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Does it seem like more girls just get married for there wedding day?
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Posted 3/7/12

squirrel3d wrote:


agira wrote:

well Kim Kardashian showed us the TRUE meaning of marriage....so there !!!


Well she's a piece of garbage...I don't care if she's good looking. It pisses me off as guy what she did.


I couldn't agree more...I'm still surprised by how many people admire her
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Um, back on topic....

Yes, it seems women do seem to get over-obsessed about the perfect wedding. And if she doesn't her mother will for her. And there's lots of big industries out there JUST for making a wedding as big and grandiose as possible.

Now, as to whether MORE girls are going crazy over the wedding than ever, I can't say. Weddings are generally a big deal in most cultures, and involve very expensive and elaborate customs. And the wealthier people are, the more crazy they can make it.

Actually, my mom wanted to have a super-simple wedding, but her mother forced them to have at least a reception and more than 30 guests. I know I'd want something really basic, should I ever get married myself.

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Posted 3/8/12
I don't think that is true. I know a lot of girls get excited about their wedding day and want it to be perfect, but I doubt many get married just for the day. That would be unbelievably stupid.
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I know a lot of girls that have married young just so that they can start having sex... That doesn't really sit right with me, but to each their own.
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Posted 3/8/12
Seems like it... then you find out about their divorce a few years later
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weddings are for the wife and the mothers, thats all, end of story
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Posted 3/8/12 , edited 3/11/12
I thinks some do or at lest it seems like. The reason for asking this is b/c I was on yahoo answer and a lady was asking a qoustion about her wedding well that was only part of the qoustion the 1st part of it was about her and her BF how he is going away in to the army and she was asking if she gets married now she can only have the wedding of her and her BF b/c she don't have the money now for big wedding so she was asking what should she do wait in till when ever he gets back from the army or get married now. Well All the Girls that answered her qoustion was like yelling at her saying how big day her wedding is and it's the most inpornt day of your life and so on. It seem like every girl that was answering her question only seem to care about her wedding and not about the BF going into the army.
Posted 3/8/12
To them, it's like valentines day, but a lot more permanent.

Who knows... such mentality could also be the reason divorces are skyrocketing so high.
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Posted 3/8/12

Maiden_aya wrote:

To be honest I always think it's a bit unfair that the only big parties you have in life are for graduations, weddings, special occasions, etc.

Those are pretty much the only day that everyone is there to see you, so it is a special day.

Me and family are entertainers so my Mother is no help, constantly telling me I should get married and it'll be the best even we ever threw T_T But to fight her influence I told her I'd settle for a going away party for when I move overseas for awhile.

Everyone wants their special day, and the wedding is the most common one. I just wish more of the woman getting married would realize that's not the only special day they can have, and focus more on the seriousness behind the marriage vows than the event.


i agree with you , but i can sympathize with most woman. that these events are all different, your only 18 once. you only marry the man once, or atleast that the idea.

why not live now, when you don't know when tomorrow comes.

not directed at you but the question now, if you ever been passionate about anything you try to make it the best and do your best with it. whether its playing sports or what not. you want to do something your proud of.
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Posted 3/8/12
Yeah sometime it does seem like some girls only care about thear wedding day I think you call them Bridezillas or something like that.
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Posted 3/8/12
I dread the day that a friend of mine marries. I will beg and plead to all forms of deities so that I'm not the maid of honor. She will become a major bridezilla, but I think she'll be happy with who she marries.

As for me, I don't really want a big to do wedding. I'd rather have a small, simple, and casual wedding. Too big of a party takes away your focus from the bide and groom.
Posted 3/8/12
Weddings are soooo boring! -__- Always end up drinking too much and falling asleep.

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Um... no... you usually get married because you love someone.

But some do get married just for their wedding day.

Or publicity *points at Kim Kardashian with the finger*
Posted 3/9/12 , edited 3/9/12
tbh i see no point in it singing a pce of pap wasting all that chash on pointles day to say were a cupple i can say that when were boy grend and girlfrend still i whould only get engaged no more
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Posted 3/9/12

Maiden_aya wrote:

To be honest I always think it's a bit unfair that the only big parties you have in life are for graduations, weddings, special occasions, etc.

Those are pretty much the only day that everyone is there to see you, so it is a special day.

Me and family are entertainers so my Mother is no help, constantly telling me I should get married and it'll be the best even we ever threw T_T But to fight her influence I told her I'd settle for a going away party for when I move overseas for awhile.

Everyone wants their special day, and the wedding is the most common one. I just wish more of the woman getting married would realize that's not the only special day they can have, and focus more on the seriousness behind the marriage vows than the event.



I agree with this and also it seem like stuff like this is the only way to get your full family together even ppl you have not seen in years
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