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Posted 11/5/13 , edited 11/5/13
"Women are so complicated." - Men
"Men are so predictable." - Women

That's the stereotype I have observed.

I don't agree that men make women complicated, those that say so probably haven't realized that they are indeed complicated, have the inability to accept that they are or aren't complicated at all. And being complicated isn't gender-locked.

I'm complicated...actually it's less "complicated" but more "weird" actually...really really weird.
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Posted 7/1/14
This could go on forever
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I actually just lost a friend because she ended up being an ass. She really liked me and I actually started to like her but she got ultra clingy. I don't message her for an hour, apparently she'd freak out and tell my friend I'm ignoring her and maybe she won't talk to me anymore. He told her to stop acting that way or she'll drive me away. Then, she tells him she hates him and me, tells us to F off, and deletes both from FB and everything else. Really don't get what that was about, but I'm glad it happened now rather than later when I probably would've started to really like her.
Posted 7/1/14

bankuei:

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I think the “women are mysterious” thing can also come from:

1) Women actually being quite clear, but not telling men what they want to hear. ”She said she doesn’t want to talk to me? So many mixed messages and confusing signals!”

2) Women not having cheat codes. ”I tried being nice, and she didn’t have sex with me. I tried being an asshole, and she didn’t have sex with me. Come on, there’s got to be some kind of solution to this puzzle!”

3) Women not being a hive mind. ”First a woman told me that she likes guys with big muscles. Then the very next day a woman told me she thinks muscles aren’t attractive at all. Make up your mind, women!”

4) An individual woman doing something confusing, and instead of asking “why is she doing this now?” men ask “why do women always do this?”

The media projections end up being more real than listening to actual women, so we end up internalizing the lies as reality and where the two don’t meet, pretending this is some form of bizarro mystery act on the part of women, instead of the fact we built up some ridiculous untruth and projected it upon the majority of the population.

Of course, once you’ve internalized the idea that women aren’t human, you wouldn’t listen to them anyway, instead preferring the “experts” on them…
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Women aren't complicated OP. You're just expecting women to fall into your lap. You think there's some formula to it when there's not.

You think that by acting a certain way, a "gentlemen" you say, that somehow that'll make women like you.

It really seems like you're the one with high standards expecting all women to live up to them.
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Posted 7/1/14
This thread made me lul.
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Girls are like turtles... accept for the fact that they are not turtles... they are bootiful... not turtles... do they love me yet.
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Posted 7/1/14

IkarosTypeAlpha wrote:

I actually just lost a friend because she ended up being an ass. She really liked me and I actually started to like her but she got ultra clingy. I don't message her for an hour, apparently she'd freak out and tell my friend I'm ignoring her and maybe she won't talk to me anymore. He told her to stop acting that way or she'll drive me away. Then, she tells him she hates him and me, tells us to F off, and deletes both from FB and everything else. Really don't get what that was about, but I'm glad it happened now rather than later when I probably would've started to really like her.


My guess is she was feeling extremely insecure therefore when you didn't message her for an hour she may have thought any of the following - he's talking to another girl, he's ignoring me, he saw my message and hasn't replied yet, it says he was online [so and so] minutes ago so why hasn't he replied? etc. She then would talk to your friend in order to get reassurance (no, he hasn't replied to me either or he said he was going to do this or that), to validate her suspicions (oh, he's replied to you but not to me in that time? He's definitely ignoring me) or she hopes that your friend will relay the message to you so that you will reply, or explain yourself to her. Of course, you don't owe her an explanation for not replying for an hour unless you went ahead and said something like "I'll be 5 minutes". The reason, however, that she reacted the way she did in the end is because either a) she's a drama queen, or b) she's immature. I know many girls and guys our age who still have the mentality of a 13 year old, who haven't learned from previous experience or haven't had any proper learning experiences. They still don't realize how they're acting and if anyone were to point it out, they would become extremely defensive. That's essentially what is going on with this girl. Additionally, this is one of my problems with social media (as I'm assuming this is taking place on Facebook or the like) is that it feeds people's insecurities, doubts and jealousy. Take any person, whether they're young or old, and watch how their life becomes after they interact with Facebook and what happens to their relationships. That crap is toxic.
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Posted 7/1/14
Both genders are complicated.
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Not all girls are complicated to deal with. Pretty much everybody can be harder to deal with. And what you said (^)"TheBlahMonster" is an excellent point.
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Why would anyone assume that a person is ever really simple? Wouldn't that be utterly boring? Besides, if we weren't all (both genders being referred to) complicated, wouldn't there be a major overlap of similar characters running around?
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Posted 7/1/14
Women aren't "complicated." They're complex. I love complexity.
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Yes women are complex. Some can be sensitive to many things.
I'm just hard headed but my girl is just as tough.
Although we are both weird and different.
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Posted 7/1/14
Being a gentleman and showing women respect doesn't entitle you to anything. It's this thought process that causes lots of guys to become overly-attached and creepy.
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The Eve' Operation Manuals are in Cuneiform and thus translations are poor. Plus the useful functions and operations have become more complex over time. Personally, I blame the Technical Writers for not keeping the Documentation up to date. However it may be the lack of documentation is a "marketing plan" based upon women being mysterious gone awry. Women (the product) are not covered under the ISO 9000 - Quality management standards.
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From my experiences, I can say that the guy is usually the wrong one. Nope, I'm not trying to entice anyone but it's the truth. Usually, otaku guys are the emotional one so emotional guys are usually very demanding in some cases. They say that the girl is the demanding one when in fact, they're expecting a lot from the girl, or even more without them knowing!
So for those fellow guys out there who are having trouble with relationships, look at it in the outside. Look at it carefully, sometimes you'd feel like you're the victim like blah blah, why do girls always chase for them bad bois when in fact they can't deal with guys like you who always try to be the victim.
Girls, correct me if I'm wrong here They'd rather date normal guys than those who constantly try to be the victim, be emotional, those who complains, etc.
Though... girls can get pretty damn emotional sometimes and so hard to understand


Oh well that's life.

Foolish humans, join my race. The prince' race! Mwuhaha... Jk, but seriously think about it more guys. Regardless of the situation, respect the woman. Don't treat them terribly just because of an event or any other woman out there because of some events.
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