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why do men cheat on their wives?
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Why do women cheat on their husbands?

Why is OP biased?

Why is reproduction so important?

Why are humans so whimsical?
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acemcjace wrote:


LynnTerra wrote:

It goes both ways. It's both sexes that do such.


Yes, but men do it more often.


Where are your sources for that statement?

Studies have been inconclusive, with some showing that women cheat considerably more than men, while others point at men. To further muddy the issue, some studies show that the guys who cheat tend to have multiple partners, while a woman who cheats tends to stick with their one side partner. Still others have concluded that women cheat more often, but are better at lying about their behavior to hide it.

I am aware of no solid conclusion that definitively points to one or the other. I suppose that I could go digging more, but it doesn't seem worth it at the moment. However, the bottom line is that to say that one gender is more unfaithful than the other is simply playing on stereotypes. Not facts.

In my experience (amongst those who I know and in my own personal experiences) it's been the women who have a slight lead. With that said, personal experience does not describe the larger reality.

The safe assumption at this time would be to view the behavior of both sexes as being about equal, at least until we have more solid information.
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mystic17 wrote:

There's no main answer for such a question since both males & females cheat for different reasons. What bothers me is why cheat on your partner and betray them when you can just leave and spare them the pain.


^ This. A dozen times over.

The other issue that bothers me is when people get angry and want to start "kicking someone's arse". I saw that a lot when I was younger. Getting angry, sure, I can see that... but what are they fighting over? Someone who was unfaithful to them in the first place. There's just nothing worth fighting for.

Then there's the fact that the man or woman who's with "your" SO may not even know that anyone's cheating. Like really, dude, do you really think she told the second guy "oh lol btw I already have a boyfriend and I'm just having fun with you".

Personally I just walked away. Bitter as hell, yes, but there are plenty of other people out there and I'm not wasting my time on someone like that.
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GrateSaiyaman wrote:

Chaos . . . some people thrive on it.
Narcissism . . . that speaks for itself.
Sometimes they get cheated on first, then there's a bunch of different reasons or rational....

Most of the women that I've known that cheat or get cheated on are tired with their spouse... One fellow I knew that "got around" had his best luck with women that had only been married two years... It works the same way from other side,.


agree's but theres also the fact that there was no feeling to begin with. since we are talking about males, they were never in the relationship they were doing it for the wife but then they get tired of it.

another one is people get married way to early. you know those amazing year relationship that then ends horribly after that year. many people marry during that amazing year.
with the idea above, pre marriage impregnation, so marry cuz you share blood.

i think thats about it. alot of people i know who cheats and are in a happy relationship can't handle the peacefulness and so they thrive on the chaos even though they hate themselves for it. they grew up in a chaotic family all there lives, but in the ends they can't escape the chaos.

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Men find a woman who can make a better sandwich.
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Bane13 wrote:

LMAO

Because... where do you start !?!

Look up 'sociopath' and it clearly needs a picture of a man-boy-ape next to the term. Narcissistic, immature, perpetually pubescent, perverted, rapist, violence loving destroyers of everything. "It goes both ways" in your fantasy-land. Even where women are legally killed by law for the mere accusation of adultery, those andro-savages still cheat on those same females. And lets not forget about molestation and rape for starters, etc, etc, etc. Pathetic.



Hahahaha...that was very funny.
Posted 3/8/12
because there are better girls out there lol
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After 2 kids and 5 years of marriage, the woman decides she doesn't love the guy anymore, and never wants to have sex, but wants to stay married for the kids.

I'm surprised my friend hasn't cheated. The wif'es family is flabbergasted also.

So I think the answer, it's really very easy for a guy to be a piece of shit, and very hard for him to be decent in the face of a malicious world.

So what's that say about a woman that finds a decent guy, and then treats them like shit?
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She don't give head! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH. Im just kidding everybody
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I find the OP of this thread sexist.
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most guys jus arent ready,an they do stupid shit,or they jus weak an cant fight temptation
Posted 3/8/12

gaara579 wrote:

because there are better girls out there lol


That explains leaving, not cheating. And if you're cheating / leaving it clearly shows that there's someone better for her too.
Posted 3/8/12
Both men and women cheat for various reason lets not turn this into a male bashing thread please
Posted 3/8/12

underlock wrote:


gaara579 wrote:

because there are better girls out there lol


That explains leaving, not cheating. And if you're cheating / leaving it clearly shows that there's someone better for her too.


ya it does if i had a girlfriend or wife and (i really wound't) but i saw a girl and she was hotter better in everyway i can get to girls
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Because I'm horny
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