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what would you do if your friend told you that they like you?
Posted 4/17/12
what would you do if your friend told you that they like you? explain what you would do and why? :3
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Posted 4/17/12
Isn't this a remake of a thread? Sounds familiar.

And honestly there is not much a person can really do. You can either acknowledge that person's feelings for what they are, or you can be honest and tell them you don't see them that way. If they are a real friend, they will understand.


Though I have a tendency of telling girls "one day", its the most ambiguous way to answer that kinda without having to give a direct answer.
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Posted 4/17/12 , edited 4/17/12

kekelovesbleach wrote:

what would you do if your friend told you that they like you? explain what you would do and why? :3


I would ask myself if I liked them. If the answer was yes, then I'd tell them.

If I didn't like them in the way they liked me, as in wanting to go "out" or date, then I would be honest with them. You must establish honesty with your friends, lovers, etc... even if it means a bit of short term pain for both of you. If you lie and go out with them because you don't want to hurt their feelings, you set yourself and them up for a life time of misery.

So what would I do? Be honest with them. There is no other way.

"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." ~Mark Twain

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Posted 4/17/12
there is a similar thread but it deals with a friend of the same gender telling them that they like you, while this appears to be any gender saying they like you. And I cannot give an accurate reply as this has not happened to me yet. but the people i confessed to always end up shocked and then ignore me. probably cuz they're guys too but hey.

--no religious nuts or homophobes comment on my post. I don't want your opinions on my life, 'My Life' get your own ;P--
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Woah...hahaha all i have to say is i laughed out loud at this....so i am fine with it...hahahahaha!!! Hilarious shizz....
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Posted 4/17/12
I have never had anyone (Girl) and thankfully never a (Guy) ask me out or confess to me i would like to think that if i felt that way towards the other person i would respond with i like you too, like Hairbelly wrote Honesty is key in subjects like these cause you could really end up ruining your life...or the other persons. I mean come on guys the days of (Bang and go) are pretty much over cause of the Cell phone....so be mindful and respect others feeling and your own i guess is what is to be learned from this thread. And another thing why Hairbelly? such a weird name...original but weird...
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Posted 4/17/12
Be truthful, yet nice. I mean, if they are your friend you should at least be able to give them that much.
Posted 4/17/12
You must be nuts.
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Posted 4/18/12
Oh I had a few friends like that, once they were in friend mode I never once thought about dating them and it ruined our friendship in each insistence. My point is to choose wisely, if you really like them you may want to give it a shot however once you give it a shot and it doesn't work out, then you lost a friend in most cases. If you don't return their feeling, then you probably won't be friends anymore either. So yeah, good luck.
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Posted 4/18/12
i hate it when something like that happens because it usually ruins the friendship and its freaking awkward!!
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Posted 4/18/12
It's happened before, I forgot what I replied to them. Today, I'd tell them that they could do so much better.
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Posted 4/18/12
Honesty is the best policy, and sometimes it may hurt but better to get the pain over with quickly than to build it up and slam their hopes into the ground.
Posted 4/18/12

TrinTrinTrinity wrote:

Be truthful, yet nice. I mean, if they are your friend you should at least be able to give them that much.


I agree
Posted 4/18/12
One of my friends did say they liked me sooo a month later i asked if they still did, they said yes so i asked them out :3
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Posted 4/18/12
Tell them no, once you get to the friend stage there is no going back for me sadly, you get to see them like your brothers and then if you think of it that way it is a little creapy haha
and i saw the pic of the dog so i want to rival it hehe
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