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Does it hurt the 1st time?
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Posted 4/12/12 , edited 4/12/12
The day I became a Rear Admiral, my ex said it hurt pretty bad and it did bleed. But back on topic, she said regular intercourse did not hurt because she experimented a lot in her previous years...if you know what I mean.
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Posted 4/12/12
it does hurt the first time, or at least it did for me. but not enough to be afraid of it... though admittedly i do like a little pain it hurt the first few times, actually, but that goes away. everyone is different though.
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They say if foreplay lasts long enough it wouldn't hurt , or just a bit , but guys don't tend to give long foreplay and dive straight in , just make sure u don't regret it & that he likes & respects you not for your looks , but for your personality and good manners , cause if its the opposite then you've probably gotten yourself into one of the worst relationships of your life with a bastard who's just using you , excuse me for the language ^^; , i knew someone who got into that type of relationship , i spent over a year trying to get her out of it , you see , once u have sex , your body makes a bond with the other persons body , your brain and body become dependent upon sex to relieve stress , & upon his sweet nothings to make u feel wanted , just be extremely careful , many girls/women are having bad relationships than gd ones , May God guide you to the best of decisions =]
Posted 4/12/12
=SECRET= but it DID hurt
Posted 4/12/12
sex herts a girl 1st time and probly 2nd and 3rd time

sex hearts men after they cum
Posted 4/12/12

NeOnCoOl wrote:

sex herts a girl 1st time and probly 2nd and 3rd time

sex hearts men after they cum


really? when i cum it never feels bad i dought a pussy will hurt when u cum when ur hand doesn't
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Posted 4/12/12

bemused_Bohemian wrote:

I don't know about sex hurting but getting shot the first time sure does.


Pretty sure it will hurt the second time you'll be shot, especially if it aims at a more sensible area.
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Posted 4/12/12
@Stef Pretty sure you're right
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32 / F / USA
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Posted 4/12/12
Honestly...if you know your body well enough to be in a position to be having sex, it shouldn't hurt. If you know what I mean :x It can be uncomfortable and I think it's something you have to learn how to enjoy, but not in the same way(not in a bloody kind of way...). Soo get in there! Experiment. It will pave the way for a *much* more enjoyable first time and for years of more enjoyable times to come. Yes, I am giving you old lady advice. haha
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ninjagirls wrote:

Does sex hurt the 1st time? I also seen a few sex topic/threads on here so was just wondering from anyone who had sex for the 1st does it hurt? How was your 1st time?



I not going to have sex any time soon I am still waiting for the right guy but just asking to know for when am ready



If this thread been done plz lock it up



For most girls, it will hurt. There will be blood.

But if your man loves you he will accommodate for this and will ease you into it. Shortly thereafter the feelings will change from pain to pleasure.
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Posted 4/12/12
It does for girls unless their hymen has already been broken.
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Its called popping your cherry for a reason it kinda hurts when the cherry pops but its different for everyone. It shouldn't be after your first time otherwise get checked.
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Posted 4/12/12
I've been told by my gay male friends that anal hurts the first 4 or so times, but it really depends on what you've done first. If you've already inserted non-penis things in there, the difference will be much less than if you hadn't.

So, if you don't want it to hurt as much, try putting other things in there first. If you work your way up slowly, you'll be fine.
Posted 4/12/12

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NeOnCoOl wrote:

sex herts a girl 1st time and probly 2nd and 3rd time

sex hearts men after they cum


really? when i cum it never feels bad i dought a pussy will hurt when u cum when ur hand doesn't


no clue about males rilly just what i herd from loots of guys
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Posted 4/12/12
It honestly depends on the girl. If you've been active most of your life, playing sports, being in gymnastics, horseback riding, ect... Most likely your hymen has already torn from the activity. Also, some girls are born without hymens, or their hymens are very thin. Just take it slow, use lube if you need to, and RELAX. Usually it's being nervous about having sex that makes girls not relax their pelvic floor, which then will be sore.

I'm not saying that it won't hurt, I am saying you can minimize the hurt.

P.S. Look into Kegels. If you can control your pelvic floor muscles, it makes it more fun for everyone.
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