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Are you still friends with your ex?
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Posted 4/25/12 , edited 4/25/12
Just wondering if people here still are friends with their exes?

Out of them all, I only still really stay in touch with one. Even then its pretty awkward, but I do it cause I still have tons of harbored, deep seated feelings for them, they just wont die. Even though its been so long. I guess when you love someone, you can't truly get over them, even after all the violent arguments. She has a tendency to delete me from facebook when ever I get a new girl, so I guess she still has feelings for me, she does a good job with the guilt trips and strolls down memory lane. I remember asking to kick it with her, she originally was cool with it, then Her BF had logged on on her facebook like a day later, and boy he did not like that. But I told him, like I'd tell anyone. I really don't give a fuck if shes my friend, past love, or what ever her status quo is to me, as long as shes in my life im fine, and thats all I really want.

One sentence is enough to change the course of someones entire life though, I know thats for sure. I often wonder if she was my soul mate, cause how I felt, and still feel for her Ive never reached that peak of emotions for anyone else, not even my current GF. But, i fucked up , so its my problem that I have to deal with. But I have no regrets though.

How about you guys?

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She wanted to remain friends, so I did what she wanted and tried to stay her friend. However, she was clearly putting no effort into the thing. I was always the one who had to initiate and orchestrate everything and she became increasingly flaky. I wanted her to pull her own weight, but she did not even after I talked to her a few times about it. I got tired of it and stopped talking to her out of annoyance about half a year after our split. She probably never even noticed.
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Posted 4/25/12
Well, we are now technically "Friends" but no contacts. xD
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18 / M / Cloud Nine
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I guess you could say that we are friends of sorts, however there are unresolved issues that we don't bring up and decide to skirt around. I like it that way.
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Nope, doesn't work.

You can try for a little while, but its to damn awkward, especially if it got to the point of being a sexual relationship. Can't look at each other the same afterwards.
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20 / M / Australia
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I'm still friends with some of my exes.
One of them's my best friend and we talk every day with no feelings of awkwardness or anything.
Things stay strictly neutral, we still love each other but things didn't work out for a reason, we accept that
and simply get on with our lives. She has a boyfriend and she's happy with him, whilst im happy with being single.
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19 / F / America
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Yay for loners! You don't have to worry about this kind of stuff. Hurr hurr.
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Nope. Not after what I was put through.
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Yeah, kind of.

We've broken up before and gotten back together so we can't really ever be mad at one another.
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My ex recently tried to send me a pitiful self-flagellating apology via facebook. I was gonna respond, I was gonna be a bitch, I was gonna say "Yes, I will completely forgive you after all these years if you just give me back the rest of my f$#!ng anime collection, you pestilent old thieving maggot!!!!"

...

But then I realized... Not responding is the most powerful response I could give. I do not even respect you enough to 1. Care. nor 2. Forgive.

You didn't care then, and you only care now because your life sucks dirty unwashed homeless buttholes, which you deserve, but I refuse to give you the pleasure of even assuming I am willing to speak to your disgusting ass to tell you how much you have reaped what you sowed.

Or I could just be an evil, malicious, malcontent wench who, given the opportunity, would not piss of them if they were on fire.



In summation, no good ever comes from talking to your exes.
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21 / F / NYC
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Not really, its awkward and talking to them only brings back old feelings. Its like torture when your feeling lonely. I only greet them and ask how they are doing and move on.
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21 / M / Maryland
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lol, my ex..dude i can't even get a hold of her.
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LynnTerra wrote:

Nope. Not after what I was put through.


^This
Posted 4/25/12 , edited 4/25/12

ChaseTheCase wrote:

Just wondering if people here still are friends with their exes?

Out of them all, I only still really stay in touch with one. Even then its pretty awkward, but I do it cause I still have tons of harbored, deep seated feelings for them, they just wont die. Even though its been so long. I guess when you love someone, you can't truly get over them, even after all the violent arguments. She has a tendency to delete me from facebook when ever I get a new girl, so I guess she still has feelings for me, she does a good job with the guilt trips and strolls down memory lane. I remember asking to kick it with her, she originally was cool with it, then Her BF had logged on on her facebook like a day later, and boy he did not like that. But I told him, like I'd tell anyone. I really don't give a fuck if shes my friend, past love, or what ever her status quo is to me, as long as shes in my life im fine, and thats all I really want.

One sentence is enough to change the course of someones entire life though, I know thats for sure. I often wonder if she was my soul mate, cause how I felt, and still feel for her Ive never reached that peak of emotions for anyone else, not even my current GF. But, i fucked up , so its my problem that I have to deal with. But I have no regrets though.

How about you guys?



Respectively speaking about my exes, the majority turn into stalkers so no.
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25 / F / Georgia
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Posted 4/25/12
I wouldn't mind since we both were immature and ignorant and not ready for a relationship. I do miss when we hanged out and could be silly with each other before those absurd emotions arose between us. I haven't seen my ex though in 3 years unfortunately so I won't know if he would feel the same as I do.
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