Sounds like the slut needs an attitude adjustment specifically with getting the sand out of her vagina.

That's your problem right there. It's not true and thinking that way will damage your own self esteem and deter girls.

Well I posted this about nearly two years ago if not less lol my attitude about women has changed greatly so I know now what type of woman to look for and what not to look for. I also taught myself body language so that I will be able to read other ppl but I know everyone is different at signaling interest in other ppl. Trust me Ive seen it before. I think me being a male if I'm doing most of the talking that means that this chick is not interested or the subject at hand is not interesting. If not that, maybe she's just really shy but it irritates me that I have to start a conversation first half the time, I mean women love to talk so much so why am I putting in so much effort to get women to talk?

Personalities are complicated -.- Don't think it has anything to do with gender -.- Sure women are to be *stereotype* fragile + all the things you see on the internet: "top 10 things that you don't want to say to a girl" -.- But its the same, guys are *supposed* to be tough, be the protector, but that isn't always the case. This argument isn't valid in any case, it can go both ways.

She's fourteen and shes dated 30 boys in 2 years? when your fourteen everybodys probably sayin that shes popular, when your 17 thats not what their gonna say then.

this happened to me one time.

chick : our an idiot.
Me: and your so very very hot.
chick : what?
me: I thought we were playin opposites today.

naw that didnt really happen. If a girl did say that id probably call my mom up and tell her a girl talked to me.

naw that woulndt happen either but seriously dude, no matter how hard it is,be nice to every single girl you ever talk to no matter what they say. also ont give your V card to someone you dont love. Remember your mind is smart and your penis is a dumbshit that tries to get you in trouble.

Avoid tramp stamps at all costs.....

Because that`s girl`s logic.
Everytime when she says ''do i look fat?" she will rage and turn into monster, that`s all.
I intend no harm for this.

If I were to guess it's because men compartmentalize. They leave work at work, they leave play at play, they leave group of friends A apart from group of friend B and so forth.

Women everything which surrounds them is a part of them. This is why if you don't fix the hole in the fence in the backyard it upsets your wife. It's part of who she is. Men compartmentalize it away, it's something to do later when the yardwork compartment is being worked on but a woman it reflects on herself as a woman that it's broken. This complicates them because minor things we men think as unimportant suddenly have greater value which makes us misunderstand one another.

Dunno, they are not all that complicated. Try reading some articles about woman or dating material. I would recommend The Game and The Rules of the Game by Neil Strauss or Double your dating by David D Angelo. I also suspect you need to do some research on body language, Body Language by Julius Fast is pretty good.

This should get you started http://www.lovepanky.com/men/understanding-women


P.S. Being nice is not enough.

Why are you so one dimensional?

Are you talking about me? I'm not a one dimensional person. My view and perspective has changed since I posted this two years ago and you know I gained and learned alot. I realized I was looking for the wrong types or women and its on me if I get hurt trying to get acknowledged by them. No woman is worth the effort unless she really wishes to know me and thats it.

They are not more complicated than us (males).

I decided to test the 'Women love A-Holes' bit, since im on the same thought pattern as you. From doing so...most just laugh while others still talk to me normaly even tho im 'pretending' to be such an A-Hole. I almost think from my research that some girl do preferr to be controlled, talked down to, and harrased i guess its just what turns those girls 'on'. I have been cussed out by a few for my methodes and i beleive that you have just had the bad luck of running into most of the stuck up ones in the area your in...but dont worry, there are some out there that dont like the -A-Holes...and dont like to be talked down to...like one said above gotta find the right one, which will take some work but heck if your persistant in finding one it shouldnt take you long. Also...befriend a female and ask them those questions, and learn why they are so complicated that way. Asking on a forum doesnt really help in that since they are behind a computer screen..any 'kind' answer will be supplied. To get the most..befriend a RL girl and see if you cant get your answers from the horses mouth...thats always the best approach then to ask in a forum. (Not being mean, just stating from my research)

I guess that means you agree or you think I'm a really funny guy