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why do men cheat on their wives?
Posted 4/27/12

mluvese wrote:

They get tired of the same ole and one day they wake up and decide they aren't REALLY living anymore they reminisce about the good ole days and somewhere in between they say "Hey! That can be me again !" . Some try to involve they're wife suggesting they go and do something wild and the wife says no or nags about how they cant afford it etc ... all the while not knowing that her mid life crisis hubby is most definitely going to do what she just told him not to do because he simply does not care anymore he wants to live like hes free and in order to do that he needs a new life with someone or something new. Coming to this realization he throws caution to the wind and has a really great time until the excitement dies down and he is left with guilt not because he did wrong but because he had a really good time and doesn't want his wife or other life to know. We all know eventually shit catches up somehow, maybe its because he cant let go of having a good time ie the other woman or maybe its because he is trying to hard to hide what hes done. Mid life crisis happens to all of us its just how you deal with it and how you dont deal with it. When mines rolls around I plan to throw caution to the wind xD


Damn, you summed it all up nicely right there, that's exactly how it is o_o i dunno why they don't just end the marriage/relationship if they're not happy >.>
Posted 4/27/12

Crystabuni wrote:

they fall in love... then they get married.
they're all in love and stuff...
and then life gets super boring.
repeat, without the getting married part.


then there are the people that get married just to look good to the public.
no feelings connected.


You forgot the ones that get married just for financial reasons/benefits :p
Posted 4/27/12 , edited 4/27/12

mystic17 wrote:

There's no main answer for such a question since both males & females cheat for different reasons. What bothers me is why cheat on your partner and betray them when you can just leave and spare them the pain.


Oooh, someone else who thinks the same~ it's true, if they feel the need to cheat for whatever reason, then they should just leave their partner and then feel free to do w/e they want, dunno why they continue to stay in the relationship and cheat.. >.>
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Posted 4/27/12

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Kittychi75 wrote:


DeusExMachine wrote:

Breasts sag at age 30. Deal with it. xD


And men's junk stops getting up at 40. Ah haaaa!


No, that's 70, you dummyface.


No, Mr. Smarty Pants, there have been men as young as thier 40s that start suffering from E.D. (erectile dysfunction), esp. if there's something medically wrong that causes it, such as high blood pressure, or taking anti-depressants. And as they get older, yes, they need those blue pills more. But there are many causes of it, but other than getting older (yeah, with your 70s comment), there's actually something more underlying for it to start even earlier. Smoking (nicotine) even, can be a cause, if done long enough...

And oh, you must be a teenager/early 20s to think that women's breasts actually sag in their 30s...when they sag is hereditary. Or, in mine and most women who breastfeed, due to nursing. It's a part of life, they aren't gonna stay perky forever!

In fact, I'd think it odd if one were in their 60s and they DON'T sag!
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Posted 4/27/12

aerugo wrote:

They need to mate as much as possible? After twenty years of marriage, you're probably not fertile anymore, so husband cheats with a young woman suitable for childbirth?


I'd say more like mid-life crisis...
Posted 4/27/12

Kittychi75 wrote:


DeusExMachine wrote:


Kittychi75 wrote:


DeusExMachine wrote:

Breasts sag at age 30. Deal with it. xD


And men's junk stops getting up at 40. Ah haaaa!


No, that's 70, you dummyface.


No, Mr. Smarty Pants, there have been men as young as thier 40s that start suffering from E.D. (erectile dysfunction), esp. if there's something medically wrong that causes it, such as high blood pressure, or taking anti-depressants. And as they get older, yes, they need those blue pills more. But there are many causes of it, but other than getting older (yeah, with your 70s comment), there's actually something more underlying for it to start even earlier. Smoking (nicotine) even, can be a cause, if done long enough...

And oh, you must be a teenager/early 20s to think that women's breasts actually sag in their 30s...when they sag is hereditary. Or, in mine and most women who breastfeed, due to nursing. It's a part of life, they aren't gonna stay perky forever!

In fact, I'd think it odd if one were in their 60s and they DON'T sag! :huh:


So, stinky butt poophead, we must come to a compromise. Women sag in their 40s, and med can't get it up in their 60s.

Now it all makes sense.
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Posted 4/27/12

DeusExMachine wrote:


Kittychi75 wrote:


DeusExMachine wrote:


Kittychi75 wrote:


DeusExMachine wrote:

Breasts sag at age 30. Deal with it. xD


And men's junk stops getting up at 40. Ah haaaa!


No, that's 70, you dummyface.


No, Mr. Smarty Pants, there have been men as young as thier 40s that start suffering from E.D. (erectile dysfunction), esp. if there's something medically wrong that causes it, such as high blood pressure, or taking anti-depressants. And as they get older, yes, they need those blue pills more. But there are many causes of it, but other than getting older (yeah, with your 70s comment), there's actually something more underlying for it to start even earlier. Smoking (nicotine) even, can be a cause, if done long enough...

And oh, you must be a teenager/early 20s to think that women's breasts actually sag in their 30s...when they sag is hereditary. Or, in mine and most women who breastfeed, due to nursing. It's a part of life, they aren't gonna stay perky forever!

