perfection even though that's impossible, I wanna do everything in the world, but we all make mistakes.
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Posted 3/8/12
I really hate how I am so shy and the fact that I'm always contradicting myself. Even though I'm shy I have managed to find the right people who I can call my friends and who are positive infleunces around me. My friends also find my contadictivness(don't know what other word to use here) to be funny and we always laugh at some of the strange things I say.
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Posted 3/8/12
I hate that I'm so forgiving.. Any bad stuff you do towards me, most likely I'll forgive you. What good has come of this? Uhh, the next day I feel good? o_o
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Posted 3/8/12
I hate that i have trouble meeting people at my college. when i try to start a conversation. It usually ends up without them responding or just walking away in the middle of what im saying. Maybe im just not saying anything interesting, but idk how to really talk to people without using small talk. It's strange.
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Posted 3/8/12

Sammy_Doo wrote:

I hate that I'm so forgiving.. Any bad stuff you do towards me, most likely I'll forgive you. What good has come of this? Uhh, the next day I feel good? o_o


My cousin is like that. But she gets hurt more often than i would like and when i tell her that certain things shouldn't be forgiven so easily she just tells me it's too much trouble to hold a grudge. I just wish she didn't let people do that to her.
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