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Are you still friends with your ex?
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Posted 8/15/12 , edited 8/15/12
Ha ha, which one?

Some of them I am happily friends with as they have wives of their own now and there is no romantic interest between us.

Others, there may be some romantic interest still there on one side or another (I can never tell with boys.. they are crafty), but it isn't going anywhere or doing harm, so I see no reason not to be friends with them.

Still other exes of mine? Hell no, I will not talk to them. One threw me into a wall, dumped me and then started seeing a girl who was one year younger than I was at the time (and this was all still while he was married and they were going through a pseudo divorce!). Another one treated me like some dirty little secret and made other people in our group believe I was a crazy, bipolar nutjob until I found the ability to prove what had been going on (IE. I could pinpoint to his housemates the date and time when a certain object was delivered to their house.. something that I only would have known because I was there. I could also describe their entire apartment in detail, even though I supposedly had never been invited there).. so yeah, I don't talk to those people anymore.

And yet again, one or two of them have been so passive aggressive that I just can't deal with it. One was an alcoholic.. the other was just way too emotionally needy.

And of course, another one was a jackass who was a religious bigot being controlled by his mother who had the gall to come to my apartment and tell me that 'no matter how many times he took a shower, he would never be clean'.. because apparently being in proximity to me made him instantly dirty, despite the fact I did none of the things I was accused of.. and he didn't even bother to find out the truth.

Needless to say, I am SO happy college is done and over with. It was like high school for adults. And what was sad was that all these immature people (excluding the exes I still talk to) were all older than I was!

So in short, the answer is both yes and no. It depends on the ex.
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21 / M / In someone's heart.
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Posted 8/15/12
I do with only two but sometimes things get wierd o.o
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26 / F / Boston
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Posted 8/15/12
Nope.
Posted 8/19/12
We don't hate each other but neither do we talk to each other a lot.
They get on with their lives like I do.
Posted 8/19/12
We are still civil and I we switch off with the kids but that's about it. If you cant get along and you don't like eachother it just doesn't work. I tried for six years. I know
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20 / F / Uk
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Posted 8/19/12
He doesn't exist....yet
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F / потерян
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Posted 8/19/12
A couple of them.
Posted 8/19/12
Well, I'm on good terms with most of them. We aren't really CLOSE anymore but we will greet each other and catch up from time to time.
Posted 8/19/12
It was awkward at first but yeah, we stayed friends. Just have regular conversations now & then.
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116 / M
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Posted 8/19/12
of course, how else are you supposed to achieve ultimate revenge?
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28 / M / SC, USA
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Posted 8/19/12
I suppose. It's sometimey though.
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26 / M / FL
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Posted 8/19/12
Nope, I broke up with my last ex on good terms and she said she wanted to remain friends, but i'm pretty sure she removed me from all her contacts in order to try and forget about me.
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25 / M / Somewhere.... per...
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Posted 8/19/12
It gets awkward...
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22 / F / USA
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Posted 8/20/12
I'm still friends with most of them but things aren't the same lol.
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20 / M / bloomington, IL
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Posted 8/21/12
my ex called me today after 3 months of no contact at all and she just yelled at me for posting facebook status about me still likeing her. thats not stoping me from trying still lol. but to answer your question im going to say no
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