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Post Reply Why are women so complicated?
Posted 10/13/13
Useless for a man to ask. Women don't even have the answer.
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Posted 10/13/13

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And this is why I don't like people knowing that I watch anime. It's the awful, horrible, sexist community.



That seems to be true for a lot of communities, although you can find subcommunities within them that are nice. I have more experience with gaming communities and I've managed to find some there.

As for the thread, people are awfully complicated when you don't communicate properly.
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Posted 10/30/13
Hey look at it this way if women were not so complicated they wouldn't be so intriguing , and you wouldn't be able t become closer to them. If you had a women like that, it would probably be like dating your best friend which i personally would rather not do.
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Posted 10/30/13
Men are just as complicated as women so it goes both ways
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Posted 10/30/13
Men...

we don't know what we did.


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Posted 10/30/13

AlmightyBoob wrote:

And this is why I don't like people knowing that I watch anime. It's the awful, horrible, sexist community.


So far I've deeply regretted clicking every topic on this forum related to gender.
Posted 10/30/13
I thought this thread was about attraction not a ranting thread. OP might just lack the confidence and doesn't make these women slightly curious.

HellaStrider wrote:

I don't know op, maybe they have something called individuality that forces each one to be different and unaffected by my practiced pick up lines. Geez, I don't understand why they always seem to have their own agendas and concerns rather than just focusing on me and becoming my prize for my hard work of being uh what's it called civilized and friendly to them. I mean, why else would you be nice to a woman? Why else would you be nice to a human being?





BlueDelta wrote:

Hey look at it this way if women were not so complicated they wouldn't be so intriguing , and you wouldn't be able t become closer to them. If you had a women like that, it would probably be like dating your best friend which i personally would rather not do.


The best a human can do is invoke curiosity.
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Posted 10/30/13 , edited 10/30/13
I personally think people over complicate male and females in terms of creating and maintaining a healthy relationship. Of course there is various different personalities and some suit people and others dont. I dont think spending time wondering "Why does she go for him or why does he go for her?" actually helps anyone. I have read quite a bit of this forum and find it very interesting. Here is my input if needed or of any help. You shouldnt go through life searching for a partner. Of course you will have a look at others, glances and thoughts. But dont go out there and obsess which feels like some men/women here might be doing. I feel that if you are happy and enjoying your life. You work each day to create a better you. Then they will come to you. People are interested in those that have found a way to live life. So live the way you feel will make you the best person possible. If you want to be a teacher. Work hard at that. Or any job for that matter. Word hard at that. But what I find is that the girls that I have become close with have not come out of my exertion but have met me along my path of life. We enjoyed each others company and decided to walk that path together. And although sometimes that walk may not last long because the other person or yourself might feel that the other might be hindering you or hurting your chance of happiness rather than encouraging it, still I find it was beneficial because you met a new part of yourself and of someone else. You carry along your path to become what you are aiming to achieve for yourself and hope that one day when you meet that person on your path that they can walk along side you for the rest of your life.

Sorry for the essay. I love Anime ^_^
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Posted 10/31/13
You all amuse me.

Why are women so complicated...... They are complicated because you haven't taken the time to figure them out. You say you pay attention to your women...... perhaps you should pay closer attention.

Its like anything else.... First time you used a computer it was complicated... but over time you payed attention to what you were doing and now it is second nature to you and you can use almost any computer. Even those silly macs.... lol

With that said keep in mind that society in a whole likes to dictate what is cool and uncool etc etc. So a lot of women along with a lot of men are brainwashed into thinking that if you are not model material or have a ton of money or a nice car etc etc that you are not worth their time. But even these people are not unobtainable to you as a bf/gf. You just have to work harder to prove to them their idiots and that your worth their time. (trust me it can be done.... I have dated several ladies society would consider way out of my league)

But essentially as I said just pay attention to them and figure them out... everyone is different in a way but you will start to see a pattern. Oh and don't be typical. Oh and also don't be shy. If you see a opening then go for it. If you don't take the chance then you will never know and trust me not ever knowing is worse than getting a "No".

Biggest thing I can say over all when it comes to dating....... Make sure you are comfortable with who you are first. If you cant be alone and be happy then no one is gonna be able to be with you and be happy..... Validating someones existence gets old real fast.

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Posted 10/31/13

h202 wrote:

There are a few girls that I know but from my experience in the past several years I see that alot of women have such high standards. I'm a nice guy with a gentleman personality always giving women as much respect as I can. It seems no matter what I do its never good enough. I've liked women who are smart and pretty and the same time but they're stuck up as heck. I've liked women who are pretty but arent as smart but they're still stuck up as heck.

So now I'm asking everyone why are women so complicated?


People in general are complicated.
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Posted 10/31/13
i could say men are complicated but it's the way you see things. everyone has a different perspective and outlook on life - hence the statement you made because sometimes there just isn't that connection at first but it gradually changes as you both accept and understand each other
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Posted 10/31/13
Its odd because to me women have always seemed so simple.
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Posted 10/31/13

LiamLives wrote:

Its odd because to me women have always seemed so simple.

ME TOO

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Posted 10/31/13

h202 wrote:

There are a few girls that I know but from my experience in the past several years I see that alot of women have such high standards. I'm a nice guy with a gentleman personality always giving women as much respect as I can. It seems no matter what I do its never good enough. I've liked women who are smart and pretty and the same time but they're stuck up as heck. I've liked women who are pretty but arent as smart but they're still stuck up as heck.

So now I'm asking everyone why are women so complicated?


"Kono bitchu!"

Yeah I have the same problem

Eventually I just gave up

People (including women) are more trouble than they're worth

Ladies and gentleman:
I. am. a. loner.

And I just don't care anymore
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