In fact, I'd think it odd if one were in their 60s and they DON'T sag! :huh:


So, stinky butt poophead, we must come to a compromise. Women sag in their 40s, and med can't get it up in their 60s.

Now it all makes sense.


"Stinky butt poophead"??

Really??

What are you, 12?? I wasn't even doing any name calling to begin with, is this what you do when folks don't completely agree with you?

Posted 4/27/12

Kittychi75 wrote:


DeusExMachine wrote:


Kittychi75 wrote:


DeusExMachine wrote:


Kittychi75 wrote:


DeusExMachine wrote:

Breasts sag at age 30. Deal with it. xD


And men's junk stops getting up at 40. Ah haaaa!


No, that's 70, you dummyface.


No, Mr. Smarty Pants, there have been men as young as thier 40s that start suffering from E.D. (erectile dysfunction), esp. if there's something medically wrong that causes it, such as high blood pressure, or taking anti-depressants. And as they get older, yes, they need those blue pills more. But there are many causes of it, but other than getting older (yeah, with your 70s comment), there's actually something more underlying for it to start even earlier. Smoking (nicotine) even, can be a cause, if done long enough...

And oh, you must be a teenager/early 20s to think that women's breasts actually sag in their 30s...when they sag is hereditary. Or, in mine and most women who breastfeed, due to nursing. It's a part of life, they aren't gonna stay perky forever!

In fact, I'd think it odd if one were in their 60s and they DON'T sag! :huh:


So, stinky butt poophead, we must come to a compromise. Women sag in their 40s, and med can't get it up in their 60s.

Now it all makes sense.


"Stinky butt poophead"??

Really??

What are you, 12?? I wasn't even doing any name calling to begin with, is this what you do when folks don't completely agree with you?



No, I also crap my diapies and cry.
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Posted 4/27/12
bs studys have show that the wife cheats frist then us guys thinking wtf for real so we go cheat to make up for it
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Posted 4/27/12
I have experience being cheated on and have, shamefully, cheated on someone I cared about. It's all about the situation and who you're with. You're not a horrible person if you do, but you are being extremely disrespectful to the person you are supposed to be committed. If anything, it's a wake up call for you or your spouse to split. It's not something someone would menacingly think up, like, "oh i'm gonna cheat now because that would be a horrible thing to do and I'm a bad person." It happens in the heat of the moment; you'll never see it coming. Although, I don't think it's ever a good thing to do, nothing good will come of it.
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Posted 4/28/12
To leave someone for another,you at least mentally cheat hermits are cool.
Posted 4/29/12
if your going to make a harem, you would go to Nice boat route
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Posted 5/2/12

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mluvese wrote:

They get tired of the same ole and one day they wake up and decide they aren't REALLY living anymore they reminisce about the good ole days and somewhere in between they say "Hey! That can be me again !" . Some try to involve they're wife suggesting they go and do something wild and the wife says no or nags about how they cant afford it etc ... all the while not knowing that her mid life crisis hubby is most definitely going to do what she just told him not to do because he simply does not care anymore he wants to live like hes free and in order to do that he needs a new life with someone or something new. Coming to this realization he throws caution to the wind and has a really great time until the excitement dies down and he is left with guilt not because he did wrong but because he had a really good time and doesn't want his wife or other life to know. We all know eventually shit catches up somehow, maybe its because he cant let go of having a good time ie the other woman or maybe its because he is trying to hard to hide what hes done. Mid life crisis happens to all of us its just how you deal with it and how you dont deal with it. When mines rolls around I plan to throw caution to the wind xD


Damn, you summed it all up nicely right there, that's exactly how it is o_o i dunno why they don't just end the marriage/relationship if they're not happy >.>


People always try to hold onto things they've had for along time including people. I also don't think its so much that the man or woman is unhappy with their partner at first but if the partner doesn't recognize and embrace the change at that time then most definitely the person will do some crazy things.
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Posted 6/5/12

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I have experience being cheated on and have, shamefully, cheated on someone I cared about. It's all about the situation and who you're with. You're not a horrible person if you do, but you are being extremely disrespectful to the person you are supposed to be committed. If anything, it's a wake up call for you or your spouse to split. It's not something someone would menacingly think up, like, "oh i'm gonna cheat now because that would be a horrible thing to do and I'm a bad person." It happens in the heat of the moment; you'll never see it coming. Although, I don't think it's ever a good thing to do, nothing good will come of it.
If that is really your reason, then it's a shit one. The only situation where this would be excused is if a gun was held to your head and you were with a rapist, not because you were horny and it was "in the heat of the moment". If that was the case then every time a person cheats, they would be excused. You obviously were not threaten with a gun so your reason sucks major balls

"oh I cheated on you, I don't think I'm right for you" is a douche bag move for finally realizing you both don't belong with each other. You obviously don't care about your partner if you were willing to betray your loyalty for a one night swing. Basically your five second jizz was worth more then your months time you've spent with your partner. If you can easily let go of something like this, even if the person was not right for you, how do you expect your future partner to have any trust in you

Yes, you are a horrible person, quit being in denial
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