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How can you tell if someone is single?
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you could just talk to him and ask. Start the conversation with anything like: How is your day?, etc and go from there.
Posted 5/21/12
ask them?????
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I thought that was what Facebook was for? I'm not even joking, either.
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Winterfells wrote:

Best way for there to not be any misunderstandings is to not assume. Sure there are rules of thumb but what it sounds like is that you want to be sure.

If it's too busy during a particular time, try to catch him during an off-peak hour and just start a friendly conversation with him. Share things about your life and he'll likely tell you about his life in return. If you do this for a while and establish a rapport you can ask to hang out, etc.

You can look at his ring finger to see whether he's married or not, but food workers do have a tendency to take off their rings while they're handling food. It goes back to just taking the time to get to know him, and having some bravery and confidence in yourself.

Good luck to you. :)




Thank you You have a good answer with some good advice and there are some others who also have some good advice as well
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if they're interested they'll let u know
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Make a play for him or her and see what they do?
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pretty much paraphrasing what's been said already, but..

yeah, engage the dude in conversation. we're way more timid & oblivious than we'd like to reveal.

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gaara wrote:

Thank you You have a good answer with some good advice and there are some others who also have some good advice as well


*bows

It's not a one-size-fit-all solution but I hope it works for you.

Really, I know people say this all the time but you literally have nothing to lose and everything to gain by taking this chance to get to know him.

A lot of guys have a hard time with subtlety and recognizing body language - so if a girl is really interested in a guy who seems unresponsive it might just be that he's missed all the clues.

If it works out you have the start of a budding relationship, and if it doesn't you won't beat yourself up later or regret not trying.

Keep us updated on how it turns out, I know I'm curious.
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lord0bacon wrote:

I thought that was what Facebook was for? I'm not even joking, either.


Actually no. My friend has been dating her boyfriend for a few months now and neither of them have changed their status to "In a relationship"
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Dont bother looking for signs, takes way too long just Ask ;3
Posted 5/22/12
As the person above said, by asking them nicely.
Posted 5/22/12
It depends on howwell you already know the person and your motivation. if you already know them on a personal level and/or are looking for a relationship and not just a date, you should find out before hand. it shows more interest and seems less superficial. if it's just an acquaintance or someone you have just met but don't know well and/or are only wanting to start out with a simple date without calling it a relationship, just ask the person out. it's more classy and shows more initiative if you invite them on a date as opposed to the "are you in a relationship" question. usually the other person won't hold you accountable for not knowing information you aren't privy to. it's also more the responsiblity of the person that answers to be honest about whether or not they are single than your responsibility to guess correctly.
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Posted 5/22/12
ask them
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if you live in US, all you need to do is go to class, seems anyone w/ a bf/gf will use every chance to bring up a personal story involving them in class discussion.
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Your best bet is just keep talking with him when he not so busy just keep trying hopefully you will know soon Other ways could tell if someone is single is how they are with other ppl if a guy or girl flirts a lot with other ppl they might be single Also if you start talking with him and he dont seem like he want to talk back with you then that could mean he has a gf
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