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Forever Alone?
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Posted 8/31/12 , edited 8/31/12

MikiSayaka wrote:


justinitsu wrote:

When you think negatively like this, then that's how you come across and nobody wants a negative person.


Perhaps, but with me, I think negatively in my head about myself, but it generally doesn't come out IRL. I'm too concerned with the emotions of people around me, and me being depressed openly would depress others, which is something I wouldn't want to do. I slouch, which I guess is the only visible sign of my low self esteem and negative thoughts. Aside from that I try to portray a positive image.


That's the problem. Since you aren't happy with yourself, nobody will be happy with you. You have to respect yourself before you can respect any one else. It's like wave lengths. You push out negative energy and it influences others. I'm not trying to sound like a hippie, but all you're doing is sugar coating yourself instead of being yourself and that's the problem. If you being yourself is negative, then you need to change that. You shouldn't worry about attracting females when you don't even attract to yourself. When you truly respect and love yourself, people will see it shining all around you. The confidence and happiness will make others smile and then you'll be pulling numbers left and right. You got to stop thinking that it's about others when it's not. It's about you! You won't even have to ask girls out because they'll be asking you out.

I don't want to preach, I just know it works because I've told the same thing to all my friends and when they finally just let go of their fear and confront themselves, they get everything they want. I've seen it with my own eyes. I have a literal example of this. I went to New Hampshire with a few friends and we went cliff jumping and none of us would jump off the 60ft jump. Their were a bunch of girls around just watching, being scared just like the rest of us so I said "fuck it" and I just ran off the cliff. I thought I was going to die and when I hit that water, it was like being whipped, but when I came up, everyone was cheering me. 2 of the girls asked me if they could share a beer with me and I declined them, but just seeing that inspired my friends to just get over themselves and they jumped as well and the same thing happened to them. Granted 1 of them got so wasted he passed out around 9pm, but the other friend shared her tent that night. They were loud.

Let go of your fear. Let go of your limits. Fly!

/end rant lol
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no man. my lover Naruto is busy with saving the world and becoming Hokage soon. I'm just here supporting him in the shadows!!
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Posted 8/31/12

carmensakura07 wrote:


tortoiseshell wrote:


WackyFiasco wrote:

What's so bad about being alone?

/crawl back into cave


I'll join you! Caves are awesome.


Let's have a cave party~~! Woohoo~!


Count me in, please... uhm, what's a "party" ??? ._______.


FOREVER ALONNEE!!!! D:
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At this rate....Yes, yes, I might be left forever alone...

But hey, I will still have my imaginary friend, my anime pillow, and my anime action figure (NO NOT DOLLS!!!) collection.
and CR.
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Flyinglotus wrote:

I'm usually not alone, but I always feel alone :I


I know what you mean, my brethren.
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Anime_Fanatic1 wrote:

Yes I'm forever alone. Whenever I try to get close to people I feel that I can't trust them and then push them away. It's not that I prefer being alone, I just feel more comfortable that way.


I know how that feels...
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Reptic wrote:

For me, I find it's always lonelier being around a huge group of people who have no interest communicating with you than it is when you're with a select few who you could actually talk to. Even being by yourself seems better than being isolated in a crowd to me.



Yep, that's me.

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Yes.
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Who doesn't love to be alone?

If I had a super catapult I'd have sent you all flying to space ages ago. Don't worry, Nasa will be offering free spacesuits, so you can enjoy the loneliness for as long as you have oxygen to breath.
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I am forever alone, and I want to be. Anybody want to be forever alone with me? OWAIT
Posted 9/1/12
Anybody wants to be alone but noone can endure solitude.

Love forever <3
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justinitsu wrote:

Defective male? You have confidence issues. You're only broken because you think you're broken. You are you and that's normal. There is no such thing as a defective person in this sense. There is nothing anyone can say to change this if you won't change it. If you say you're defective, then you must know what's wrong which means you can fix it. If you don't know, then you can't say you know you're defective.

As far as opportunities go, don't look at work then. Join a gym. Go to the park. Go to conventions. Find things to do. I belong to a rock climbing gym and it is overflowing with hot girls in spandex every time I go. Put yourself out there, be vulnerable and take risks. Nothing bad can happen to you. You might get rejected, but what's bad about that? They're the ones missing out you, it's their loss.

When you think negatively like this, then that's how you come across and nobody wants a negative person.


You're right. I am what I am, and what I am is what no one wants.

Yep, definite confidence issues. I've always had them and I don't think they'll go away easily. I believe that confidence is built from positive outcomes and experiences in life. If your life is devoid of positive experiences or positivity in general, confidence will never grow.

Work is unfortunately the only thing I have going for me right now. I eat, sleep, work, eat, sleep, work, eat, sleep, work, eat, sleep, work, eat, sleep, work, eat, sleep, work, eat, sleep..... sorry 'bout that. Anyway, since I don't have anything positive in my life to counteract the truckloads of negativity I absorb from my job every day there is no way I can grow confidence. I could try to put myself out there by imposing myself on others, but when I do that I feel unwelcome no matter where I go. (At least it always feels like I'm only imposing myself on others when I go somewhere to interact with people when I haven't been expressly invited to do so.) It's rare that I'm ever invited as a wanted guest to go, well, anywhere. This is an eleven year cycle that I've been stuck in with no clear end in sight. At least no end that would result in a positive outcome. I could quit or get myself fired to reduce my daily dose of negativity, but then that would introduce the whole "no money" problem, and not many people want to hang out with a guy who lives in a cardboard box under a freeway overpass and smells like garbage and B.O., because that's probably where I'd end up.

So yeah, I think I need to break myself of the habit of thinking that I'm unwanted everywhere I go. It's difficult because I've been like this for so long. I almost can't tell the difference anymore between it just being in my head and genuinely not being wanted around. It's all blended together now.

"Nothing bad can happen to you?" Sure it can: The police could be called, restraining orders could be issued, I could be pepper sprayed, tasered, beaten senseless with blunt instruments, etc... (Just kidding of course, I'd have to be trying a little too hard before stuff like that would happen. )
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Posted 9/1/12
- raises hand - Im forever alone! =-=
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haha your funny me too xD GIRL RIGHT OVER HERE (i really need a boyfriend xD, but fuck it cause i'm terrible at socializing)


I tried to deny it before but its true .__.
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Posted 9/1/12

wwe wrote:



TeeHee I know were you got that from lol haha and nope not alone have a new bf


HAHA SAME!!! The poor guy.......xD
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