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(aimed at males) Anyone offended by the stereotype of all men being perverts?
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Posted 3/17/12
No, i'm not offended by it, because, well, it's true. lol, I'm a pervert, but i don't go around saying "HAY GUYZ, I'M A PERVERT" but i don't make it to obvious either.
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I'm not offended by it. All men have their perverseness inside of them, so it's a natural misconception for people to say that all men are perverts. They are in a way, but they aren't always so open about it.
Posted 3/17/12 , edited 3/17/12
I think it goes both ways...but the double standard keeps people from expressing themselves...
But I'm in shameless America.
No reason to be ashamed of it. Everyone is like that.
I know I am...I love boobs. But I'd go up to someone and tell them straight out.
"i like how your boobs are shaped. Not too big and not too small. Just the right size to get my hands around."

And the way they smell...but thats more pheomones than anything else...

I can understand the prudish elitism...but I dont agree and dont mind standing out in a crowd of idiots.
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I don't even care anymore. I have learnt that everyone likes sex, but girls are just pressured more to hide it and as a result guys look much more perverted in comparison.
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I admit, I can be a pervert at times but only with someone im dating most of the time or that I like. I do get offended because sometimes i cant even be someones friend due to their belief that "all men are perverts" so they just shut me out immediately without even knowing me. I mean, cmon...
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Posted 3/17/12

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eclair-lumiere wrote:


I find everyone perverted. -_-

but mostly guys. becuase they seem to try and force themselves on me a lot


You should take that as a compliment!


But seriously, it's in our nature to be perverted. After all procreation keeps the human species alive and well. Because without sex and the resulting offspring of a successful fertilization we wouldn't have lasted very long as a species.


I'm trying really hard not to take offense to that statement, but...Look, have you ever had to help someone pick up the pieces after they were sexually assaulted? It's hard, and what makes it harder is how permissive our society is about men forcing affections on someone and the horribleness that is slutshaming. I'm not just talking about girls, guys have to deal with this too. If someone is that disrespectful of boundaries it can lead to bad situations. And in the aftermath of the bad situations the onus falls on the victims way to often.
I'm not saying you're a bad person or that you're slut shaming, but...with statements like that you're enabling bad behaviour.
As for the original post you were replying to...I've been there. It's important to establish strong boundaries, but when that doesn't work a nice kidney shot can do wonders . In all seriousness, taking a self defense course can give one much confidence in situations like that. It could also help you if a situation you're in escalates.
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In these days everyone are perverts.
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moadeep wrote:


AClockworkGrape wrote:


eclair-lumiere wrote:


I find everyone perverted. -_-

but mostly guys. becuase they seem to try and force themselves on me a lot


You should take that as a compliment!


But seriously, it's in our nature to be perverted. After all procreation keeps the human species alive and well. Because without sex and the resulting offspring of a successful fertilization we wouldn't have lasted very long as a species.


I'm trying really hard not to take offense to that statement, but...Look, have you ever had to help someone pick up the pieces after they were sexually assaulted? It's hard, and what makes it harder is how permissive our society is about men forcing affections on someone and the horribleness that is slutshaming. I'm not just talking about girls, guys have to deal with this too. If someone is that disrespectful of boundaries it can lead to bad situations. And in the aftermath of the bad situations the onus falls on the victims way to often.
I'm not saying you're a bad person or that you're slut shaming, but...with statements like that you're enabling bad behaviour.
As for the original post you were replying to...I've been there. It's important to establish strong boundaries, but when that doesn't work a nice kidney shot can do wonders . In all seriousness, taking a self defense course can give one much confidence in situations like that. It could also help you if a situation you're in escalates.


A good kick in the nuts should be just as effective, and u don't need training too^^
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Posted 3/18/12
We all have a perverted side, men and females for that matter. It's just men aren't afraid to hide it.
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Posted 3/18/12

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moadeep wrote:
.I've been there. It's important to establish strong boundaries, but when that doesn't work a nice kidney shot can do wonders . In all seriousness, taking a self defense course can give one much confidence in situations like that. It could also help you if a situation you're in escalates.


