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Post Reply Why are women so complicated?
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Are we? Yes yes, I guess we are. I don't know why though. It's annoying isn't it?

Btw, women come in varying and vastly different personalities, you are looking in the wrong places if all the women you meet are stuck up. ...although what you see as stuck up may be shyness/playing hard to get in all actuality.


This is true :l
I've always been shy/really quiet and I've had people asking my friends why I'm stuck up.
Females that bring all the attention to themselves aren't the only ones out there,but prbly the only females most guys see <.< Guys need to learn to see the females who prefer to blend in
Posted 3/13/12
They aren't >THAT< complicated.

It is possible that you're just letting your nerves get in the way of actually, honestly dealing with the person in front of you.

Then her nervousness about your nervousness starts messing with her interpretation of you.

Which makes the signals she sends out start getting scrambled.

Which makes you more scrambled.

Once you learn to take a breath and chill out, things seem to fall into place...and even when they don't fall into place, such things don't matter all that much.

Not true with everything in the matter of male-female relations, but once you do learn to relax and smile a bit, you'll start to look back and think, "Wow, I got worked up over ...THAT?"

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Mangasurf wrote:

I see these posts alot, especially on Crunchyroll. Honestly bro, my advice, is this. Don't go for girls out of your league and don't be afraid of rejection (meaning: Don't wait for the girls to come to you, make the first move yourself).

If you stick to those 2 pieces of advice, you'll be alright.


Honestly bro, "don't be afraid of rejection" and "don't go for girls out of your league" are two tips that really don't go side by side.

You're not helping me at all. I've been sticking with that two piece of advice for the past 12 hours and it's not doing anything. How on earth did you manage with these useless tips?


You used my advice? Glad to see it, but only for 12 hours? 'Shame

I'll put this bluntly, you're obviously not going to get the super-model-lookin' chick if you're ugly as a troll (unless you are rich). So if you know your limit and don't go for women you clearly don't have a chance with, you're obviously smart and you'll save time (it doesn't mean you are afraid of rejection).


Secondly, this is f*cking life. There comes a point in your life where you are required to stop expecting to be spoon-fed everything like a small child, and man up.

And to answer your question, I've managed just fine :)


So, seems that you have misinterpreted my advice and are still stuck in the childlike spoon-fed stage.
Posted 3/14/12
You can do what I do and say things like...
"what that means? Whatever you think it means...oh and by the way...anything bad you've heard about me is true and anything good is false. Just to clear any misconceptions ya know?
let them do all the work..you cant control how someone thinks so why bother...
"if i do something that bothers you let me know"
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Women in general are no more complex than men, but males may tend to think that most females may be more complex in certain aspects. For example, I believe most men would see an emotional women as someone who is "complicated" as well and a "simple" person would be seen as someone who is as sexually driven as men tend to be while having less regard for emotion. Women generally have a lesser craving for satisfying sexual desire than men (of course this is not always the case). Women are fully aware of this male desire and this may be why many females act in this "stuck up" way. They may think that you are only being nice to them because of your desires which, in this case, isn't entirely off the mark. "Stuck up" women may often base who we are or what we are want completely on what we look like or how we act, but that is not all that different from this generic male standard of girls always having to look pretty. Yes, it wouldn't hurt to have a female who is good looking but physical appearance should not be what it all comes down to. A beautiful personality is much harder to come by than a pretty face, and if these "stuck up" women do not give you the time of day, then you have no way of determining if any of them are truly beautiful and that is their loss. If a "stuck up" personality is such a turn off for you, shouldn't you be glad they prevented you from having to put up with this attitude in a relationship? Please never be one of those A-holes who gets all the chicks. Personally, I would rather die than have my personality even remotely resemble the personality of this type of stereotypical A-hole because, from what I see, they lead quite a meaningless existence. I know for a fact that you are way better than these people are and you should prove it to yourself and all those around you by showing that you care. You can do this by being kind to everyone you can and by giving every girl a fair chance to show their true beauty regardless of appearance. With patience and humility, I have faith that you will find someone truly worthy of your kindness because you know that you deserve to be happy.
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Women in general are no more complex than men, but males may tend to think that most females may be more complex in certain aspects. For example, I believe most men would see an emotional women as someone who is "complicated" as well and a "simple" person would be seen as someone who is as sexually driven as men tend to be while having less regard for emotion. Women generally have a lesser craving for satisfying sexual desire than men (of course this is not always the case). Women are fully aware of this male desire and this may be why many females act in this "stuck up" way. They may think that you are only being nice to them because of your desires which, in this case, isn't entirely off the mark. "Stuck up" women may often base who we are or what we are want completely on what we look like or how we act, but that is not all that different from this generic male standard of girls always having to look pretty. Yes, it wouldn't hurt to have a female who is good looking but physical appearance should not be what it all comes down to. A beautiful personality is much harder to come by than a pretty face, and if these "stuck up" women do not give you the time of day, then you have no way of determining if any of them are truly beautiful and that is their loss. If a "stuck up" personality is such a turn off for you, shouldn't you be glad they prevented you from having to put up with this attitude in a relationship? Please never be one of those A-holes who gets all the chicks. Personally, I would rather die than have my personality even remotely resemble the personality of this type of stereotypical A-hole because, from what I see, they lead quite a meaningless existence. I know for a fact that you are way better than these people are and you should prove it to yourself and all those around you by showing that you care. You can do this by being kind to everyone you can and by giving every girl a fair chance to show their true beauty regardless of appearance. With patience and humility, I have faith that you will find someone truly worthy of your kindness because you know that you deserve to be happy.


