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23 / M / Missouri
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Posted 4/27/12
Rejection is a part of life. For that matter, its not worth worrying your entire life wondering what that person would have said.
Posted 4/28/12
Well, sometimes knowing that someone you like doesnt have the same feelings for you is the right thing.

It would be a lot painful if it's too late.
As days go by, love will grow bigger than before.

and blah blah blah.
I seriously hate speaking in serious mode ._____.
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22 / M / Hueco Mundo
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Posted 4/28/12
Nah not yet.. xD
Posted 4/28/12 , edited 4/28/12

NyuBoom wrote:

Is it better to be rejected then to keep your feelings on the inside?
My friend likes this guy and they chat sometimes but he's not into her at all.
He can be cruel and I'm afraid he will break her heart into pieces if she ever confesses >.>

I mean maybe there is no point to it, but for her sake I wanna be able to give good advice.

Yeaaaaah.


A friend. *cough*


& don't let this Ipooch distract you :]


Rejection doesn't necessarily mean give up. It really depends how an individual sees and understands the act of rejection. I see it as keep trying but since you've already mentioned that the boy takes no interest whatsoever to your friend, then your friend should try to fish for the other boys in the sea. 'This guy' is not the only one in the world, you know.
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Posted 5/3/12 , edited 5/3/12
rejection is good. early on. if u dont do it early and let it last. u give the illusion that there a chance. worse thing u can do. leave it to late and u break someone heart or lead them to insanity and even suicide
Posted 5/4/12
Don't take it like a hammer on your head like your at loss. Feel disgruntled if you may but whatever you do don't try to improve at all as a result. Do that at your own pace and need.

Handing that person the leeway to consume you and your life is just silly. That person who rejected you shouldn't consume you and your life. They were given the chance to get in it but refused. An opportunity was lost to the nay sayer. They rejected a gracious offer.

Someone will accept it.
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Posted 5/4/12 , edited 5/4/12
He Should Tell The Truth and Accept Everything What She Decided because thats the true Feeling on His Heart... Even Do.. I dont have Any Girlfriend yet I feel I'm saying a Good Advise
Posted 5/4/12
If you don't try, you'll never know.

And I know there are others who will try and when you lose that person to someone else, you will be left wondering... what if.
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Posted 5/4/12
you don't want to suffer the "what if"
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Posted 5/4/12
That depends on the person I guess. If a person thinks they'll drive themselves mad because they never knew the answer, they should just put it out there and accept that it might not turn out the way they hoped. Or if they're certain it's futile and not worth trying, they should be able to let it go and not brood about it. Either way, the person should be able to accept the reality of the situation and move forward. I know that's easier said than done.
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Posted 6/5/12
I like to avoid it by not expecting anyone to accept me
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25 / M / Nova Scotia, Canada
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Posted 6/5/12
When in doubt .. be honest. In both cases. Both parties should be honest. Be honest about his true nature and tell her to be honest about her true feelings.

Or you can get tangled up in a needlessly intricate web of lies and drama. That's a popular choice, too.
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24 / F / Texas
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Posted 6/5/12
I can see why she's struggling. Like her, I'm the same, afraid of being rejected and especially by the boy you really like. In my opinion if a boy like's you, he should be the one that ask out the girl but in many situations I've been through, the boys don't even have the balls to ask out the girl when the girls knows that the boy likes her but the boy is way too damn shy. Especially the guy she likes right now, he might act cruel and mean but a lot of times it might be that he doens't know how to show a girl that he likes her but he does it through by being extremely cruel too her. I was in that situation in which the boy I like would be mean to me but I had a speculation he liked me too because of my friend lol. I guess maybe she has a hunch in her own way that he likes her but I guess she wants the boy to ask her out.
YOu should tell her to investigate if this boy has any chance of liking her by through friends. Friends are a perfect way to figure out if the boy likes her not
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Posted 6/6/12
most people said it already, its part of life.... and it sucks...
Posted 6/6/12
i always reject it because i don`t always accept buddy request
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