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[For girls, written by a guy] On why guys are assholes
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Is this thread done yet?




Sorry I need to go to bed now...
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LynnTerra wrote:

I would say look for people who can spell decently. I figure if they're to lazy to do it right, they're to lazy to do you right too.


slaps your across the head for that comment

some people have dyslexia not the faked there lazy its the faked they cant and way to day is the just frow them aside even thot they wont help

and most people who have dyslexia may suck at English spelling are like super smart
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Next step is use of punctuation.
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LynnTerra wrote:

Next step is use of punctuation.


that would be dyslexia
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Everyone has their reasons.
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LynnTerra wrote:

Everyone has their reasons.


hang on i rember u lol my buddie from old cr i think
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Hmmm. It's possible.
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LynnTerra wrote:

Hmmm. It's possible.


have no clue why you brought up spelling lol



oh all so did u have some one help you out with your bacgrond once like had pore prints and they help u put the framing rand it
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underlock wrote:

That huge wall of text and all... best anti-guy opening ever.


I couldn't agree more. You sure this was written by a man?
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ReaperEXE wrote:

You sound like a self-absorbed, borderline sociopathic, insecure douchebag, with some serious, serious daddy issues. You are most certainly not the "perfect nice guy", you are an asshole.

I hate it when guys complain about the friend-zone, it's their own damn fault their in it in the first place. You're in the friend-zone because you're not making your intentions clear soon enough, and it's very obvious that you do not respect women - they are not fragile! You can deny this all you want, but you're one of those jerks looking for a relationship for the sake of having a relationship. You don't get there by "doing all the right things", there's no formula to follow when it comes to relationships.

Your reasoning for breaking up with your high school girlfriend is a sick joke. Obviously you didn't care for her at all, let alone loved her. You didn't break up with her because you were taking her feelings into consideration, you broke up with her because you wanted to avoid conflict! The only thing I'm wondering is what kind of idiot would fall for your tricks?

My advice to you; drop the nice guy act. Not only does it not suit you, but clearly you're terrible at it. Just be yourself. If you want to get a girlfriend, you'll have to do a couple things. One, you're going to have to work on your communication skills; they are atrocious. Two, you're going to have to view women as equals, not "fragile". When you talk to a girl and you see that you have the right kind of chemistry, ask her out, you'd be surprised at how often that works. You don't need to play all these games to get the girl or to keep her, and if you think you do, either she's not worth it, or there's something fundamentally wrong with you. At this time, I'm certain that the latter is true.


I just have to say, this is beautiful, ReaperEXE! Best of all it's true! Bravo, sir. Bravo!

Topic starter is a pompous prick, and utterly shallow to boot. Ain't no decent woman gonna go for a piece of that.

Holmes, meet your hand. I'm sure you'll have a wonderful relationship together.



I agree, I couldn't have said it better than ReaperEXE even if i tried!
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I would never read all this!
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Alright well first off. CONGRATS ON MY FIRST POST ON CR!!!!!!!!! YAY!!!!

Now to the topic at hand. To the original poster. What you need to realize is that there are also many different types of "assholes." There is the straight up prick, the lovable asshole, the the asshole who treats most woman like crap except the one that they care for, etc etc.

Second off I am going to agree with everyone who said you came off as a pompous ass. Opening with a long introduction of yourself talking about your wealth, you schooling and such is not categorized as a "nice guy," it would be categorized as a self-absorbed douche nozzle. I also believe that you have many issues that you are not aware of (as do we all.)

For example I will write about myself in the same way that you did. I am a fairly good looking male with long blond hair how to my shoulder blades. I also have a slender athletic build with only 4% body fat and i weigh in at 155 lbs. I am not wealthy but worked hard enough to buy my own car (which by the way cost me $8000.) As well i have an IQ of 160. I speak English and know the written language of Ogham. I learned to read at the late age of 7 and by the time i was 9 i was reading college level books. I am also attempting to be an accomplished writer, I had a book that was to be published but hated it so i scraped all but the first 12 pages. I also have had plenty of successful relationships with lots of women that others would call beautiful or gorgeous.

Now you can not tell me that in no way shape or form comes off as pompous and conceited.

Learn more about yourself and stop blaming others for your own inabilities at getting a girlfriend. Even at that point as said earlier there is no formula for getting a woman. Be yourself and don't try to impress girls to try and get them it only leads to failure and pushing them further away.

I apologize if my message is a jumbled mess. I have a habit of writing and then adding something else to another section only to go back to where i was.
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I don't know your obviously better than everyone else why would there be a problem with you? maybe you should be an asshole cus its fun and you normally get what you want in the end. If your too nice then your a push over.
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shadowfang666 wrote:


For example I will write about myself in the same way that you did. I am a fairly good looking male with long blond hair how to my shoulder blades. I also have a slender athletic build with only 4% body fat and i weigh in at 155 lbs. I am not wealthy but worked hard enough to buy my own car (which by the way cost me $8000.) As well i have an IQ of 160. I speak English and know the written language of Ogham. I learned to read at the late age of 7 and by the time i was 9 i was reading college level books. I am also attempting to be an accomplished writer, I had a book that was to be published but hated it so i scraped all but the first 12 pages. I also have had plenty of successful relationships with lots of women that others would call beautiful or gorgeous.



Pics or it didn't happen.

oh yeah btw congratz on the first post!

edit* 4% body fat is a Bodybuilder at his peak status...
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Let's see... You are a freshman in college, you broke up with your high school girlfriend 8 months ago, and you can't stand not having a girlfriend... Dude. Get a life! It's been 8 months!!!! You're under 20 years old!!!! Talk to me when you are 35 and have been dating blow-up dolls for the past 16 years! Then I'll believe that you are totally being passed over by women because you're "too nice".

Based on your post, I'd say you are more likely being passed over because you are self-absorbed. Eight months without a girlfriend is not the end of the world.

Perhaps you need to ask yourself why you want a girlfriend so badly? (HINT: If you want a girlfriend really bad, your likely to get a really bad girlfriend!) If it is just to have a girlfriend, you shouldn't have broken up with the last one. If you go through life with the attitude you display in your post, you are likely to go from girlfriend to girlfriend without ever really making a connection with anyone. If you meet someone that you are interested in, get to know her; ask her out on a date; etc... If she turns you down, it doesn't mean she is doing it because she likes assholes, it means that you don't do it for her, for whatever reason. When the chemistry is there, it will be there. Don't force it!
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