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why do men cheat on their wives?
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-Vega- wrote:


Jdaimond wrote:


CLarose wrote:

Some people who say they would never cheat, have never had the opportunity to cheat. Male or female, people cheat and Bayram is closer to correct than anyone trying to use single examples of how a tiny demographic doesn't cheat (that's just as stupid as asking why do men cheat). In general, people don't mate with the same person for life. That's the cold hard fact and if it makes you feel sad... Too bad...


That is just completely wrong. You trying to sound wiser than me when you believe that kind of bullshit.

YOU CAN NOT KNOWINGLY HURT THE PERSON YOU LOVE IF YOU LOVE THEM. Temptations, will power, opportunity, weakness, boner, are you saying all of them things are stronger than love?

Dont tell me not to judge when I say this, not to think im always right when I say this because the cold hard fact is that i am 100% sure when I say this.

You do not know what love is! You think having a relationship means your in love with that person, NO.

Im thinking you cheated on somebody and you are trying to tell us that we would all do it to if the opportunity presents itself.
Dont try to make excuses for yourself. A true man would beg that girl for forgivness and always hold it against himslef for commiting one of the most pathetic acts in the world, ADULTRY.
If you did cheat on somebody and are making excuses than you are level 100 douche bag.




The bold part: I agree. He is just justifying his actions by projecting them onto us.


Good to see someone using their think tank.
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I would honestly be to lazy to cheat...it's too much work dealing with 1 person already hahaha
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Better question. Why do women cheat on their husbands?

Men cheat on their wives usually because their wife stops showing them affection. Women seem to think that once you've married a guy all you gotta do is sleep with him once a week/month/year/never and you've secured your relationship. Its more complicated than that. Or, she loses all self respect and turns into a fat ugly.. ugh.

Several studies show that women are actually more likely to cheat than men. Women are simply less faithful than men in general. As soon as they see a guy with more money, or a guy that likes to beat them and insult them. Or a guy that does drugs and has no job. Their juices get flowing and they get ready to cheat. But yeah okay. Men are the only people that cheat on their partner. Keep believing that.

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Probably most people are in it for the looks. Once that wears out they look for something else sexy?

Probably why enjoying their personality is important as well.
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NoBreyner wrote:

Not that men is a race.


Yup. We're not a different species; we're just poor victims of mutation.
Posted 12/12/12
A major reason is because they don't feel loved
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Oldthrashbar wrote:

Better question. Why do women cheat on their husbands?

Men cheat on their wives usually because their wife stops showing them affection. Women seem to think that once you've married a guy all you gotta do is sleep with him once a week/month/year/never and you've secured your relationship. Its more complicated than that. Or, she loses all self respect and turns into a fat ugly.. ugh.

Several studies show that women are actually more likely to cheat than men. Women are simply less faithful than men in general. As soon as they see a guy with more money, or a guy that likes to beat them and insult them. Or a guy that does drugs and has no job. Their juices get flowing and they get ready to cheat. But yeah okay. Men are the only people that cheat on their partner. Keep believing that.



God forbid women age and gain some weight or neglect their appearance as they tend for a family...
Selfish, much? Men age far less gracefully than women, y'know.
So in your logic, as soon as a man stops "taking care of himself" (what does that even mean?) a woman should be disgusted and look to cheat. Feh, what a pitiful person if you think like that.

Here's what I have to say: Don't like the person? Don't stay with them. Married? Divorce. In a relationship? Time to end it. Cheating should never be an option, no matter what.

You know why most people neglect their appearances after a long marriage? Because they found something else more important: work and kids. Sad, but hey, it's life. I'm married but still take care of myself, and I hope to always do. However, my husband isn't a selfish douche bag, so if I "let myself go" for any length of time, it doesn't bother him. Because I don't care what he looks like, either. Women are forgiving like that. I love him for who he is
Men are the ones far more likely to care about the physical appearance of their partner than women. Not always true, but true enough times.

/rant (forgive any spelling mistakes, typing on my phone...)
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gaaaaahhhhhhh so many sexist stereotypes, people are people, everyone is different, stupid to generalize, everyone has their "reasons" for doing anything, dont judge....etc etc etc
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A lot of people have their sexist stereotypes and rationale for cheating but its all just superficial excuses. Humans have the urge to procreate just like every other living organism on the planet. In my opinion, "Love" is just a name we give our social instinct that keeps the procreation cycle going. If that isn't the case I wonder why there are so many people out there having children (with men and women that they knowingly dont love) all the while, knowing they can't take proper care of their children. They sound driven to procreate to me.
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the men dont get enough lovin'

but in all honesty it is everybody's fault in some way, some women tend to neglect their husbands for whatever reason it may be( or the other way around), the husband starts to get turned off, another woman comes along, sees the perfect oppurtinity for some action, the husband takes the bait and BAM.....you get a cheater...or both the other women and the husband are horny as hell and BAM...same outcome

while it is the husband's duty to not cheat on his wife, you cant blame just the husband, that would seriously be unfair
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Jdaimond wrote:


-Vega- wrote:


Jdaimond wrote:


CLarose wrote:

Some people who say they would never cheat, have never had the opportunity to cheat. Male or female, people cheat and Bayram is closer to correct than anyone trying to use single examples of how a tiny demographic doesn't cheat (that's just as stupid as asking why do men cheat). In general, people don't mate with the same person for life. That's the cold hard fact and if it makes you feel sad... Too bad...


That is just completely wrong. You trying to sound wiser than me when you believe that kind of bullshit.

YOU CAN NOT KNOWINGLY HURT THE PERSON YOU LOVE IF YOU LOVE THEM. Temptations, will power, opportunity, weakness, boner, are you saying all of them things are stronger than love?

Dont tell me not to judge when I say this, not to think im always right when I say this because the cold hard fact is that i am 100% sure when I say this.

You do not know what love is! You think having a relationship means your in love with that person, NO.

Im thinking you cheated on somebody and you are trying to tell us that we would all do it to if the opportunity presents itself.
Dont try to make excuses for yourself. A true man would beg that girl for forgivness and always hold it against himslef for commiting one of the most pathetic acts in the world, ADULTRY.
If you did cheat on somebody and are making excuses than you are level 100 douche bag.




The bold part: I agree. He is just justifying his actions by projecting them onto us.


Good to see someone using their think tank.


Seems like you two are incapable of objective thought... It's funny to me that you feel the need to jump to conclusions just because I don't agree with you due to your lack of experience and objective outlook.
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look if the man aint getting the sex he needs he will find another to get it.....testosterone is a very powerful thing...it gets ya horny as hell....just sayin
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lieutenanthawkeye wrote:

why do men cheat's on their wives?


Does this question really need to be asked? Men cheat for the same reasons they drink beer, play video games, and shoot squirrels with BB guns - because they are bored and it is fun. Sounds reasonable, right? Women are terrible cheaters too, but we are better at denying it.
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To be honest, you're an idiot if you think Women age more gracefully than men. I think it's complete bullshit that some wives completely let go as soon as they get married even if your not pushing for a child.


mhibicke wrote:


lieutenanthawkeye wrote:

why do men cheat's on their wives?


Does this question really need to be asked? Men cheat for the same reasons they drink beer, play video games, and shoot squirrels with BB guns - because they are bored and it is fun. Sounds reasonable, right? Women are terrible cheaters too, but we are better at denying it.


That's not something to be proud of.
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(This thread makes my head hurt because of all the bs I see flying around) Also who cares what happens in other peoples private lives figure the answers out yourself that's the only way you'll come up with a reliable answer not from stupid studies, peoples posts, biased stereotypes ect. ect.
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