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There are a few girls that I know but from my experience in the past several years I see that alot of women have such high standards. I'm a nice guy with a gentleman personality always giving women as much respect as I can. It seems no matter what I do its never good enough. I've liked women who are smart and pretty and the same time but they're stuck up as heck. I've liked women who are pretty but arent as smart but they're still stuck up as heck.

So now I'm asking everyone why are women so complicated?
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Girls aren't complicated at all!! It's just that guys don't understand us! 'Sides I guess i like ur type....guys who actually treasure their girl and makes her feel special!!
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Yeah I mean I never ignore a woman unless shes the type that likes to nag all the time, miserable or try to belittle us males making us feel useless and weak. I just cant stand women like that I mean its ok for a woman to be strong but dont brag about all the time saying crap that you're stronger than any man cause its not true. You can be stronger than some men but not all.

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Im not at all its just ppl have told me that women like guys who are A-HOLES than guys who are nice. I dont really believe that but I have seen some guys who are jerks who show no respect half the time and they have been in more relationships with women than I have.


Ah, I see. You should have mentioned that in the first post. In my honest opinion, I think it's just because those are the women who get stared at half of the time =_= The materialistic ones who look the greatest (they work out a lot, know how to do their make up really well, etc.) want them because the materialistc stuff is what they're interested in. So, if you have a good heart, good intentions, care more about the little things, those girls will most likely not be interested in you. And it sucks because I see men chasing after those SAME GIRLS ALL OF THE TIME. Then they wonder why they so easily threw them away for someone they feel presented a better IMAGE versus a better heart. I think a lot of those girls are just as materialistic as the men you call "assholes" - the same thing you see in those women, they see in those men. That's why, when the tables are turned, you might hear a lot of women asking others, "Why does he like her? She's such a bitch." when it comes to the women a lot of men typically go for. Is it possible for them to change their ways? Yeah, if they feel like it's something they want and/or need to do. Until then, if then ever occurs, I wouldn't hold my breath. Also, I'd like to point out that those women are not out of anyone's league - they just aren't on your wavelength.

I suggest trying to meet someone with a similar personality to yours - maybey the put the same amount of care you do into their appearance and such. If they don't like you as much, that's one thing, but I'm guessing those women are probably less likely to drop you for someone based on imagery since you would never do that to them.

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those girls dating jerks are tricked by men or they are being blind.
women having high standards? they dream big i guess or its what they decided for and guys also have standards towards girls right? we're just the same I think.

we are not as always complicated its just that we have different likes or dislikes, personalities, strengths and attitudes. Same goes for guys, we, girls, also see you differently. Also, its not having more experience in relationships that's important but finding the right one for you.

P.S: I'm a girl and their are many things that I don't understand from other girls too.
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Whoa thats a good answer right there its starting to make sense now. I just thought women saw me as misunderstood or uncool but I see now what I was really looking for.
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women aren't complicated, you just havent met the right ones
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Well you know I'm a black guy and the women I've liked were black women so you know how hard it is for me. Its like what a friend of mine told me before "Good guys get the girl last"
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Actually the most bizarre part about women behavior is that when they say something, it doesn't always mean what they said. Sometimes it does, sometimes it doesn't. With men, unless they are a douche or a player, those types will try to manipulate you, but everyone else pretty much always says what they mean. With women, its anyone's guess, expecting people to read their body language and stuff like that, rather hard for alot of men to do. I suppose if you know a woman well enough you would eventually learn to read her fairly well, otherwise good luck.
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Yeah I remember being told that I should read body language more.
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You just can't deal with them.
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Men are just as complicated as women are. We women just have a complex mind. But were not all the same. There is different types of women, and you have to know each of them? If you want. I say the same thing for men, there's different types, get to socialize more and you'll know. But were not complicated, you just need to get to know us more [:
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Guy's are complicated too! It's just they choose not to show it. What's the fun in talking about your feelings and being complicated, when you can spend your time insulting each other and making sex jokes?
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LOL sex jokes are funny
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