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Posted 11/17/12
I've wanted to know for so long.
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Sverdrup wrote:

They are not more complicated than us (males).


^this.

Try to see from their point of view, put yourself in their clothes and think about what you would say/do "if that happened to me.." or "if I had to choose.." and such. It's not true that we're the opposite when it comes to decisions, just think objectively.

Also, try to play School Days, if you can avoid every bad ending in that game then it means you can do the same irl ..probably.
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Posted 11/17/12
Now that would be interesting
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Women are only complicated if you don't communicate, a relationship with out talking is absolutely meaningless.
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at times i don't understand women either most of my friends who are nice and smart don't date, they rather focus on more important things.
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eggy_roll_1 wrote:

at times i don't understand women either most of my friends who are nice and smart don't date, they rather focus on more important things.


You know its those type of ppl who have never had a gf/bf before and its alot of ppl like that because they probably dont need any distractions to interfere with their academics but some ppl can balance that out quite well. There are some ppl who aren't in a relationship because maybe being so smart they're not really interesting to most average ppl. Alot of smart ppl can be stuck up thinking that no one can understand them and that they're better off alone and those types are introverts and anti social ppl.
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Women are complicated?

They seem to be pretty straight forward to me. I've understood every girl I've dated and female friend I've ever had just as much as my guy friends. They just have different interests and priorities that conflict with ours at times. You either agree with them or don't. But I wouldn't consider women complicated.
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Thats what everyone has been telling me lol
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i think a lot of people fail to realize the position that being a quote-on-quote "asshole" gives you.

An asshole likes to appear superior. Superiority is actually attractive.

Now this superior standing can really be accomplished multiple ways: have such good opinions that people just listen to you, be controversial, belittle your surroundings, be physically attractive (which is only partially correct, more accurately, be tall at least), wear flashy clothes.

Now being just an asshole is a poor call. Most girls won't like the purely asshole guy, he has to have some other qualities. and to be honest, you probably don't like that girl anyway, so it's really a win-win. Sure, maybe she's hot, but don't consider her for anything but a hook-up.

So think about what you have to work with. It's easy to wear flashy clothes. So maybe start there. I wouldn't recommend belittling, unless you can do it in a sarcastic-dry way, for example, using an understatement. Being physically attractive can really be overshadowed by having other qualities, and as for being controversial, if you do it in a neutral way, it becomes insightful, making you look intelligent.

So good luck.
Posted 11/17/12
I would think everyone is complicated. Its a never-ending cycle. Boy likes girl, girl likes other boy, other boy likes other girl, girl likes other girl, etc., etc.,

It depends if one of them turns around to acknowledge the other. But you can't force someone to like you, no matter how much of a good guy you are. You can only hope that, with all the effort you put, the other person will make the choice to give you that chance. Same thing with girls. They can't force a guy to like them. I, for one, already tried. and the guy was, in fact, a very nice guy. He just didn't have the same feelings for me.
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Some are and some ain't. That's basically it for me.
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Reading through this topic, I couldn`t expect anything less than a handful of "nice guys" that vilifies a girl`s right to say 'no'. (Here`s a hint: she`s just not that into you). If you constantly complain about the friend-zone, then you most likely belong there. If you`re actually a "nice guy", then you shouldn`t want to have anything in return, since you know, you`re so nice and all. Here`s another hint: the world doesn`t owe you a favor. You cannot make someone like you. That`s just common sense. If you want a reward for your "good deeds" then you`re going to be stuck chasing your own tail.

If a girl is interested, she would let you know from the get-go. There`s a formula for these kind of things. Trying too hard can lead to harassment, and then you have a bigger problem in your hands. No one likes a persistent guy. It gets annoying and it could turn ugly. Girls are not complicated and same thing in vice-versa. Pitting an entire gender in that description is insulting and degrading.

Here`s some advice to the OP: just keep looking for the right girl with common interests and ideals. It also helps if you`re good-looking. And if you`re not talented in that department, then make her laugh a lot. A girl likes a guy with a good sense of humor.
Posted 11/17/12
We do what we want and it's complicated.
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You are like those women who say "All men are jerks"
Are all men jerks? No.
Are all woman really complicated? No.
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faeriepop wrote:


Reading through this topic, I couldn`t expect anything less than a handful of "nice guys" that vilifies a girl`s right to say 'no'. (Here`s a hint: she`s just not that into you). If you constantly complain about the friend-zone, then you most likely belong there. If you`re actually a "nice guy", then you shouldn`t want to have anything in return, since you know, you`re so nice and all. Here`s another hint: the world doesn`t owe you a favor. You cannot make someone like you. That`s just common sense. If you want a reward for your "good deeds" then you`re going to be stuck chasing your own tail.

If a girl is interested, she would let you know from the get-go. There`s a formula for these kind of things. Trying too hard can lead to harassment, and then you have a bigger problem in your hands. No one likes a persistent guy. It gets annoying and it could turn ugly. Girls are not complicated and same thing in vice-versa. Pitting an entire gender in that description is insulting and degrading.

Here`s some advice to the OP: just keep looking for the right girl with common interests and ideals. It also helps if you`re good-looking. And if you`re not talented in that department, then make her laugh a lot. A girl likes a guy with a good sense of humor.


That makes sense but I'm not desperate or persistent I know when to leave ppl alone
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