mluvese wrote:

They get tired of the same ole and one day they wake up and decide they aren't REALLY living anymore they reminisce about the good ole days and somewhere in between they say "Hey! That can be me again !" . Some try to involve they're wife suggesting they go and do something wild and the wife says no or nags about how they cant afford it etc ... all the while not knowing that her mid life crisis hubby is most definitely going to do what she just told him not to do because he simply does not care anymore he wants to live like hes free and in order to do that he needs a new life with someone or something new. Coming to this realization he throws caution to the wind and has a really great time until the excitement dies down and he is left with guilt not because he did wrong but because he had a really good time and doesn't want his wife or other life to know. We all know eventually shit catches up somehow, maybe its because he cant let go of having a good time ie the other woman or maybe its because he is trying to hard to hide what hes done. Mid life crisis happens to all of us its just how you deal with it and how you dont deal with it. When mines rolls around I plan to throw caution to the wind xD

Crystabuni wrote:

they fall in love... then they get married.
they're all in love and stuff...
and then life gets super boring.
repeat, without the getting married part.


then there are the people that get married just to look good to the public.
no feelings connected.

mystic17 wrote:

There's no main answer for such a question since both males & females cheat for different reasons. What bothers me is why cheat on your partner and betray them when you can just leave and spare them the pain.

DeusExMachine wrote:



No, that's 70, you dummyface.

aerugo wrote:

They need to mate as much as possible? After twenty years of marriage, you're probably not fertile anymore, so husband cheats with a young woman suitable for childbirth?

Kittychi75 wrote:



No, Mr. Smarty Pants, there have been men as young as thier 40s that start suffering from E.D. (erectile dysfunction), esp. if there's something medically wrong that causes it, such as high blood pressure, or taking anti-depressants. And as they get older, yes, they need those blue pills more. But there are many causes of it, but other than getting older (yeah, with your 70s comment), there's actually something more underlying for it to start even earlier. Smoking (nicotine) even, can be a cause, if done long enough...

And oh, you must be a teenager/early 20s to think that women's breasts actually sag in their 30s...when they sag is hereditary. Or, in mine and most women who breastfeed, due to nursing. It's a part of life, they aren't gonna stay perky forever!

In fact, I'd think it odd if one were in their 60s and they DON'T sag! :huh:

DeusExMachine wrote:



So, stinky butt poophead, we must come to a compromise. Women sag in their 40s, and med can't get it up in their 60s.

Now it all makes sense.

Kittychi75 wrote:



"Stinky butt poophead"??

Really??

What are you, 12?? I wasn't even doing any name calling to begin with, is this what you do when folks don't completely agree with you?

-Nadia- wrote:



Damn, you summed it all up nicely right there, that's exactly how it is o_o i dunno why they don't just end the marriage/relationship if they're not happy >.>

Animus625 wrote:

I have experience being cheated on and have, shamefully, cheated on someone I cared about. It's all about the situation and who you're with. You're not a horrible person if you do, but you are being extremely disrespectful to the person you are supposed to be committed. If anything, it's a wake up call for you or your spouse to split. It's not something someone would menacingly think up, like, "oh i'm gonna cheat now because that would be a horrible thing to do and I'm a bad person." It happens in the heat of the moment; you'll never see it coming. Although, I don't think it's ever a good thing to do, nothing good will come of it.