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Are you still friends with your ex?
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31 / F / Pa, USA
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Posted 8/12/12
The older I get the more I realize how truly rare it is to maintain an actual friendship with your ex's. When I talk about a friendship I don't just mean can I still talk to the person if I run into them somewhere and be civil, I mean maintaining a friendship where you still hang out, do things together, share life experiences, etc. I have found this to be very rarely the case, unfortunately. I am civil with all of my ex's and still somewhat close acquaintances with others, but I don't think I could honestly go as far as to say friends. The way I look at it is if a friendship didn't precede your dating, then chances are when you break it off and especially if you are the one to break it off, the person isn't going to still want to be all that close.
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Posted 8/12/12
hmm yes with one. i talk to him every blue moon but he wants more then i would care to give.
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20 / M / bloomington, IL
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Posted 8/13/12
basically in the same position as you shes not talking to me cause her new bf wellnt let her even though he talked to all the time while me and her were dating either way im still in love with the person who hurt me most
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Posted 8/13/12
That depends.
If you were friends before dating each other then broke up, it might be awkward but possible to stay friends.
Then again, be friends with ex that hurts during the relationship? Give that up. Not going happen.
Posted 8/14/12
I´m friends with all of mine except for one who was just completely out of line and sometimes its hard to just be friends.
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26 / F / IL
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Posted 8/14/12 , edited 8/14/12
one, we barely talk. i try not to be friends with them, i just can't deal with it. it always brings drama.



P.S. but it's hard to just throw away a relationship when you put your heart into it.
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26 / F / IL
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Posted 8/14/12

DangerousYams wrote:

Nope, no friends with any of my Ex's. All of them were bad breakups.


well well, the truth comes out! lol
Posted 8/14/12

cross77 wrote:


DangerousYams wrote:

Nope, no friends with any of my Ex's. All of them were bad breakups.


well well, the truth comes out! lol


Well, I wouldnt say its one of my finer qualities but.... cant worry bout what happened in the past.
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26 / F / IL
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Posted 8/14/12

DangerousYams wrote:


cross77 wrote:


DangerousYams wrote:

Nope, no friends with any of my Ex's. All of them were bad breakups.


well well, the truth comes out! lol


Well, I wouldnt say its one of my finer qualities but.... cant worry bout what happened in the past.



lol i'm just messing with you. i saw your post and i thought "eh, i'm bored miz'well mess with him."
Posted 8/14/12 , edited 8/14/12
Yeah, my ex is my best guy friend..... But he wants to get back together. ^^"
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Posted 8/14/12
I think there will always be feelings between two people who used to be in a romantic relationship. Even if you're still best friends, I feel like you're always going to remember the good times and possibly want to go back in time. Which usually makes me regret my decisions. So, I guess you could still be friends, but for me, I'm not.
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Posted 8/15/12
Nope. I don't keep in touch with my last ex gfs, they did me wrong, so i dont see a friendship can happen.
Posted 8/15/12
No, I told her that I was going out to get some milk and never went back.
Posted 8/15/12
no i am not -.-
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23 / M / San Diego, USA
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Posted 8/15/12
Yep. All of em. No reason not to be.
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