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why do men cheat on their wives?
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why do men cheat's on their wives?


Because they're fuckin' stupid!
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Why do women cheat on their husbands?


OP: Asking such a stilted question is just asking for trouble.
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Breasts sag at age 30. Deal with it. xD


And men's junk stops getting up at 40. Ah haaaa!
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I find it interesting that most of the posters here are young and probably not , nor have been married. Having been married and divorced (not for unfaithfulness) after 13 years, I believe I can answer this. Most couples when married have no idea what love or respect is. They also have expectations for each other that can never be met by the other. As an example, the woman wants romance 80 to 90% of the time, while the guy wants sex and then left alone. I know this sounds cynical but after experiencing it and have gone through counseling with other divorcees, I have realized that most of us don't have a clue what real relationships are. When relationship becomes stale, hurtful and etc. either party will find someone to console them on an emotional level and end up having an affair. This is not true for all marriages and there are dirt bags from both sexes that just don't care and hurt each other. But I find that, that is not most couples problems.


I'm married myself, and yeah, my hubby and I went through this rough time while I was stationed in MT...the job was really getting to me, so I wasn't in the mood much. He had gotten out, was unemployed for nearly a year. We were coming up to our 3 yr. anny, and I had just found out I got orders out of there, FINALLY! I thought it was odd that he started having texts coming to his phone, when we knew back then they charged you per text. But one Sunday, after having looked at his phone, saw that this 'Casey' was actually a girl! He had the nerve to talk about my wieght, when this chick outweighed my ass by 30-40 lbs!

Yeah, I was SUPER pissed! She was scared of me, because based off of what she saw on TV, black women tend to get into serious fights over their hubby/boyfriends. Nah...I had gotten orders, and I was not gonna ruin it. Yeah, I wanted to punch the ever-living SHIT outta my hubby, but due to the fact that I was still in the military, that cooled me down. Let's just say I was thiiiiissss close to going to Japan alone. But we worked things out, and we visited my parents before we left the country. My mom didn't tell my dad, otherwise, he would've been greeted with a .38 special vs. a smile. Plus, he was battling cancer, as well, so we didn't want to stress him out.

But I did tell him this: 'No offense to you, Casey,(and I think she picked up on it too), but you had better not say a GODDAMN thing about my wieght again! And if you do this again, whether we have a kid down the road or not, we are THROUGH!!'

Yeah, it might've been my fault that I wasn't doing my 'wifely deeds' as often, which was why he said he cheated on me, because HE thought I was cheating on him. Who am I gonna cheat on him with in MT??? Really???? And said that she called him beautiful. I told him if that's all it took, then you were a weaker man than I thought! That's some shit a woman would say! He looked like I stabbed him in the heart with those words, but I bet he felt foolish for saying that lame excuse! Again, we worked things out, and things have gotten better, in fact. We have a 3 y.o. son, and we're coming upon our 10 yrs. soon!
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Men and women cheat for the same basic reasons.

-Their current relationship is lacking something they need.
-They want to feel wanted.
-They aren't in love with their current partner anymore.

The list goes on but I will stop there since those and others that come to mind have already been said. In my opinion though it just comes down to lack of discipline to not cheat when the opportunity arises. I will also add that people who cheat deserve no respect at all.
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There could be a lot of reasons in it, but I read an article long time stating that it's because of Democracy. When people have the freedom to choose, they tend to choose the most irresponsible thing.

I forgot where I read it, some scientist in England did a research on why people commit adultery. It said that if your ring finger is longer than your index finger, it means you have higher hormone and higher possibility of committing an adultery..

this is not the article I read, but close enough I guess...

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-moral-molecule/201004/five-tests-determine-if-your-partner-will-cheat
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justanotherguy_2005 wrote:

Men and women cheat for the same basic reasons.

-Their current relationship is lacking something they need.
-They want to feel wanted.
-They aren't in love with their current partner anymore.

The list goes on but I will stop there since those and others that come to mind have already been said. In my opinion though it just comes down to lack of discipline to not cheat when the opportunity arises. I will also add that people who cheat deserve no respect at all.


well said...and the one who does it is a dick
Posted 4/25/12
Both genders cheat so why generalize that men do it?
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lieutenanthawkeye wrote:

why do men cheat's on their wives?



Men cheat on their wives for the same reasons wives cheat on their men.

It swings both ways.
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Three Main Reasons


-The wife is too much.. (usually a nagger, no comfort, doesn't show affection, always bosses him around, or Unfair)

-He has found someone better (only idiots do this shitty reason)

-He's an ass..

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DeusExMachine wrote:

Breasts sag at age 30. Deal with it. xD


And men's junk stops getting up at 40. Ah haaaa!


No, that's 70, you dummyface.
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Because some women are needy! Fuck politically correct answers
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You can make the argument that it is genetics (Darwin).

But then you could also make the argument that we have evolved beyond the need to mass produce...
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not all men do that only assholes
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