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Women, complicated? Nah. No more so than we are, to them.

It helps if you are willing to face the truth about yourself, though. If you're not physically appealing, if you're not what they're looking for personality-wise, you're shit out of luck. You can either be a friend to them, like what someone who is actually decent would do, or you can throw up your hands in frustration and bail out, looking for the next confusing woman-creature to try your nice guy wiles on.

You may want to take a look at this, though: http://niceguysofokc.tumblr.com/

"Nice guys" aren't actually nice. They're usually just whiny, oblivious, entitled losers.
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OP can't get girlfriend > Decides to claim all women complicated.

Oh boy.
Posted 12/29/12
~ o,..,o ~ We are only complicated to men, because men and women think differently. So to us women, men are just as complicated.
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I admit we're complicated...
I've rejected every guy that's even tried asking me out... just to stay at home crying over someone who barely even notices me...

I guess it's about looks and personality I gotta be honest here, when a guy has the looks, girls complain of their personality, and when they have a nice personality, they lack the looks.

I'm not a shallow person. Just honest. We're like males. Just add Iron.
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They're not if you give it to them.
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Both men AND women are complicated, because we're possibly the most complicated species on the planet. Have you seen documentaries about how our minds and bodies work? They're brain-frying. Documentaries of our history, religions, food, possible origins, architecture, and whatnot are all testaments to how complicated we are.
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Posted 3/27/13

aeb0717 wrote:

Both men AND women are complicated, because we're possibly the most complicated species on the planet.


You took my line
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ZeroAsaNumber wrote:


aeb0717 wrote:

Both men AND women are complicated, because we're possibly the most complicated species on the planet.


You took my line :D


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Posted 3/27/13
Nothing is complicated
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Because we're just that awesome.
God made man and he's like "Oh, this is cool. Really nice."
Then he made woman and he's like "Woah now, I can do a lot better! Let's give her a brain, turbo boosters, missiles...."
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Most young girls have a princess mentality. You have to let them know they aren't too good for you and you can't do that by being a perfect gentleman. Wait until you get older, women eventually chill out and stop acting like the center of the universe. Even the pretty ones. Or they stay single forever.
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Just a thought:
Neither men nor women are generally attracted to qualities that would make for a long, healthy committed relationship. Most of attraction comes from instincts that are not necessarily practical or desirable as they were when they were developed; however people are usually not stupid enough to be driven merely by instinct and attraction to more reasonable qualities can also arise.
One of the reasons men find women complicated, and vice-versa, is because they can only understand the reasonable kind of attraction at a rational level, but not the more instinctual kind because they do not experience it. People can understand the reasonable kind of attraction that is conducive to a healthy relationship and view that as what the opposite sex should consider attractive, while the person of the opposite sex might consider one source of attraction good at a rational level but also has to contend with the instinctual source of attraction, leading to inner conflict and complicated feelings. Both men and women have this issue, but the conflict is different for both and additionally alters from individual to individual.
That's not to say that all kinds of attraction derived from instinct are undesirable or impractical, it's just that they are different from what we can reasonably identify as useful kinds of attraction and are often at-ends with it, causing complicated feelings.


Good insights, but the most important thing is applying it. People often criticize it as "playing games", but really you are just giving other people the opportunity to be attracted to you. You can crush someone's interest in you by being over-bearing or not confident. Being told you are a "nice guy" can be translated as "he isn't an evil person, but I have no sexual interest in that person."
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There are a few girls that I know but from my experience in the past several years I see that alot of women have such high standards. I'm a nice guy with a gentleman personality always giving women as much respect as I can. It seems no matter what I do its never good enough. I've liked women who are smart and pretty and the same time but they're stuck up as heck. I've liked women who are pretty but arent as smart but they're still stuck up as heck.

So now I'm asking everyone why are women so complicated?


No they are not complicated, it's just men and women think differently. Most women want a man that can provide them security so they tend to look for men who can provide that, both financially and emotionally. This actually reminds me of a discussion we had in my global issues class last term. We talked about how because there are way more women then men going to college it's causing men to have to compete more for a women's attention (it isn't like high school when you could just set back playing video games and expect girls to come running).

If you want to gain the attention of a girl who is smart, figure out her interests and learn enough about them to ask intelligent questions about the subject and let her nerd out about it. Also be a good listener and let her know you care about what she is saying, women tend to think men don't really pay attention to them so when they remember something we are impressed. Also don't know if you are in college but I think you should consider it if not because most smart girls like educated men.
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Imo Its not that woman are complicated its the fact that men are such simple happy creatures most of the time we don't get how complicated a womans brain can be and no I am not putting all men in this category I am just saying most men are just creatures of habit get them in a groove they like and they won't try to change it in comes the woman and shes adding surprise and excitement where as in it was just you doing your thing. Idk if this came out right I hope it makes sense to someone.
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Same reason math is so complicated for some, but not all, people. Perhaps you just don't possess the necessary aptitude to easily deal with women. But don't be discouraged. All that means is you need to be patient and be willing to work twice as hard. Lol..
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