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Because the image of people in your head obviously doesn't match the not as simplistic reality. Welcome to humanity friend, enjoy your stay.
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And here I thought it was or-gates are from Mars and and-gates are from Venus when talking about attraction, mostly.
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you are very welcome
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Maybe you are not looking at the right place? lol  |
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hmmm...i tend to think of women as more emotional and sensitive, but also very intuitive...so a lot of time what makes sense to them totally goes over my head...like i tend to think they expect me to know how to act in every situation and read their mind or something...lol...so i guess you could say it's intentional...that way we are always guessing and that's how they keep us in check |
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They have more time than men to develop because they hit puberty sooner and mature faster.
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Because women are natural born multitaskers and men are more "one thing at a time" kind of folks. So we tend to over think things and read into things that aren't there. Guys women will forever expect you to pick up on the things we say but don't say. For instance if we say "we're fine" it means "I am not fine and if you don't fix it your in trouble." "I don't care" means "I do care and if you continue with your current actions so help me god....(insert unspeakable threat here.) Is this fair of us? no. However we are women and even if we try to be more clear sometimes we just aren't. Men we vagina bearers are different from those of you with penises. It isn't easy and sometimes we have misunderstandings but at the end of the day it is and arguments will happen. However there is a silver lining that is makeup sex.
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MopZ wrote:
And here I thought it was or-gates are from Mars and and-gates are from Venus when talking about attraction, mostly.
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Spoiler Alert! Click to show or hide GodWhomIsMike wrote:
MopZ wrote:
And here I thought it was or-gates are from Mars and and-gates are from Venus when talking about attraction, mostly.
I got it from here NSFW Spoiler Alert! Click to show or hide http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p-A8GvUehq4 NSFW.
The idea is that most men require only visual or mental stimulus to be both physically and mentally aroused, while most women have a clear difference between the two, and one does not always come with the other like with men.
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IMO I don't think its a matter of women being complicated, its just that we overthink things thus making it overcomplicated and confusing us men more. Same thing goes for women as well.
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Because we want to.
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I've been spending several minutes reading all the comments of the post I missed after six months. You guys have some really good advice and I'm picking up on that especially from the ones that had a whole paragraph of advice and experience. I would like to hear more from those ppl
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Dremux wrote:
Okay, I relate to the OP almost 100%, the only difference is one year in age and it seems he has actually had a relationship with someone, if I am not mistaken.
I have gone my entire life only having one girl give me the time of day, and that was in first grade, she was my first, and only crush. Due to "life" happening, I have been raised solely by my Mother, at least since nine years old. So, because of that I seem to have a different perspective on the fairer sex than my peers. My Mother raised me to always in any circumstance be a gentleman, never belittle or judge someone based on appearance or social status (male or female). I'm not saying being raised this way was a bad thing or that I wish she hadn't, that isn't it at all. But, I have found that I have become the prototypical "nice guy." The guy that is thrown immediately into the friend-zone. It is rather disheartening that most of my female friends have told me that I would make such a good boyfriend, or that the girl that "gets" me is going to be so lucky. And I hate to even say this because it sounds abhorrently egotistical, but, I'm not the worst looking guy ever, I have actually been asked out by more men than I have women, which I have been told should be flattering. Though when you've never been asked out by a girl before it doesn't really help that ratio.
Now, I refuse to change being a gentleman, because I have seen firsthand that guys who are jerks get the girl. I've watched quite a few of my friends wreck themselves mentally and emotionally by going out with guys who are just scum. Many times I have been the shoulder they have cried on when something happened, and even with a few relationships I have had to bring to an end for them because they were scared to leave by themselves. None of those ended pretty. It has actually come to a point where I'm wondering if I'll ever be in a relationship with someone.
Sorry for such a long post, I'll end it here so I don't just start writing a book... though I have made pretty good headway it seems. (lol)
I can relate. Almost 100%. Which kind of sucks I guess, but there might be someone for people like us.
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Depends on the woman. I don't use as much "female" code, but I'm still really fuckin difficult to read sometimes.
And as for them being stuck up, it just depends on what they're interested in. I have a friend who's really smart and nice, but I don't think I'd ever consider dating him I'm just not interested. |
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Girls today have really high standards. This girl that used to be in my class has dated over 30 guys in 2 years. In elementary, she was one of my closest friend. I guessed people do change overtime. Few days ago, she went up to me and called me a loser. In my mind, I was like WTF?! On the bright side, there are girls in my class that are really shy. Those girls are SOO much better to communicate!
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