A good kick in the nuts should be just as effective, and u don't need training too^^


A knee is actually more effective, as it doesn't require full leg extension which telegraphs your intentions . I find gut shots effective as well, particularly if you feint a chin shot (also, don't punch someone in the chin, it'll just hurt your hand).
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moadeep wrote:


MeBeingMe wrote:


moadeep wrote:
.I've been there. It's important to establish strong boundaries, but when that doesn't work a nice kidney shot can do wonders . In all seriousness, taking a self defense course can give one much confidence in situations like that. It could also help you if a situation you're in escalates.


A good kick in the nuts should be just as effective, and u don't need training too^^


A knee is actually more effective, as it doesn't require full leg extension which telegraphs your intentions . I find gut shots effective as well, particularly if you feint a chin shot (also, don't punch someone in the chin, it'll just hurt your hand).


Well how about knee his sack and then kick his gut while he is down to just to be sure

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Back in the old days, if you didn't do missionary while having sex you were deemed a sinner and burned on the stake for perversion.


Perversion can, like stated before, mean a variety of things.

Technically, the perversion that is mentioned in this thread is based on sexual taboos, such as Loli, and tentacle rape, S&M - and so forth. But in reality, its all based on a person - their experience, and their culture.

In Japan, Loli is accepted and understood, because its something that isn't instilled in someone's head as taboo. A perfect example is, when I turned 18 last year, I was terrified to date someone a year or two years younger than me(and that still applies now), even at such a tiny age gap. When I was 17, I didn't mind dating someone who was 17, or 16, this out of no where fear developed because its considered a taboo for such a relationship to exist in the eyes of the court and society, and that whats been taught to me, rhetorically speaking 18 is simply the threshold for the land of no return, however in Japan its allowed, and not frowned upon.

. In Japan if you feel up your cousin nothing is wrong, in America you're a pervert. See? Different cultures, different morals. Cousins aren't considered family in most parts of the world, but try explaining that to someone who has grown up on the idea that cousins are direct blood descendants.

On the topic of Loli, ive grown to tolerate it since it seems to be a prominent component of most anime shows. Kinda like accidentally clicking/seeing a gay porn vid while browsin' for pronz, after awhile and so many times of it happening a person goes from "WTF!" to "eh" *close*.
Everyone develops their own fetishes and dark desires at their own will. No one will truly know why 30 year old men grow to like extremely young women, as sick as it is, maybe he was a person who enjoyed loli as a 14 year old and the habit stuck to him? No one will truly ever know why bob likes to sniff worn underwear, maybe he developed the impulse to do so when he had access to his gf laundry?
Or that joe likes to peep on women, maybe he accidently walked in on someone getting dressed and it snow balled from there? Then theres crazy shit like stump porn, and gore that makes me wonder what the fuck tempts a person to get off on such a thing. That to me is REAL perversion. Honestly I'd cut someone off from all contact if I ever found out they get their rocks off to someone being maimed and beaten.

it all starts from somewhere and it grows out of control for some.
But to others in control, Somethings should be simply kept to oneself or only spoken too in a company that is on a relevant level.

In the end, its all based on self control.



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Posted 3/18/12

MeBeingMe wrote:


moadeep wrote:


MeBeingMe wrote:


moadeep wrote:
.I've been there. It's important to establish strong boundaries, but when that doesn't work a nice kidney shot can do wonders . In all seriousness, taking a self defense course can give one much confidence in situations like that. It could also help you if a situation you're in escalates.


A good kick in the nuts should be just as effective, and u don't need training too^^


A knee is actually more effective, as it doesn't require full leg extension which telegraphs your intentions . I find gut shots effective as well, particularly if you feint a chin shot (also, don't punch someone in the chin, it'll just hurt your hand).


Well how about knee his sack and then kick his gut while he is down to just to be sure



Somehow I feel we're getting off-topic. Heh. That said, in all seriousness a person in a situation where that is necessary would be better served taking the opportunity to run rather than to get another shot in.
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A perfect example is, when I turned 18 last year, I was terrified to date someone a year or two years younger than me(and that still applies now), even at such a tiny age gap. When I was 17, I didn't mind dating someone who was 17, or 16, this out of no where fear developed because its considered a taboo for such a relationship to exist in the eyes of the court and society, and that whats been taught to me, rhetorically speaking 18 is simply the threshold for the land of no return, however in Japan its allowed, and not frowned upon.






Fuck... that still applies, and we're the same age. there are so many cute underage (17 and younger) chicks too
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*Prepares shotgun* Any last words?
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