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Posted 26 days ago
Lol true :D
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I completely agree with Ethridel.

I gotta add too - I don't think it's bad to have high standards as long as they're reasonable ones. Not like, "must earn a salary of XXXX" or "Needs to be as hot as a Kpop artist", but know what you want. Know very well what you really want, not what you think you want.

I don't think there's any point in dating someone who's hot if you can't converse with them. I think you also have to be physically attracted to your partner as well. If you love talking to them, but when it comes time to kiss and you just can't do it, that's not fair to either of you. I don't think it's a bad thing to reject someone if they don't look good in your eyes. If you're dating someone just to give them a chance, or from guilt, and not because you're attracted to them, that's not good. You shouldn't force yourself to do something you don't want, because the pain is worse when you've said yes and then take it back later.

When people dip below their requirements, it usually doesn't end well. They might overlook it at the start, but over time, resentment and annoyance builds and it turns into fights. For a good relationship to develop and maintain, you both need to like each other.

Standards usually go down over time though, as people mature and stop comparing life to cultural ideals. And when you're rejected, sometimes it's for the best. It's dodging a bullet early on, avoiding a potentially disastrous and emotionally challenging relationship. Don't take it too harshly. Just because one person, or maybe a couple people don't think you're hot or can't click with you, doesn't mean you'll never find someone who does. That person is just into something else. Maybe you're chocolate ice cream and they like pistachio.
Or maybe you're just not ready yet. You're a cheese aging, waiting to ripen, and you're just not quite yet at the stage where you're tasty. You got some more growing to do.

Maybe you need to lower your standards as well.
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people, regardless of gender, are complicated
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