I thank you I really need to hear that and you know I already realized what I needed to do yesterday when I posted this thread and again I still thank you I couldnt put this in any better than the next person and I feel all males in this forum need to read this message.
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Why are men so easy?
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Us men are so easy cause we're not complicated LOL
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Women are actually pretty easy to understand, the same way that men are easy to understand. Women (and men) are controlled by their genes, some dude called Darwin (unless your a Christian in which case Darwin is Satan) should be able to give you major hints on how to understand a woman (but not Mel Gibson, never Mel Gibson).

We're a species, our sole purpose is to create little mini-me's wandering around all over the place so that the species continues to exist, men know this, women know this. Women are the sex that give birth to the mini-me's and without even knowing about it on a conscious level want their offspring to have the best chance for survival so they look for a man who can provide their offspring with good genes.

Is being polite all the time a good survival trait? Not sure, if you're about to be jumped on by a sabre toothed tiger than saying "please do not eat me, kind sir" won't stop you being mince meat, girls know this (even if it's not something they realise) so they want their children to be able to tear the teeth off the tiger and make a nice handbag for them out of the skin (seriously, the vast majority of our workings date back to when we were living in trees, fight or flight for instance).

You need to be able to show a woman that your genetic makeup would be pretty sweet for her offspring, once you can figure out how, then you're golden. It helps to be confident, but not too confident cause that'll end up looking like arrogance. Women also know when a guy is out for a "good time" or looking for a relationship, if you're going out looking for women to hook up with for a relationship, they will avoid you as you seem desperate to them (omg, I must propagate!!) so you need to give off an aura like "yeah, I'm single, you can have me if you want but if you don't want, that's fine". Body language is also a major factor, when you are interested in a woman your body language will let her know, and her body language will let you know if she is interested in you too, top tip, arms crossed = move along.

Anyhow, at the end of the day it does all go back to continuing the species as a whole, if you look at how other species manage to initiate mating rituals you'll find similarities between them and us, after all, several million years ago we shared the same pool of slime.

If you want to find yourself a female companion, find a social activity you enjoy and find a club or something that shares your enjoyment of that activity, you'll find women who share your interests (so give you something to talk about) so you could end up finding the perfect woman that way, and even if you don't, you'll meet women who you can talk to which will help you when you do find a woman you're interested in.
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guys say the wrong words at d ryt time. Say the ryt words at d wrong tym.
Period.
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Im not at all its just ppl have told me that women like guys who are A-HOLES than guys who are nice. I dont really believe that but I have seen some guys who are jerks who show no respect half the time and they have been in more relationships with women than I have.


So what is it you don't get? Start being a cocky ass hole and you'll get all the women!
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lol you said period
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Its not one gender against another in terms of complication, both sides are a mystery. Patience and the desire to prove your love to the right person who will accept those feelings, is what compatibility is. Woman are more extroverted in emotion, while men tend to be introverts with expressing theirs, its all about observation in the end.
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Posted 3/14/12
hmm... id have to go with understanding too everyones mind is different
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Why are men so simple minded?
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