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why do men cheat on their wives?
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My retort to you sir is why do women cheat on their husbands?


Money says that you have not clue-_-
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because There dumb, if they need to cheat why get marred any way its a waste to brake a heart, wives cheat too, men its too sleep around woman because there boredom with him or feal they need more
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CLarose wrote:


Jdaimond wrote:


-Vega- wrote:


Jdaimond wrote:


CLarose wrote:

Some people who say they would never cheat, have never had the opportunity to cheat. Male or female, people cheat and Bayram is closer to correct than anyone trying to use single examples of how a tiny demographic doesn't cheat (that's just as stupid as asking why do men cheat). In general, people don't mate with the same person for life. That's the cold hard fact and if it makes you feel sad... Too bad...


That is just completely wrong. You trying to sound wiser than me when you believe that kind of bullshit.

YOU CAN NOT KNOWINGLY HURT THE PERSON YOU LOVE IF YOU LOVE THEM. Temptations, will power, opportunity, weakness, boner, are you saying all of them things are stronger than love?

Dont tell me not to judge when I say this, not to think im always right when I say this because the cold hard fact is that i am 100% sure when I say this.

You do not know what love is! You think having a relationship means your in love with that person, NO.

Im thinking you cheated on somebody and you are trying to tell us that we would all do it to if the opportunity presents itself.
Dont try to make excuses for yourself. A true man would beg that girl for forgivness and always hold it against himslef for commiting one of the most pathetic acts in the world, ADULTRY.
If you did cheat on somebody and are making excuses than you are level 100 douche bag.




The bold part: I agree. He is just justifying his actions by projecting them onto us.


Good to see someone using their think tank.


Seems like you two are incapable of objective thought... It's funny to me that you feel the need to jump to conclusions just because I don't agree with you due to your lack of experience and objective outlook.


Im going to intervene in this conversation...

first of all Jdaimond, all men are diffrent, some think with their dicks and some think with their mind, since your roughly the same age as me, im going to assume you have never had a wife nor the opportunity to cheat on her. And since you seem to think all true men are incapable of knowingly hurting someone they love, im going to assmue you have never thought with your dick or watched porn and if you have(you probably have), you are proving your own statement wrong.

Temptation erases all sense of reason as you have noticed by probably watching porn. does that mean you are not a true man? NO there is no such thing as a "true man" there is only you and your morals and values. nowadays the only reason people try not to do this stuff because of all the rules and laws. back then it was completely diffrent.

and yes what CLarose is saying is correct, some people cheat, some dont. if you think someone is complete scum because of one mistake, trust me you will also make bad choices in your ife, so dont judge people on their choices when you have not had to choose for yourself.







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One_Week wrote:

My retort to you sir is why do women cheat on their husbands?


Money says that you have not clue-_-


For the same reason that they drink mohitos, buy shoes, and harass coworkers - it feels good and they are bored. (The same basic reasons why men cheat.)

I don't get why this is so hard for people to figure out. It's really not that complicated, unless you want to get into evolutionary psychology. Now there is a thread I'd be interested in!
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I'd imagine that a lot of people are done with their relationship and seek compassion or fun elsewhere.

Some people were just never made to be in a monogamous relationship
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Jeez, it depends on the person.
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Few things needed to be said.

*Don't put yourself in temptations way.
*Not all men have or do watch porn.
*Cheating on a boyfriend or girlfriend is also cheating.

People who cheat shouldn't make sorry ass excuses for what they have done. Why? Because they put themselves in the position to cheat. There will always be opportunities to cheat because there are slutty men and women at clubs and other places that throw themselves at you for sex. People who cheat because their relationship is crap are pathetic, rather than cheat and take an easy way out, work hard on your own damn relationship or break up. There is no point in cheating on someone, if you don’t love them, leave them and don’t cheat.
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Either they were cheated on, have weak morals, are immature or feel it is fine if they don't have "real" sex or if they are just playing around. You have to know what the boundaries of the relationship are also.. if you want to be exclusive he would have to want the same thing. If not, then he may not see it as cheating because to him there is no real commitment with you. The roles do reverse.
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Not satisfied with their current relationship
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Simply because they're idiots.
Nothing more needed to be said. ^-^
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Have you seen how most 30+ years old women look?
They let themselves go horribly. I recently saw a few girls from my HS class , and they've become whales.

I guess all that drinking and party and relying on their youth has finally caught up to them.

P.S, most women just let themselves go and stop trying after they find a sucker to marry.
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men dont cheat more often ive never cheated but have had 4 out of the 7 main relationships end with the girl cheating or be in the process of talking to others. thats a boys - 0 girls - 4 on my scoreboard right there. but with that im still not saying girls do it more. it just happens and the times i got cheated on its because i wasnt there for the person or just never cared to ask theyre opinion on things, not communicating alot of the times basically. u take the relationship and each other for granted the spark begins to fades and when people are going through things even just normal day to day life with out that sigificant other around or they do but just dont feel as if they do when normally there'd be that girl or boy youve wait to get off work and see or txt. you just werent meant to be they werent for you move on and dont hold grudges not against them or the opposite sex. relationships dont all always work
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kurishima wrote:

Few things needed to be said.

*Don't put yourself in temptations way.
*Not all men have or do watch porn.
*Cheating on a boyfriend or girlfriend is also cheating.

People who cheat shouldn't make sorry ass excuses for what they have done. Why? Because they put themselves in the position to cheat. There will always be opportunities to cheat because there are slutty men and women at clubs and other places that throw themselves at you for sex. People who cheat because their relationship is crap are pathetic, rather than cheat and take an easy way out, work hard on your own damn relationship or break up. There is no point in cheating on someone, if you don’t love them, leave them and don’t cheat.


first of all, like i said before all men are different. sometimes it is impossible to avoid temptation becuase it pops up out of no where, this is where the man has to choose for himself, either accept it or reject it, unfortunately some choose the latter.

second, i never said ALL MEN have watched porn, i was merely using that as an example.

and last (but not least), you entire post was about cheating on a girlfriend, not a wife, having a girlfriend/boyfriend is usually only a temporary relationship, while a wife/husband is someone you are supposed to love and be with your entire life. you cannot compare cheating on a wife with cheating on girlfriend, they are too different. and also you cannot simply "break up" with your wife, some people dont want to want to go through the whole process of divorce so they choose to cheat instead, some are even happier with the other person.

that is all i'm going to say on this topic, we clearly have a difference in opinion so i guess neither of us are going to be right. also, sorry you had to read so much of my ranting.
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You can reverse the question: Why do women cheat on their husbands?
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There're many reasons why someone might cheat. It might be that the person really isn't that attached, and thus sees no reason not to. It might be that the person is just weak and gives in to temptation too easily. It might be that something happened between the couple and the person reacted by lashing out with the first willing gender-appropriate specimen they could find. It might be that the relationship is over, but neither has been willing to admit it. It might be just the work of a scumbag who thinks it's their right.
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