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Does it hurt the 1st time?
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Fliegar wrote:



27, virgin, still looking for my wife to be, but I doubt I'd have any trouble. Males can have bad first times too, so I think it's a perfectly legit question for males as well.





Damn you made it to 27?! I must congratulate you.




Fliegar wrote:

I know it's a little off-topic, but the sentiment about having no sex before marriage kind of bothers me. it's a nice thought, a girl saving herself for marriage and all, or even guys who abstain from it until then, but bad sex, or different likes and dislikes in a sexual relationship can often be enough to screw over all but the best relationships. I'm not really advocating going out and screwing everyone to try them out, but make sure that you actually, you know, enjoy having sex with the person you're going to marry.

On topic, I'd count on it hurting the first time. Everyone is different, so you may only experience a small amount of pain if it is your first time, but relaxing would be a good place to start.




I can kinda get what this guy is saying. I mean sexual experience varies from person to person. A person can be a dead lay, but they can infact learn to be a great lay. Besides women don't have much window of movement during sex anyways, but knowing how to do the small things like whispering, saying lewd things, and butt grabbing can make up for that. But its true though, bad sex usually results in most breakups.




mystic17 wrote:

I knew this was directed towards intercourse when I first saw this.

Anyway, it varies for each person since everyone experience is different. I've heard different stories from both genders. Some women said it does and some says it doesn't. Some males comment on their experience and said it's uncomfortable if their partner is too tight(?).


It only feels uncomfortable if the girl is dry as a rock.
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The 9 girls i had sex with all said it hurt but they all said i was good at sex
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Everything can hurt if you let it.
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Harubunnyx wrote:

Yes. Immensely. Then you can't walk for days..happened to me.


Elephants usually don't make great first partners, not being able to walk is abnormal lol.

Why so many threads like this on CR, damn, go experiment yourselves.
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unhip wrote:

The 9 girls i had sex with all said it hurt but they all said i was good at sex


Well done, needed to quote the amount and what they said about your performance.

I am going to go ahead and assume you are a virgin.
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your assumptions may be right but they are wrong this time. But i never said what the girls did when they found out they were not the first. I am a really big asshole
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unhip wrote:

your assumptions may be right but they are wrong this time. But i never said what the girls did when they found out they were not the first. I am a really big asshole :)


Now I really believe you're a virgin.
Posted 4/15/12
I wonder if my cock hurt the girl's mouth that one time.
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LOL
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yes unless the use of fingers are slowly introduced to get yourself um "ready"
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Lewstherin9000 wrote:

They say if foreplay lasts long enough it wouldn't hurt , or just a bit , but guys don't tend to give long foreplay and dive straight in , just make sure u don't regret it & that he likes & respects you not for your looks , but for your personality and good manners , cause if its the opposite then you've probably gotten yourself into one of the worst relationships of your life with a bastard who's just using you , excuse me for the language ^^; , i knew someone who got into that type of relationship , i spent over a year trying to get her out of it , you see , once u have sex , your body makes a bond with the other persons body , your brain and body become dependent upon sex to relieve stress , & upon his sweet nothings to make u feel wanted , just be extremely careful , many girls/women are having bad relationships than gd ones , May God guide you to the best of decisions =]


I totally agree with you on that one! its true do you make a special bond and rely on the person... women should be careful men too of course
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=)
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Take things slowly, you don't wanna just jam the rod up in there as hard as you can, of course its gonna hurt, you are tearing a membrane in your body. But if you go slowly, it won't hurt as much because your body will eventually get used to it.... Don't do the old bandaid rule (Pull it off in one quick motion.)
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If you break her hymen, then yes it will hurt her. On the other hand, some guys would just feel strange inserting it for the first time... and not aroused right away.
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I guess I was one of the lucky ones - didn't hurt and didn't bleed (YAY me!). Either that or I was just that big of a perv at 17...O_o
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