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Forever Alone?
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20 / F / ireland
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I don't mind being alone most of the time. I dumped a boyfriend once because I felt I was losing too much privacy.


My ideal relationship would be one where my boyfriend/husband lives and works away most of the week and comes home only on weekends or the odd weeknight. That way I can be with someone, but not feel over-whelmed.
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I don't know. I kinda feel I stay single more by choice. I don't have issue finding someone, but I do have an issue finding someone that enjoys what I do. I dated someone last year and into this year that I was pretty serious about, but she was so obsessed with going to bars, that it completely turned me off. I hate going to bars. I have a Master's Degree, a career, a house, etc.. I don't want to hang around drunks. Especially ones that have nothing to offer, and only drag you down. Nope sorry. We broke up, and she is enjoying her life in bars, and even found a bar citizen that she's dating.

I get everyone around me asking me why I don't date someone all the time. Because I don't want to deal with the headaches. I haven't met someone that will move forward with me. The only people I meet drag me down or slow me down. I have far too many ambitions and life goals to slow down.
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Wish I wasn't.....
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GodWhomIsMike wrote:


I don't know. I kinda feel I stay single more by choice. I don't have issue finding someone, but I do have an issue finding someone that enjoys what I do. I dated someone last year and into this year that I was pretty serious about, but she was so obsessed with going to bars, that it completely turned me off. I hate going to bars. I have a Master's Degree, a career, a house, etc.. I don't want to hang around drunks. Especially ones that have nothing to offer, and only drag you down. Nope sorry. We broke up, and she is enjoying her life in bars, and even found a bar citizen that she's dating.

I get everyone around me asking me why I don't date someone all the time. Because I don't want to deal with the headaches. I haven't met someone that will move forward with me. The only people I meet drag me down or slow me down. I have far too many ambitions and life goals to slow down.


Hold on just a second, - just because you don't like bars doesn't mean everyone in a bar is a drunk.. I could call you a pretentious fool with a masters but then again I don't know you and would be incorrect to say so.
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Posted 6/16/12

Keiek5 wrote:


GodWhomIsMike wrote:


I don't know. I kinda feel I stay single more by choice. I don't have issue finding someone, but I do have an issue finding someone that enjoys what I do. I dated someone last year and into this year that I was pretty serious about, but she was so obsessed with going to bars, that it completely turned me off. I hate going to bars. I have a Master's Degree, a career, a house, etc.. I don't want to hang around drunks. Especially ones that have nothing to offer, and only drag you down. Nope sorry. We broke up, and she is enjoying her life in bars, and even found a bar citizen that she's dating.

I get everyone around me asking me why I don't date someone all the time. Because I don't want to deal with the headaches. I haven't met someone that will move forward with me. The only people I meet drag me down or slow me down. I have far too many ambitions and life goals to slow down.


Hold on just a second, - just because you don't like bars doesn't mean everyone in a bar is a drunk.. I could call you a pretentious fool with a masters but then again I don't know you and would be incorrect to say so.


Just her. But, I felt I invested a lot of time and emotion into it, and it ended in complete disappointment.

What's ironic is that the person before her was all about career, and career only. No time to do anything. She worked till 10-11 at night, and even put weekend time in. She hated my house in the country, hated the outdoors, etc...

If I meet someone, then I meet someone. I am not really all that worried about it.
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22 / M / Indiana
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I have a feeling I'll be alone for a really long time. I don't have many friends, and I don't really want any. Whenever it comes to girls, I've built up a massive wall and I'm scared to talk to them. For now, it's working for me, but in like, 5 years, I'd like to meet a girl and settle down.
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M / New Mexico USA
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Gotcha I have the same problem, don't really know who's fault it is, mine or the women I date but it hasn't worked out so far. I just keep thinking 'one day' and if that day never comes.. well, I'm okay by myself as long as I have friends to talk to. -and porn haha
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WackyFiasco wrote:

What's so bad about being alone?

/crawl back into cave


Agreed :3
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M / big UK chinatown
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if you enjoy your own company then it isn't a problem I got to a point were for several months i was alone and it didn't bother me , though after that it did so i went out there found another job and got myself a girlfriend . I think every human being needs time alone at some point to find themselves .
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My new theme song.

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23 / F / New Zealand
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I'm not, personally. But I don't think people should feel pressured into dating etc either. If you're honestly happy alone, that's totally fine.
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29 / M / Philadelphia
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Relationships seem well, but if you mess up choosing the right person you're pretty much f'd for life.
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22 / M / USA
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I sometimes want a girlfriend , but then i look around and see all the people who are dating are more miserable than the people who aren't . I would rather be forever alone than have relationship problems, and if you really think about it all we forever alone people really aren't alone. There are many others like us in the world who say they are forever alone , so let's be forever alone together. Meaning that friendship is what counts
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Im never alone xD I got my panda
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