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why do men cheat on their wives?
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i would say that it can feel exiting to cheat because it is ''forbidden''. that goes for both male and female
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Jan- wrote:


J-RockFan7 wrote:

Because men stop loving their wifes and get bored with them. That's why, when you get married, get married with a person you'll never get bored or irritated of :D


...sounds little too perfect for me.^^'''


Well just get married to a person who you wont get bored with and you'll never get too irritated with, is so, you'll get to grow their annoyance. Also find a person who's flaws you'll never get tired of :D



now that sounds more like it,when i fall in love with someone i don't fall in love with just half a person.=)
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lieutenanthawkeye wrote:

why do men cheat's on their wives?


Maybe because he can't get over that his ex is getting married to his best friend.


....happened to you perhabs?o.o
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i'm so against it, but he a husband does this he don't deserve that wife that's been loyal to him...

Loyalty is only priceless for those that understand what loyalty means.
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In Japan it is not the same. I spent a summer working in Tokyo without my wife and all my male Japanese and Mongolia friends there could not understand why I didn't want to hook up with Japanese girls. "Why not? Because I'm married," I would say and they would look at me like I just said something odd. They would come back with, "So what?" They all seemed to assume the main reason for western guys to be in Japan was to do it with Japanese girls. The pimps would ask me if I wanted Japanese, Chinese or Russian girls. Hostesses were walking around in very little on the streets at night, ladies on the same roads in kimonos, maiko and geisha occasionally come by, the women working in offices wore high heels and short skirts every day. It was like a J drama, I swear! It was awesome but might have been more fun as a single guy... Stare at a subway map for a while and a girl would help you. There was SO much temptation, I am glad and proud to say I did not fall for it. I love my wife and just couldn't hurt her like that by cheating on her or lying to her about it. Just not worth it for an hour of fun.
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hpulley wrote:

In Japan it is not the same. I spent a summer working in Tokyo without my wife and all my male Japanese and Mongolia friends there could not understand why I didn't want to hook up with Japanese girls. "Why not? Because I'm married," I would say and they would look at me like I just said something odd. They would come back with, "So what?" They all seemed to assume the main reason for western guys to be in Japan was to do it with Japanese girls. The pimps would ask me if I wanted Japanese, Chinese or Russian girls. Hostesses were walking around in very little on the streets at night, ladies on the same roads in kimonos, maiko and geisha occasionally come by, the women working in offices wore high heels and short skirts every day. It was like a J drama, I swear! It was awesome but might have been more fun as a single guy... Stare at a subway map for a while and a girl would help you. There was SO much temptation, I am glad and proud to say I did not fall for it. I love my wife and just couldn't hurt her like that by cheating on her or lying to her about it. Just not worth it for an hour of fun.


Listening to you rationalize your obviously painful inner conflicts made me empathize with you on a level I wasn't prepared for. I feel anxious and depressed now, like as if I had actually gotten married and actually felt as trapped as you do. Yeeesh, it isn't even my life, but I feel totally frustrated now from just imagining myself in your shoes.

Oh man!
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Because the wife doesnt like him so he have to find another woman.
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Because the sex.
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Jan- wrote:


J-RockFan7 wrote:


Jan- wrote:


J-RockFan7 wrote:

Because men stop loving their wifes and get bored with them. That's why, when you get married, get married with a person you'll never get bored or irritated of :D


...sounds little too perfect for me.^^'''


Well just get married to a person who you wont get bored with and you'll never get too irritated with, is so, you'll get to grow their annoyance. Also find a person who's flaws you'll never get tired of :D



now that sounds more like it,when i fall in love with someone i don't fall in love with just half a person.=)


That sounds good lol
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J-RockFan7 wrote:


Jan- wrote:


J-RockFan7 wrote:

Because men stop loving their wifes and get bored with them. That's why, when you get married, get married with a person you'll never get bored or irritated of :D


...sounds little too perfect for me.^^'''


Well just get married to a person who you wont get bored with and you'll never get too irritated with, is so, you'll get to grow their annoyance. Also find a person who's flaws you'll never get tired of :D



How would you know, though? When people get married, they DO assume that they'll love each other forever. It's hard to predict whether the feelings would still be there after a few years of marriage.

Anyway, sometimes the spark just leaves a relationship. Sometimes the man meets someone new. Or it could be a mix of the two. I'm sure every cheater has their own reasons.

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cause men find out that there is no such thing as love and only with them for their looks. So when someone new, young, and nice lookin come along, they start to cheat yeah that it
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90% of the lifeforms on this ball of mud we call home dont keep one mate.
Yess more guys do cheat based on the number at first glance. Take into consideration that most women
wont brag about thier infidelity, but guys do.
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DiamondsForever wrote:


J-RockFan7 wrote:


Jan- wrote:


J-RockFan7 wrote:

Because men stop loving their wifes and get bored with them. That's why, when you get married, get married with a person you'll never get bored or irritated of :D


...sounds little too perfect for me.^^'''


Well just get married to a person who you wont get bored with and you'll never get too irritated with, is so, you'll get to grow their annoyance. Also find a person who's flaws you'll never get tired of :D



How would you know, though? When people get married, they DO assume that they'll love each other forever. It's hard to predict whether the feelings would still be there after a few years of marriage.

Anyway, sometimes the spark just leaves a relationship. Sometimes the man meets someone new. Or it could be a mix of the two. I'm sure every cheater has their own reasons.



I know but when you get married make sure that no matter what pick the right person to marry. If the person has had a history of cheating and constantly cheating, you already know that that's not the person to marry. Plus, you have to make sure that the person is in love with you and that no matter what there willing to stay with you even if you have done one mistake during the marriage. That's why, make sure that when you get married, make sure you're not second guessing when it involves spending the rest of your life with a person.

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For the same reasons woman do. What, did you think it was a one-way street? Lol...
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Because the little piggy went to the market and went WEEEE WEEEEEE ontop of the neighbors mouth.
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