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why do men cheat on their wives?
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Relationship failure. Somewhere along the line there is a lack or presence of some behavior that is hurting the wife/husband and they have not sought to correct it, thus a wall is thrown up and they are driven apart. Most often its relationship failure, not saying its a particular party's fault, just that there is some sort of mutual issue regardless of whether or not the husband/wife is aware of it.
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lieutenanthawkeye wrote:

why do men cheat's on their wives?


why do women cheat on their husbands?
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acemcjace wrote:


LynnTerra wrote:

It goes both ways. It's both sexes that do such.


Yes, but men do it more often.


lol!
You obviously are not where i am from.
One girl in my old highschool admitted to dating 7 different men.... :P
There is no he does it more/she does it more.
In the end there are just cheaters lol.
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Marriage is one of the reasons, but both husband and wife are accountable.

Women stop taking care of themselves. Have children, and stop taking care of their bodies. As their wives (considering that they dated long enough to know each other and not irresponsibly married too soon), they should know the sexual appetites of their husbands, what they find appealing, what turns them off. Then children are born and they start giving men less attention. Us men, are needy mo********ers who want attention from the women we've married but we will never admit it or ask for it. Granted this is NOT a generalization of most women, but it's not uncommon.

Men who cheat on their wives generally have a stronger libido than the average guy. If they stop finding them appealing, they will look for other pleasures in other places. Maturity is also a factor. If the wife starts showing more affection to their kids, they might look for someone else to give it to them.

Also, forming a household and having kids requires you to have a greater income, which, in all likelihood means that you have to work longer hours. Longer hours mean less time at home. Less time together leads to less communication. And lack of communication is kind of a big deal. This applies to both sexes (to make this comment anime-related, I wonder how Madoka's parents got along, with the wife a workaholic and he being a stay-at-home dad...)

All in all, marriage is evil. The only way to prevent it would be to date each other for a pretty long time. Christianfags might hate this but moving in before getting hitched is a pretty sound idea.
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people are weak, fall into temptation. and sometimes people just dont really care about the relationship they're currently in
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Posted 7/19/12

demo_Animation wrote:


acemcjace wrote:


LynnTerra wrote:

It goes both ways. It's both sexes that do such.


Yes, but men do it more often.


lol!
You obviously are not where i am from.
One girl in my old highschool admitted to dating 7 different men.... :P
There is no he does it more/she does it more.
In the end there are just cheaters lol.


Spirits are willing but the flesh is weak. And last I checked, both men and women were made of flesh
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demo_Animation wrote:


acemcjace wrote:


LynnTerra wrote:

It goes both ways. It's both sexes that do such.


Yes, but men do it more often.


lol!
You obviously are not where i am from.
One girl in my old highschool admitted to dating 7 different men.... :P
There is no he does it more/she does it more.
In the end there are just cheaters lol.


Yes it's true, there are plenty of women who cheat but that does not change how I feel. I honestly think that, in a relationship, a man would be more likely to cheat than a woman. Of course it's only my opinion and I cannot prove this to be fact, but it is what I truly believe based on my observations of people and my own experiences as a man. I assume from your comment that you formed your own opinion in very much the same way as I did and I am perfectly fine with that.
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for the lulz
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for the lulz


Agreed.
Posted 10/15/12 , edited 10/15/12
Seems rather easy in the digital age , you don't know everyones secrets and the internet you can be anonymous anywhere you want. You could have several flings easily with a few keystrokes and neither side cant be to sure , if the other is doing something behind the others back. I say men do it when its easy , when its easy men are easily tempted , Thats probably why Arnold Schwarzenegger was caught having a affair with his freakin maid and supposedly he really loves his wife. >_>.

People could have a friend on the side on second life , world of warcraft or their freakin xbox or linked in account XD.
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I've seen different people cheat both men and women for various reasons and personally none of them hold water. If you are with someone they deserve respect that you won't trample there feelings. If you no longer care about them leave.

I've been with my wife for 17 years, married almost 13 of them. I've never cheated. My father cheated on my mom when I was a kid and all the pain it caused just because he couldn't keep his pants on. I swore I never would. No, being with my wife isn't always easy, from either one of us, we're people, we are who we are and you won't see eye to eye all the time. It takes work and communication to keep a marriage or relationship in general from going stale. Lucky for me my wife and I have a lot of common interests.


Sorry for the wall of text.
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For excitement... maybe his wife doesn't want to do the kinky stuff... so he ventures.
For some people, the mere thought of cheating is exciting.
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The same reasons women cheat on their husbands.
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Revenge, loneliness, lack of affection, sheer boredom, shamelessness. Its not just men..
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lieutenanthawkeye wrote:

why do men cheat's on their wives?


Probably for the same reasons women cheat on their husbands? What? you think they don't?


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